Blackpill There is a "power gradient" in relationships: women are in power.

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The "power gradient" or "power imbalance" argument is used by feminists such as Marie Joan from Germany to oppose any age-gap romantic and sexual relationships where the man is older than the woman. But are men really in power?

First, women enter puberty earlier than men and, as a result, make their first romantic and sexual experiences at a younger chronological age than men. Teenage women have a clear understanding of romance and sex.

Second, love and sex take far less effort for women at a reproductive age to attain than for men. A woman can hardly be "bad in bed", given that her role in lovemaking is largely passive (more details). Mating and intercourse are largely active for men while being passive for women, meaning sexual experience is easier for women to gain.

Third, age alone does not determine the "power" in a relationship. A man can be sexually inexperienced at thirty years of age, or well-experienced at age 20. Because most women are sexually experienced by the time they become adults, they have little to no tolerance for beginners.

There is no substitute for teenage love. – The vicious cycle of sexual inexperience.

What school doesn't teach you: There is no substitute for teenage love. Men who miss out on becoming romantically and sexually active during their teenage years will be stuck in the vicious cycle of sexual inexperience as adults: They are undesirable to women due to their lack of experience...

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Fourth, it is the woman who gets to pick from the masses of men. Men have to apply, somehow show that they are good enough, and hope that they don't get accused of sexual harassment.

Nowadays, men can even be accused of sexual harassment without pursuing a romantic and/or sexual relationship to a woman. Even being near a woman at a reproductive age causes a risk of being accused.

And as soon as a woman raises such an accusation, everyone sides with her, including white knight men, who want to virtue-signal, subconsciously hoping to be accepted as a romantic partner by her and to hurt a competitor.

How do I know? First-hand experience.

Women at a swimming pool accused me of "sexual harassment". The life guards sided with them.

I was accused of sexual harassment by women visiting a swimming pool, and the life guards predictably sided with them. In the current white knighting culture we live in, I knew years ago this would eventually happen. My parents used to dismiss it as absurd, but now, they finally understand the...

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Fifth, it is usually women who desire a more "powerful" man. Since the stone age, women have mated with stronger, more powerful, higher status man, such as this woman with the captain of a ship:

Old whore’s chance encounter with Chad 57 years ago that caused her to leave her beta bf makes national news on CNN.com

JFL the brazenness and narcissism of these old whores. The article is long as hell and I didn’t even bother reading it all, just posting it here for posterity. But basically the tl;dr is almost 60 years ago, this dumb whore who had a bf met a “tall handsome” yacht owner Chad in Mexico...

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Women at any age pick more muscular and wealthy men because they are, evolutionary speaking, better protectors and providers.

Sixth, Briffault's law states the following:

The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.

(sources: Incel Wiki, WikiMANNia)

Seventh, the definition of "consent" has become narrower over time. What was acceptable a few decades ago might not be acceptable nowadays.

What is noticeable is that over the decades the concept of “True Consent” has gotten narrower and narrower. This is partly because of how feminists and many other modern people conceive of Power. They find it everywhere (the personal is political), and they tend to believe or pretend to believe that EVERY SINGLE POWER DIFFERENTIAL is harmful.

(source: Teen Sex Moral Panic: The Erroneous Conflation of the Language and Concepts of Child Molestation to Adult-Teen Sex. - Beyond Highbrow )

I expect the "vulnerable position" to be so loosely defined that it can mean nothing more than she likes you and was thus made "vulnerable" by her own feelings of infatuation, as is so well precedented by the "abuse of position" law which has already been used for decades in this way to convict teachers and coaches and so on.

(source: Eivind Berge's Blog: Norway gets statutory rape for all ages )

Examples for successful age gap relationships include actor Paul Walker with his then-teenage woman Jasmine Pilchard-Gosnell (source, he was also called a "creep"), and world-famous DJ Tiësto, who started a family with the then 23-year-old Annika Backes Verwest (source).

Tiësto had the weallth, Annika had the fertility. From his point of view, it made sense to pick a woman that age. Or should he have picked a 38-year old who is nearly menopausal?

Feminist Marie Joan also shamed Jeremy Fragrance (née Daniel Średziński) for stating he is looking for a woman below the age of 32 (source). Did he work hard to become wealthy, just to get a used-up woman who has had a double-digit romantic or sexual partner count that she would subconsciously compare him with, and doesn't have much time left to start a family?

It's very easy to see why incels exist when you look at it from the perspective of a young man, in our modern society.
A young man who has worked very hard and is currently trying to break into the career market, just so he can work a job every day for the rest of his life, to make enough money so that in his thirties, some woman, who has three kids of three different men might settle down with him, who might deem him worthy, is just a very frustrating thought for a young guy.

It's incredibly depressing, and it's no surprise that these dudes get full of resentment.

Women are raised to believe that a man has to be 6'5" [195 cm], and have six figures in his bank account, have a car, and a house, and have everything in his life sorted. But you can go through your twenties doing whatever you want, having sex with as many men as you want, showing terrible decision-making ability, and then when you're thirty, it's going to be a "virtuous thing" to come along and pick you and your three bastard children up.

And now, because you're both thirty, he might be lucky to only get a single child out of you. He might get two, maximum.

That's not how it works. Women need to be taught that if you want a good man, you have to commit to him while you're young. While you're at your peak value. Because as soon as you hit your late twenties, your physical appearance rapidly declines. Your ability to have children rapidly declines.

Every year that passes that you're not pregnant is a year that the man is missing out on having children.

And expecting men to be happy with this arrangement is exactly what is creating incels.

This is why incels are being created.

(source: Incels: Are women making them? - Malleate )

Do you want to know what a steep power gradient looks like? It exists - namely between the government and the rest of the inhabitants. It is the metaphorical "elephant in the room". As soon as the next pretense appears, the next big oppression will not be waiting for long, like coronavirus and the forced vaccines last time. (source: Coronavirus scare and the blueprint for slavery )

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The "power gradient" argument is used by feminists such as Marie Joan from Germany to oppose any age-gap romantic and sexual relationships where the man is older than the woman. But are men really in power?

First, women enter puberty earlier than men and, as a result, make their first romantic and sexual experiences at a younger chronological age than men. Teenage women have a clear understanding of romance and sex.

Second, love and sex take far less effort for women to attain than for men. A woman can hardly be "bad in bed", given that her role in lovemaking is largely passive (more details). Mating and intercourse are largely active for men while being passive for women, meaning sexual experience is easier for women to gain.

Third, age alone does not determine the "power" in a relationship. A man can be sexually inexperienced at thirty years of age, or well-experienced at age 20. Because most women are sexually experienced by the time they become adults, they have little to no tolerance for beginners.

There is no substitute for teenage love. – The vicious cycle of sexual inexperience.

What school doesn't teach you: There is no substitute for teenage love. Men who miss out on becoming romantically and sexually active during their teenage years will be stuck in the vicious cycle of sexual inexperience as adults: They are undesirable to women due to their lack of experience...

incels.is

Fourth, it is the woman who gets to pick from the masses of men. Men have to apply, somehow show that they are good enough, and hope that they don't get accused of sexual harassment.

Nowadays, men can even be accused of sexual harassment without pursuing a romantic and/or sexual relationship to a woman. Even being near a woman at a reproductive age causes a risk of being accused.

And as soon as a woman raises such an accusation, everyone sides with her, including white knight men, who want to virtue-signal, subconsciously hoping to be accepted as a romantic partner by her and to hurt a competitor.

How do I know? First-hand experience.

Women at a swimming pool accused me of "sexual harassment". The life guards sided with them.

I was accused of sexual harassment by women visiting a swimming pool, and the life guards predictably sided with them. In the current white knighting culture we live in, I knew years ago this would eventually happen. My parents used to dismiss it as absurd, but now, they finally understand the...

incels.is

Fifth, it is usually women who desire a more "powerful" man. Since the stone age, women have mated with stronger, more powerful, higher status man, such as this woman with the captain of a ship:

Old whore’s chance encounter with Chad 57 years ago that caused her to leave her beta bf makes national news on CNN.com

JFL the brazenness and narcissism of these old whores. The article is long as hell and I didn’t even bother reading it all, just posting it here for posterity. But basically the tl;dr is almost 60 years ago, this dumb whore who had a bf met a “tall handsome” yacht owner Chad in Mexico...

incels.is

Women at any age pick more muscular and wealthy men because they are, evolutionary speaking, better protectors and providers.

Sixth, Briffault's law states the following:

(sources: Incel Wiki, WikiMANNia)

Seventh, the definition of "consent" has become narrower over time. What was acceptable a few decades ago might not be acceptable nowadays.

(source: Teen Sex Moral Panic: The Erroneous Conflation of the Language and Concepts of Child Molestation to Adult-Teen Sex. - Beyond Highbrow )


(source: Eivind Berge's Blog: Norway gets statutory rape for all ages )

Examples for successful age gap relationships include actor Paul Walker with his then-teenage woman Jasmine Pilchard-Gosnell (source, he was also called a "creep"), and world-famous DJ Tiësto, who started a family with the then 23-year-old Annika Backes Verwest (source).

Tiësto had the weallth, Annika had the fertility. From his point of view, it made sense to pick a woman that age. Or should he have picked a 38-year old who is nearly menopausal?

Feminist Marie Joan also shamed Jeremy Fragrance (née Daniel Średziński) for stating he is looking for a woman below the age of 32 (source). Did he work hard to become wealthy, just to get a used-up woman who has had a double-digit romantic or sexual partner count that she would subconsciously compare him with, and doesn't have much time left to start a family?


(source: Incels: Are women making them? - Malleate )

Do you want to know what a steep power gradient looks like? It exists - namely between the government and the rest of the inhabitants. It is the metaphorical "elephant in the room". As soon as the next pretense appears, the next big oppression will not be waiting for long, like coronavirus and the forced vaccines last time. (source: Coronavirus scare and the blueprint for slavery )

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"The 6/6/6 rule is just asking for a normal guy."

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ma8h0a/the_666_rule_is_just_asking_for_a_normal_guy/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button They were laughing together and joking about how unrealistic wanting six inches, six feet...

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Why agecucks are opposed to adult-teen couples.

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In normie relationships women are in full control due to the sheer SMV discrepancy.
Only chads can have somewhat equal relationships but even then.... there will be some arguments
One good example is my tall father who married my short mother who betabuxxed for him for some time

 

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