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No. 2909787
As the title says.
Post experiences, why you can't stand them and such.
This is NOT about your own disorder, so don't blogpost/vent, there's already a thread for that.
This thread is about mental illness you can't stand in others.
Please refrain from coming in this thread and say stupid shit like "Oh that's why nobody likes me" or "Damn seeing this thread as a [thing] sufferer makes me uncomfortable" because nobody will pity you OR to defend a specific disorder because "[thing] people are actually etc etc" because seeing patterns is not illegal. If your disorder gets posted here, cope and hide the thread, don't be a little bitch.
People are here to vent and some also have traumatic experiences, do not nitpick about "But the DSM V says-", don't care, no one here has the power to change the whole diagnostic world so a nobody on the internet isn't gonna change anything, plus most of the times official papers are unreliable so don't take that as the mental illness bible and don't use that against nonnies.
People you don't like aren't necessarily mentally ill, so don't get too much bloggy and keep the convo related to actual mental illness/traits.
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>>>/ot/2630528 No. 2910041
>>2910035Nta but wanting other people to develop something similar/go through something traumatic is retarded though kek
Kek
No. 2910053>>2910159
>>2910021The ones who bully other traumatised people just because of their trauma?
>Hurr durr MY trauma made me strong and yours made you weak! That sort of retardation, often found in boomers and veterans who constantly have to bring up the fact they fought in scary big strong wars. Not people who call themselves survivors to cope.
No. 2910063>>2910069
>>2910057You too.
>>2910058How is that even asexual? If you sexualise things?
No. 2910077>>2910159
>>2910021Where did I say I was mad at them for being traumatised?
I said I hate the ones who act like everyone else should go through the same nasty shit, and who constantly parade their trauma around, did you read that part at all? Telling yourself you are strong for surviving something is how many people heal, obviously. Telling others they should also go through pain and suffering to be strong like you gets harmful. You see it in a lot of the older generation wanting the younger generations to go through their harsh punishments and abuses because we're apparently too "soft".
No. 2910082
>>2910080No matter what you do they'll eventually spin and project it to you hating them anyway too. And then you get sick of them and they just use it to fuel their
victim complex again with wahhh everyone hates me everyone leaves me! Yeah we see why
No. 2910103
>>2910098I think the worse ones are the ones with a chip on there shoulder or those that look for friends in support groups to embrace there more dysfunctional sides; unironically doing the one thing I
hate that NTs do, which is take advantage of the social naivety of spergs ( sometimes compounded by being sheltered or coddled- especially and definitely the case of first world ones).
No. 2910107>>2910113
>>2910104Its a grey/ nuanced matter imo. In my country's support group I definitely see one or two fakers ( and at least an unironic likely Bippie chan who swindled her way into a diagnosis, which I've been told by others online and here are dime a dozen). Quite a few aren't but have that same chip on there shoulder I talked about and may want to make excuses for their flaws using a
valid diagnosis. Or are just annoying cunts. I feel not only is early intervention necessary for an autistic person and an Adhd to not lag behind emotionally with peers, it still won't do much if the Adhd/ autism person has no drive to self-improve and is complacent.
No. 2910159>>2910204
>>2910053>>2909813>>2910021>>2910077One of my aunts was a repeated
victim of rape as a kid and she never healed from it and this is unfortunately what she is. She would tell all the girls in the family growing up that we would never be strong, real women if they didn't go through repeated CSA like her. I don't know if she thinks it's a genuine rite of passage/badge of honor or if she just wants everyone else to suffer like her.
I understand something like that can absolutely fucking destroy a person with trauma, I'm no stranger to it personally. She probably has no personality other than the trauma due to it being repeated and it's all she knew, and that's horrific too, but telling a bunch of fucking kids that it's a good thing or that they should go and get it to be strong is just vile beyond belief
No. 2910166>>2910176>>2910198
>>2910021She worded it wrongly but being raped or abused as a child does shape you in a way and negatively impacts you. The whole “makes you stronger” is also harmful rhetoric. There is no real way to get over being raped.
Thing is that it makes others uncomfortable when people don’t get over it.
No. 2910176
>>2910166I think people are definitely balking against a common way to cope ( that never sat well with me) and Trauma i feel does weird shit to your brain and is a coin flip if the person still remains decent afterwards or strives to still be an empathetic human being or basically turns into a victimizing/
victim blaming nuisance and there's essentially no real pattern to how/ why people turn that way. People go through "less" and turn super twisted while people who go through "more" are very life affirming to be around and more likely to do the necessary healing to get to that stage
No. 2910204
>>2910198Nobody was getting mad at people who tell themselves they are strong to survive, you didn't read it past the first sentence. It's the ones like
>>2910159 who
use it to project onto others or tell others to go get traumatized too that are a problem
No. 2912396
>>2912315They don’t. Autism is a cognitive disorder. Empathy is required to be an active and functioning social being, autism literally impairs that.
But nowadays they try to push it as just a personality trait rather than an actual disorder and I think that does a major disservice to those suffering from it.
No. 2912413>>2912419
>>2912392Shit bait
>>2912326Not necessarily. You can imagine a hypothetical scenario and feel empathy for the people involved in it even if they don't exist
No. 2912517>>2912549>>2912575
>>2912400An overlapping thing I've noticed with tism and bpd. Nothing is wrong.. Are you mad at me?? Then the onus is put on you to reassure. However long that'll take. If you don't have all day to keep explaining yourself, gotcha that's just proof you were mad in the first place. It's a trap.
I esp don't get it when tism is involved because I swear alot of autistic women complain about being on the receiving end of the same shit. Judged for resting bitch face or for having a flat tone. Why do it
No. 2912575>>2912637>>2912656
>>2912517>If you don't have all day to keep explaining yourself, gotcha that's just proof you were mad in the first place. It's a trap.I was in relationship with a bippie moid that literally dragged arguments for days, and of course he was a neet and became a neet when we got a house together so I assured him housing, because he didn't like my replies.
it was always shit like
>I do thing>Bippie doesn't like my thing >"Anon you're a retard">"I know I'm not, you're the retard for acting like a child">"OMG anonn!!" argument follows>get tired (actually exhausted) from the argument, go to bed/focus on my interests/go out with friends>"Anon? Are you mad at me?">"Yes">"Oh my gooddddd I know I'm horrible">Me, stupid, replying "You just need to learn how to cope" ok, end argument>Day afted "anon are you mad at me" "no">a couple of hours after, "are you mad at me" "no">coming home from shift, tired from work "are you mad a me" "no, I'm tired">"Tired of me?? owwwwww I'm the worst!">"No I'm tired of work">"ok">after dinner "are you mad at me">"No.">"But I can FEEL it">"You are wrong">"How you dare tell me I'm wrong! (actually heard this shit with my own couple of bleeding ears) >Repeat, for daysThey're failed humans, they have two emotions (obsession and blind rage) and they shift in between them, we should put bpd under a disability.
No. 2912656
>>2912575We shouldn't kek they'll immediately swarm to collect disability benefits and it'll just make their
victim complexes a million times worse because the law now says they're
valid No. 2914093>>2914100>>2914121
>>2912637BPD should not be classified as a disability. Real disabled people typically want to live life as close to normal as they possibly can, bippies tend to
want to be called disabled (because it makes them a harmless
victim, which is a narrative that they usually always try to perpetrate), and they love to be thought of as helpless little crippled eternally 7 year olds. Plus they're typically some kind of addict too so if they got automatic free gubmint bux they'd spend it all on booze or drugs and then complain that the gubmint hates them and isn't giving them enough for food and necessities kek. What BPDemoms need is mandated therapy that forces them to grow the fuck up.
No. 2914879>>2915110
BDD.
Do you actually truly believe you were denied that job or your professor marked you down or people don't like you because your nose is 1mm shorter than the Hollywood standard or your jaw is 1° angled to the side?
Some forms of BDD should be lumped right into NPD. Sure you might not think everyone loves you but being that obsessed with yourself is the exact same shit, just different side of the coin.
You were denied that job and marked down because you're retarded and unqualified because all you do is obsess over your looks and body every day and you're an unlikeable cunt to begin with. BDDchans are extremely neurotic and any positivity or gentle advice will have them reeing until the cows come home. Not to mention the weird anachan/scrote tier/tranny tier standards they have for themselves.
>"Omg I'm so ugly because I'm a fatso (is BMI 18) and I hate being so tall and mannish (is 5'6), I wish I was a short pretty girly, I can't get a bf wahhh"
>"Those are completely normal things and not ugly, learn to love yourself first"/"I'm those things and it's not better"/"Wishing you the best"
>"REEEEE stfu you whore you'll never understand what it's like to be ME, you dumb sluts live on easy mode with all the dicks you suck, fuck you skinny pale short bitches, die, I hope you get raped and murdered by ugly fat insert race moids bb"
Yeah we see why nobody likes you. Keep going at it, maybe you'll attract one of your own too, match made in heaven.
BDDkuns are equally as obnoxious and love spreading their moidpill gymrat shit to literal children.
No. 2916027
>>2915110I've been treated as having undesirable features due to being a minority which was pretty disheartening but I don't get how people think their ethnicity makes them inherently ugly tbh. It's sad
>>2915112>pervertIt's always the neurotic people into weird fetishes who have the most drama too.
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do I need to say which one
No. 2918410
>>2917802People with ADHD are literally built not to prioritise you over whatever cheap dopamine they get.
Worse when it's in a partner. The amount of women who date an ADHD moid who's a porn and vidya addict due to it is pathetic. He's literally wired not to choose you, can't remember your birthday or anniversary but can remember a 30 character cheat code for hentai sex cat simulator 2000
No. 2918934>>2918947
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RSD isn't real, right? There's no way that "Has a panic attack every time someone calls them out on bad behavior" is a real disorder. This is clown world nonsense.
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2026/feb/25/rise-of-rejection-sensitive-dysphoria No. 2918947>>2918962
>>2918934It's not, like ODD doesn't exist.
"But my child is bratty and doesn't listen to me!" that's not a "Oppositive Disorder", it's just a kid. Munchies and malingerers really try the impossible to avoid responsibilities
No. 2918962>>2918971
>>2918947You know, I've never met an "Oppositional Defiant" whose parents weren't complete pushovers. Are we just medicalizing the results of bad parenting now?
>>2917596I don't accept childhood trauma as an excuse for bad behavior once someone has reached their 30s. It's just not healthy to excuse such things in my loved ones at my big age. If someone hasn't worked through their trauma responses within 12 years of adulthood, they probably aren't going to figure it out after that same time period.
No. 2921324>>2925704
I think that the dead giveaway of a lot of girls not having BPD is that they say stuff like "I have BPD but would never do this!"
Sure I'm happy but real bippies WOULD and they wouldn't care! That's the point!
When I hear bpd slander it's usually on the annoying side like "eugh bippies be dramatic" no nonnies, BPD people are a mental trap of manipulation, lies, attention seeking and abuse. Stuff that, if you're weak or sensitive, would make you actually kill yourself and I'm not gonna sugarcoat it. When I was deep into BPD abuse, I was exhausted and I lost so much faith in people that I actually thought about killing myself because in house I was treated like shit and outside the house I was treated like the worst person on earth for leaving poor bippie alone.
Bippie made himself at home at my home. It was easier to abandon my home and then make them get evicted. To get away safely I had to pack my stuff in my own home, leave and then call the police and tell them to kick him out.
>omg nonna that's extreme they're retarded anyway you could've done it!
The options were:
>Tell him to get the fuck out and get hit almost to death and then witness the "sob sob Im a bad person right? Sob sob" for the one hundred fucking time
>Come home to a bloody scene of him slicing his arms and leaving a note that I was responsible and I made him do it.
Saying "lol no hes fucking sick in the head" doesn't work in court. You will be taken into trials and good luck.
One advice that I want to give you: avoid antivictim spaces.
>What are anti victim spaces?
Spaces that use language/rhetorics like
>"Anon I know you're suffering but they suffer too!"
>"Anon by making him suffer you're not better than the ones that made him this way! (For some reasons they refuse to acknowledge the genetic component of BPD, as if it's a confirmation of their faulty, useless nature)
>"Anon, revenge is useless!" (Of course don't go full moid rage, but hurting them a little in the feefees that they don't have won't kill them, trust me)
>"Don't think about pain, you really want your life to be controlled by pain?"
>"We don't judge people here! (Of course they mean them, not you)"
These spaces use their same technique. A "safe space" telling you that you wouldnt be better than bippies is like a bippie telling you that you're a bad person if you try to be accountable.
They purposely target good people because they know that you will be sad to be called like a narc or something.
Never feel bad about hurting their feelings back. They don't have them.
It's not alogging, because to them face their actions is bad enough to make them kill themselves. Don't be afraid to be called a bitch, everyone would be a bitch when they've been pushed to the limit.
>But nonna, your case was extreme.
You never know with bippies. You never know if they will spiral or stop at the dramatic (still annoying) part of BPD.
We are all laughing here but please take them seriously and cut them off asap or make them not trust you before it's too late. I didn't and I was almost in trial for pedophilia because this fucker wanted to ruin my house by telling the cops that he was there to "control me" and I had "material" in my house. He wanted my privacy and house ruined upside down because I told him that he was gonna get evicted and if I was there in person, he would've probably hurt me.
>How?
Be flaky. Be silent. Never house them of course. They will get bored. Just go "ew" at their attention attemps.
Please, I beg you. Take this advice.
No. 2922379>>2922384
>>2922351>inb4 bullied by girls/had a bad mom when younger etcMy psych says I'm autistic (diagnosis still needs to be officialized so take this with a grain of salt) and the people who hurt me the most from childhood until late-teens were women, including my mom, yet I was always the feminist kid turned radfem teen who read theory every day. I'm not telling you this to look good or say "not all of us", I'm telling you this to drive home the point that the women you're calling out have no excuse whatsoever and are definitely chosing to be this way. It's sad.
>>2917217>Rainbow Dash coweringVery OOC. She's known for being brave and fast, she would've won against the nazis in that picture
No. 2925704
>>2921324My mother is NPD as fuck. Quite literally textbook. She was a monster to grow up with. And yet, every bippie I've ever met has absolutely eclipsed her in pure mindfuckery. My mother was at least easy to read with obvious motivations and
triggers. You can (literally, had a bippie moid break up with me for it) breathe wrong around someone with BPD and for some reason it destroys their inner world, ego, sense of self and security. There's no rhyme or reason. They're like if skittish horses were also incredibly manipulative and emotionally
abusive. Anything can fucking set them off.
No. 2925827>>2926172
>>2918990We're a few years into this bs of people armchair diagnosing every asshole in their life as having npd and bringing so much attention to it. This is what follows.
When men started casually deciding that their ex gfs and ex wives must all just be crazy bpd bitches, that put a spotlight on it and a lil while later women were self diagnosing despite it being a 'big stigma' dx that you shouldn't want. Same spotlight is on npd, it's thrown around too casually when it comes to diagnosing other people in your life. In come the larpers who just want to have the diagnosis of the moment.
No. 2926824
>>2918990Npd is the new trend now? Kek.
Last year it was autism, before it was DID, before it was tics and in the peak tumblr era everybody had major depression
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>>2928645nta but it reminds me of the Baldwin brothers kek
No. 2929137
>>2928631I don't really know how to say this properly but it's always so cringe when you're watching someone and you can tell what they
think they look like, kek
No. 2930431>>2930439>>2930470
>>2930375It bothers me a lot when people make a big deal out of every crime committed by a woman. Not because they shouldn't be criticized but because no one even gives a shit when men do terrible things, it's just considered the norm. The coverage is so disproportionate. Like all those female teachers that moids love to talk about as being groomers and loving young boys when in reality the opposite happens way more frequently(male teachers grooming female
victims)
No. 2930439
>>2930431moids will try anything to prove that they aren't as aggressively hostile as they seemingly are innate to being. So even if women are statistically less likely to commit sex abuse crimes, the mainstream media ran by moids will try and whitewash it with a female perpetrator and blur the line between men and their aggression. If women do it too they can just label it a "bad human thing" instead of moids being dangerous in nature. It's just manipulation, and the reinforcement of men as
victims and not the one making
victims, by doing this people are less likely to ask for moids to take accountability.
No. 2930590
>>2930518Ugh thanks for unlocking a repressed memory about this autist moid in high school who showed me furry
incest unbirth vore (unspoiler at your own goddamn risk.) Do retard adults still force autist to befriend autist moids? That was the worst social experiment.
No. 2930605
>>2930596Yeah fully grown adults, most seem to be trashy looking women and autism content creators so it makes sense that they're lazy and looking for "muh mental health" excuses to get out of helping with household tasks.
I once had a boyfriend try that excuse and had to tell him that if he's not going to do on his own and "can't" do it if I ask then there's no point in keeping him around if I'm already doing everything o n my own, and I never had that issue again.
I don't see why anybody's partners put up with that shit. It's so insanely selfish.
No. 2934357>>2934415>>2934699
>>2934340I don't think I have BPD but for as long as I've remembered when I saw something, I became that thing. For instance, I'd see someone with a tic, who would maybe slur a certain word, and I'd start doing it too without my will. I would absorb words I heard people around me say. If I was with someone who couldn't spell, my IQ also became lower. If I was with someone very happy, I became joyful too and my vocabulary increased. I found myself yawning and I'd look at the room around me and be exhausted even though I was well rested that night and see other people have yawned too. I'd learn about animals and their lives and I'd think "wow, they're so similar to me" and suddenly every person's behavior would seem animalistic as well, and I could pinpoint they did x because they were hungry, y because they wanted to reproduce, etc. I would hear someone's political opinions and my own would change, even unconsciously. And then at some point that'd stop. The world would change based on my beliefs. Do you also experience this? What do you think it is or causes it?
No. 2934960
>>2934387That's wild. The ones that I've seen are
always also coincidentally chronically online. They could be LARPing but none of the ones I've met
in person mention being late diagnosed. But they all mention shit like hating their elementary school teachers, insisting on stupid shit like sensitivity to food temperatures, and have a very clockable tone of speech.
No. 2937228>>2937233>>2937640
>>2936722I watched a video about the Twin Flames cult, and everyone who came onto it had a sob story about how they were soooo scared and couldn't leave because there would be "consequences"…and the whole time I was genuinely tweaking because this "cult" was a Facebook group.
A Facebook group. GROWN ADULTS WITH JOBS WERE ALLOWING THEMSELVES TO GET BULLIED IN A
FACEBOOK GROUP AND IT WAS RUN BY SOME LITERAL WHO FRUMPY SCAMMER COUPLE THAT NOBODY EVEN LIKED. And their business is still going! The only person I felt bad for was a woman who got groomed into dating an older,
abusive man when she was only a teenager. Everyone else is a fucking idiot.
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i always find it so cringe when bippies try to make their disorder out to be something aesthetic, sexy or cool. theyre literally the most vapid and often stupidest people ive ever met, who all live completely miserable empty lives searching for somebody or something to use for their next dopamine rush. nothing about that will ever be cute or desireable kek. go to therapy and become a better person (they wont ever do this)
No. 2946386>>2946436
>>2946384>beautiful princess disorderHow about violent abuser disorder?
They also think it makes them empathetic like nah mate real empathy is actually putting yourself in their shoes and not assuming how they feel and amplifying that
No. 2947101
>>2946384I have a bippie older sister who was actually diagnosed and while she isn't on social media parading her diagnosis, the vapid and stupid descriptors are apt. Just about all her actions are done for social media updoots from creepy scrotes and when I asked her why she feels the need to show off her barely-clothed body to strangers on the Internet, she got offended by my question and wouldn't give me a good answer.
On another note while we are on the topic of bippies, she came out a while back to my parents about getting breast implants because she claims she could not get her breasts bigger. She has extremely disordered eating and is thin as a stick. It's actually pretty concerning. Before her disordered eating, she looked normal and was not flat as a board. When my parents and I suggested she should just eat more instead of applauding her on getting breast implants, she got extremely pissy at us. Even her husband (i.e. her spineless enabler) did not agree she needed implants but is going to pay for them anyways for whatever reason. I hate him.
I don't talk to her anymore not only for these reasons but because, surprise, surprise, she was also
abusive to me when we were kids. She once confessed to me she actually got violent towards her last ex-boyfriend and has also slashed the car tires of people she hated.
No. 2948974>>2948980
>>2946618i hate malingers so much its unreal. i wish we could somehow take all the disabilities from real disabled people and give it to them since they want it so badly. however i dont really think its a zoomer thing necessarily, i see people of all ages pulling that bullshit
>>2948963people who cry over the "stigma" of cluster B personality disorders are always cluster Bs themselves or people who are malingering as one for edgelord purposes. its literally a
personality disorder. you have to have an awful personality and be harmful to other people to have it. theres no getting around that kek. a lot of them never even get diagnosed because its in their garbage personality's nature to avoid self betterment.
No. 2948980>>2949250
>>2948974I find it sad whenever young people (often teens who don't even qualify) think they have cluster b because they act a little violent and neurotic at times. To be fair in their defense, sources are all fucked up nowadays anyway. e.g. you have the ones who fake shit like apd because haha edgy psycho disorder but I've seen a few who fear they're one genuinely and that's why they fear the stigma
But like c'mon kiddo, it's diagnosed in violent juvie delinquents or like James Bulger's killers, not you. Your "lack of empathy" was just stealing $5 from your mom when you were 12, it's alright buddy
>its literally a personality disorder. you have to have an awful personality and be harmful to other people to have it.Yeah it literally
makes up who you are as a person. Or at least a majority of it. It's sad seeing people think they have one just because they exhibited one shitty symptom once. It's supposed to be exhibiting shitty symptoms 24/7
No. 2949250
>>2946384>>2948963They all think they're the most attractive person to ever walk the earth too kek, especially the bippie scrotes. Nothing riles them up faster than being ignored.
>>2948980Sometimes I wanna play along with the self-diagnosed ASPD people and reply to them like "omg me too! How many childhood pets have
you killed? Did you molest your classmates too?" but I resist the urge because that's mean, kek
No. 2949329>>2949725>>2950073
>>2948963>pedophilia is not a mental disorder and is 99% of the time a conscious, voluntary CHOICEI've been saying this for years and the proof is right under everyone's nose: when a bippie acts like a tard, their disorder keeps them from acting rationally, meaning they truly believe they're in the right and that's why is so hard to also escape their tacticts and the abuse could go on for years, meanwhile pedophiles know how they are in the wrong. Unless the pedophile is deeply disturbed and trying to claim that a little girl seduced him and is the exact same as an adult woman, like actual schizos or muslims do, the moment they get caught red handed they always lower their head and go "no no I wasn't doing that, no no, I swear" SO YOU KNOW! YOU KNOW IT'S WRONG! "nono, I would never!" you did! "No it was not me!" yes it was!
Being a pedophile is a choice and I'm sick of every uneducated fuck on the internet trying to say "we should let them heal and reducate them, since they have a disorder" no! They do not have a disorder, it's a choice! Either you make a conscious choice to be a pedo or you are a pedo because you know you wont face consequences, like in muslim countries and by definition, a disorder is something that disrupts the mind, if pedophilia was legal for 24 hours, we would have 24 hours of perfectly sane individuals touching kids. If the disease is society-made, it's not a disorder, it's barely a legal limit that people do not cross because they know of the consequences, sick people don't care at all, that's why bippies are so convinced that what they are doing is right, law or not.
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My pedophile ex wore a blue hat, and my latest ex wears a blue hat, therefore he's probably also a pedophile. Nothing is ever my fault.
No. 2949933
All moids with any kind of mental disorder/disability should be exterminated. Low functioning autistic women should be put down simply because it's cruel to let them live like that, and the bipolar ones are incredibly demonic.
>>2949755Kek it's so funny how porn addicted moids try to act like
victims as if the women (and children) involved aren't going through it even worse. Idk faggot, how about closing the computer lid for once.
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Self-haters/BDDfags and their bizarre hatred of positivity
>"Wahhh it's over for me, I'm so hideous! Can someone please tell me how to fix my flaws?"
>Clearly just looks like a normal person, they might even be cute
>"You look fine, OP, maybe if you exercise and eat healthier-"
>"WRONG! I'm the ugliest person to ever walk the planet and the only thing that will fix me is a $1000000 surgery to change my entire skeleton, you just won't say it because you're a LYING BITCH! How dare you ignore my negative canthal tilt, you whore?! Away with you! JAIL with you!! This is why I only take advice from good and honest people, like plastic surgeons and mentally ill men with jaw implants!"
>Hours of sperging about their elaborate plastic surgery plans
Like?? If you already "know" what's wrong with you and how to fix it, why tf are you even asking for my opinion?! Get fleeced then idiot idc. Are people really lying to spare your feelings, or is it just more comforting to believe that it's your maxilla driving potential partners away instead of your shit personality?
No. 2950852>>2950980
>>2950760Look I don't agree with bddfags either but…
>ugly, fat, disabled, and disfigured women fall in love They may be in love but the guy doesn't love them back. Moids don't love any woman whether they're ugly or pretty, fat or skinny. Come on
No. 2951211>>2951224
>>2950760The ugly thread be like kek. I haven't checked the latest one but the previous two were basically like that.
>"I'm so fat and ugly kill me">"I was once in your shoes with the same features and I know what it's like, your features are normal and you need to be kind to yourself first">"REEEEE KILL YOURSELF YOU FAT COW OF A WHORE I HOPE YOU AND YOUR FAMILY GET RAPED AND TORTURED BY FAGGOTS AND NIGGERS AND INDIANS"Right it's your features and not your vile nasty attitude. The delusion is crazy like they think they were denied jobs or qualifications because their canthal tilt is 0.5mm lesser than the Hollywood standard rather than the fact they're just retarded (because all they do is obsess over looks, kek)
No. 2952294
>>2950450I fucking hate this logical fallacy. Yeah, no shit I would not call it cancer abuse
because cancer is not an inherently abusive thing meanwhile Cluster B
definitely is. It's a personality disorder aka quite literally affects the majority of a person's behavior and hence is clearly, directly linked to the flavor of abuse they throw out.
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>>2960563bc as nona said it requires a criminal history and they never face police action because of their family backgrounds. Tech was the biggest meritocracy psyop of recent times.
>>2960618Again, if they're born into wealth they stay there as CEOS, it's very well documented that CEOs are over-represented in psychopathy.
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>>2960684the grandfather of psychopathology and author of the diagnostic checklist, Robert Hare, literally wrote a whole book about this.
No. 2960938>>2960957
>>2960931Ew, gross. She is
older than my mother for chrissake.
No. 2969276>>2969342
>>2969234It inherently takes a certain level of narcissism to obsess over your own/other people's appearance, even if you DO hate yourself. It's why a lot of people with eating disorders have similar vindictive traits. Speaking of ED-havers, it's annoying how they all come out of the woodwork to cry that they're being boolied and pull the ableism card whenever they aren't coddled online. It doesn't take a genius to see that anachans are generally
toxic, nasty, racist and misognyistic despite their wounded baby deer LARPing kek. They're the prime example of people who talk shit all day long but break down at the slightest retaliation.
No. 2969342>>2969411>>2974842
>>2969234I can't either and it annoys me when people on here act like they're so different because I've never seen an actual explanation how. And I've met diagnosed BPDs and one NPD in the wild, they didn't seem that different to me. BPDs insist they're a
victim and the NPD kept insisting that everyone else views themselves as a
victim these days and needs to get over themselves (implied: unlike me, the real suffering hero). All of them were self-obsessed cruel skin walkers.
>>2969276Yeah ana-chans are wannabe school bullies who don't have the social skills to pull it off.
No. 2972311
>>2967774It's funny when people with ADHD (or people "with" "ADHD") act as if they're superhumans looking down on the plebs. My guy, you just impulsively spent $500 on a shitty prize figure and your house is such a mess that the roaches are effectively your landlords now, what do you
mean you're naturally more intelligent KEK. That "you people can't do anything" tweet became a meme for a goddamn
reason! It's also funny when they have barely disguised contempt for autistic people, despite the fact half of them LARP that condition too.
No. 2977333>>2977357>>2978001>>2978301>>2983372
I know it's not really a mental disorder but I'm so tired of autistic people, they are some of the most self centered people on the planet. I swear half of their problems could be solved if they just learned to realize other people also have feelings like they do.
My sister, who is 6 years older than I, started having really bad mental issues around the time she hit puberty where she'd just scream and cry and basically throw tempter tantrums and usually say she wanted to die and threaten to kill herself, one time she kicked a hole in the wall. She did that well into her 20's. There was a time in my early teens when she would literally just cry and wail day in and day out and you'd hear her all throughout the house. I honestly felt awful that I couldn't do anything, even though I was younger than her, but there was nothing anyone could do because she just "felt awful" and there wasn't really a fix for it. I remember seeing one time how she posted online how she was "being annoyed by everyone" and listed me as one of the people who was annoying her. Oh yeah because your screaming and crying all day and threatening to kill yourself totally has no affect on other people whatsoever right. Like wtf did I even do to annoy her, exist? My parents got her to go to therapy in her late teens or early 20s (I didn't learn this until later but apparently they thought of taking her to a therapist earlier on but someone discouraged them from doing it because they said it was just "teenage hormones").
She has been a NEET for almost all her life, except when she briefly went to beauty school and worked at great clips, but that only last 2-3 years on and off, all the other work she does is commissions because she's an artist, but even that is really inconsistent. When she was in her late 20s she really wanted a dog and our dad didn't want to let her get one, so apparently she screamed and they had a huge fight and she threatened to go out and get pregnant (I wasn't there when this happened). She ended up getting the dog. She has never had to actually work for anything.
She went to a whole bunch of different therapists over the years and got misdiagnosed with a bunch of things like bipolar disorder, BPD, OCD and some other stuff. Then she got diagnosed with autism (twice) and then got diagnosed with the neuropsych test which is extremely thorough. I strongly theorized for a long time that she had BPD. My therapist told me that autism (even in men) gets misdiagnosed as narcissism and vise versa because it's so hard to tell the difference in some people and that the affects of being raised by a narcissist and being raised by an autist are usually the same. My therapist also said it's a somewhat common dynamic for the older sibling to throw a bunch of tempter tantrums and the younger kid ends up getting neglected because of it.
I remember back when I was like 20 I thought I might have autism (I don't have it, though I definitely have some of the traits like being a supertaster but not enough to be autistic) but I thought "that sounds like my dad". Well now that my sister is diagnosed, I'm realizing my dad is 100000% autistic, even more than I previously thought and it's making me understand so much. I'm not gonna get into it but he's a total manchild about a whole bunch of stuff, especially food. He's extremely rigid in what he can talk about, is not willing to talk to me at all about any of my interests that don't directly align with his and will just stare into space when I'm talking. So many other things I could say about my dad, but this is already too long. My ex also turned out to be autistic, but didn't tell me until we broke up. Just imagine all of the shitty things about dating a normal moid, then put it on steroids, that's what autistic men are like.
My sister has turned being autistic into her whole personality now and everything she does she acts like she does it because she's autistic. One thing that pisses me off about autists is how they always complain about "neurotypicals" like they're a hivemind, and "I hate when NTs do xyz" when it's a bunch of shit that autistic people have done to me!! Also "NTs" can be horrible people, good people, mentally ill, undiagnosed autists etc. They're not all clones of each other. Also people always feel so bad for austists like they're a bunch of helpless babies who are in a constant state of suffering when in reality a lot of them are the biggest assholes on earth. It also doesn't help that being autistic is basically a free pass to be an asshole. And then they whine about people infantilizing them as if they don't infantilize themselves.
My sister acts like her problems are worse than everyone else's, even though I also had really bad mental issues and still do. Like she acts like she can't work because of her social anxiety, even though my social anxiety was as bad as hers but I HAD to work because my parents wouldn't coddle me the way they coddled her. I also got sexually harassed constantly as a teenager and was groomed and still never told anyone because I feel bad putting my problems on other people, but she thinks it's just because I don't have any. There's so much more I could say, but yeah, that's my rant.
No. 2978301
>>2977333>>2978001Tangentially related, but I can’t deal with whatever mental illness that leads to people who don’t have autism to self diagnose themselves so that they can be unmitigated assholes and/or be a special unique asshole and not like the other “Neuro typicals”.
As far as I’m concerned, if you can function in society in any capacity, you are within the neuro typical group. People who are not neurotypical wouldn’t be able to understand what that means anyway.
No. 2983372>>2985266
>>2977333>not really a mental disorderI don't give a flying fuck how much autists try to pretend otherwise, it absolutely is one. It causes disruptions in the lives of those around them.
The parallels between autism and narcissism is so scarily accurate. I never thought if it, but now I can't unsee it. They're narcissists that have a social barrier around them that doesn't allow you to challenge anything they say. I'd made it my mission to tell them that
I don't fucking care if they have autism just like their autism doesn't allow them to care about whatever I'm struggling with. Wouldn't that level the playing field? Apathy for apathy, it'd be no different for them if they were talking to another autist, no? If they can "mask" to LARP as if they're functioning, then I can pretend that their little scapegoat usage of their handicap that makes them untouchable isn't working.
No. 2985829>>2986274>>2986285
>>2985266Aren't there some that argue it's just a "different way of mental wiring and isn't a disability
either"? Looking it up has it mentioned several different ways (though I'm guessing the abbreviation
ASD puts that to rest with
Autism Spectrum DISORDER but what do I know).
No. 2986176
One aspect of bippies that's not talked enough is the infamous lack of sense of self. What does that mean you may ask? Because no, that's not your old "baww idk who I am!!" it's the fact that they're extremely influenced by the new shiny thing around them and they're so bold about making lies when they rebrand.
Lack of sense of self means they are literally a new person everything the waves flow in a direction they like and this means
>Your friend would be not your friend anymore
Imagine clicking with someone over a shared interest or shared views, anything really then they start flipping them inside out and suddenly you have nothing to share anymore. Sure, people can mature and grow up but they never mature and grow up, that's part of their disorder, they could wake up and snap out of their current phase and search another. Changing interests is cool but they change their whole person around it as if they cannot disconnect their person from the thing that interests them.
>They act like their previous self never existed
"Oh I love this!" "Bippie, yesterday you hated this!" "No, I ALWAYS loved this! What are you saying!" yeah, that's because Today Bippie is a different person from Yesterday Bippie so in their mind, it makes sense. I can make a couple of examples of two bippies in my life who trooned out and said shit like "I was suffering for 10 years, now I am who truly I always was!" meanwhile I was there for even more than ten years and they were absolutely normal people who even made fun of troons and when I tried to tiptoe around it by saying "well i never thought about it" they spew some shit like "Yeah I was good at hiding it!" and now they act like gendie retards and their mind has been absorbed by troonology but before troonology it was anime, cosplay, music, technology, fashion, psychology, celebrity obsessions and so on.
>New partner means new personality
Ever noticed how they are so desperate for identity and attention that either they skinwalk their partners or craft themselves around them? Creepy.
I could never be friends with someone that I might know one day and the other changes and if you were friends with a bippie during the DID tiktok craze of covid times, you would know how bad it was and still is. Their story rewriting and rebranding irritates me.
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competitive anachans. I feel for amas who don't eat because denying food is punishment for them/a side effect of being depressed or whatever, but I just can't stand the competitive ones that seek out fat women so they look skinny and feel threatened by everyone trying to lose weight in a healthy way. it's the ultimate pick me behavior. at some point your stupid fucking brain has to mature and you gotta realize that being skinny just isn't this dann important.
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Anachans. Misogynistic pick-me demons who sperg out at women for being over BMI 12 and try to make them feel just as bad about our bodies as they are, all while infantilizing themselves/doing the "I'm just a tragic, sweet princess only hurting myself in my honorable pursuit of perfection" schtick and post things like picrel. Bunch of schoolyard bullies.
No. 2990522
>>2990374Anachanning/BDD should be classified as some subset of NPD because of the way they treat others, it's nasty as hell.
>>2990387As if they have any calories to think critically, it's always the people dumb as rocks
No. 2990723
>>2988092They are mentally ill and the only thing they crave is attention. Like a binge eater who is so deep in their ED that they eat food out the trash, because they just need to cram food in their face, knowing it's disgusting and feeling sick at themselves but they can't help it. I'm sure they hate themselves for the negative attention they get, but their brains seek attention, and ragebait gets more views than achievements. If they're in an environment where positive attention is more easily achieved, like at school in the pre-internet era, they'd probably fake an illness or take up a hobby that put them in the limelight to increase the amount of attention they got, they wouldn't just work hard to be the best.
>>2990374Anachans take their self loathing out on other women and delight in dragging others into the same mental illness crab bucket that they're stuck in. It's a tragic condition that unfortunately ends in death a lot of the time but they make it really hard to feel bad for them. If they only hurt themselves, they wouldn't go out of their way to bully other women, or guilt trip their families into letting them have their phones while in treatment, or manipulate anyone they interact with into enabling their delusions. There's no winning with anachans. If you tell them they're fat, they starve more. If you tell them they're thin, they lash out. If you ignore them they have meltdowns and if you pay attention to them they get worse to capitalize on the attention. I remember one anon on here saying that she put butter or oil in her anachan roommate's homemade zero cal cooking spray and it made her gain weight, honestly that might be the only way to deal with them since the more weight they lose the crazier they get.
It's like BDD. It's hard to care about some lunatic sperging that they lost their job because muh ugly stupid fat fat fat retard (insert ethnicity here) ugly left nostril. Yeah, I'm sure that turning up late three days in a row had nothing to do with it.
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Cluster B women are to be avoided and ignored and not given a crumb of an inch, but when it comes to cluster B scrotes I genuinely believe they need their asses whooped, especially of they're the violent kind of
abusive (all cluster B people being
abusive by default). These guys need to learn. Bring back sticks that were used to whack students in the past and use them on cluster B scrotes when they act up, kek. But jokes aside, I firmly believe that if a woman who got hit by a cluster B scrote would beat his ass back before leaving him he wouldn't try it with another woman in the future.
>>2909813As a diagnosed PTSD-fag, I wholeheartedly agree. "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger boo!" No the fuck it doesn't, it just fucks you up mentally and makes you weaker.
No. 2992328
>>2992322ptsd made it so if i get a certain level of stressed or hyper vigilant i can end up
triggering an episode where i pass out and most of the time ill know it’s nothing and stupid and be yelling at myself in my head as i’m going down. it’s a nervous system disorder and if you have it, you’re having symptoms of that. people who don’t have ptsd do not understand the condition at all and it drives me nuts too. most everyone i’ve known with it wasn’t whiny or self righteous but hypersensitive and hyper vigilant. it’s the same with people faking autism to be quirky while insulting people who have legitimate issues as if they’re not trying. they don’t have the condition, want weird clout and attention from having it and then start turning on the people who really do have it to rub salt in the wound and raise themselves up further.
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I just learned that “sociopathy” isn’t an actually thing in the DSM-5 and is just a colloquial term popularized by movies. Keep this in mind if you ever see some edgelord claim to have been diagnosed with it because they are 100% lying
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>>2992413Lmao for real. It didn’t take long for me to find this when searching quora.
Someone tell her that a “real sociopath” or psychopath wouldn’t be having empathy exceptions for animals.
>THE GROWN MEN GETTING HURT DIDN’T BOTHER ME BUT THE BABY MONKEYS DID!!!I hate people who think they are special kek. Most people would be more upset by something fragile and innocent being killed than they would for a grown man.
The last paragraph was 100% made up lmao
>I've watched 2 guys on the brink of death in my life & felt nothing. No need to run over & help. No need to comfort them until help arrives. I called 911 for one guy, waited until they arrived, asked the cops if it's cool if I go home because I was tired and then left.Sure jan.
No. 2992717>>2992762
>>2992322Not only I was in a relationship with a pedophile cluster b man (we were young when we were dating, around the same age but I was younger and when we broke up he went fetching girls that were my same age when we started dating years and years prior, so no, I didn't realize it until we broke up, no signs), not only I am of course an evil bitch that I left him during a delicate period in his life, he also did actual devilish things just to get the high to be in control.
Of course I am a woman and of course I am traumatized by men but when you're young you can't really pinpoint why, right? That's why many teens seems fine when they come from abuse only to completely crumble in their adulthood, I was a
victim of sexual abuse and abused by a man in my childhood that basically projected all of his shit onto me, like he was that type of men that come home drunk because they had a fight with coworkers and take it out to wife and kids because they're pieces of shit, ok, sorry for the small digression but I had to give context, you know what my piece of shit ex did?
Knowing well I had sleeping problems due to anxiety, he woke me up to fight during the night. Yes, he did that. But subtly, of course, he would sit up in the bed and sigh until I woke up and so fights happened.
During the day? If I was out for groceries and work he would randomly text me my name and after 20 minutes "we need to talk". The talk being either something stupid like "omg I saw this new couch we could get!" or stuff like "Why am I wasting my life with you?" so I never knew what was coming and felt sick during the day and dreaded to come home, the only safe place. Imagine hating your home.
He had a weird fascination for mental illnesses, of course because he wanted attention, so he studied mine and mirrored me. This was the breaking point: of course I had to unpack my childhood abuse and when I came home upset by the therapist session, he started to mimick me. At first I didn't notice nor he clearly talked to me about it but one night because of course, he started screaming and crying that he finally realized why he was being a piece of shit: his daddy hit him! oh no!
So not only I had to try to support myself, now I had to also console him and when I asked for a pause because I was feeling sick like actually sick, you know that weird, heavy feeling that comes before a panic attack? I simply said "Wait, I need to calm down, I feel sick" he stopped screaming and crying. He stopped, right of the fucking blue, and said "I know."
In that moment I realized like someone shot me that everything he did was to control me and only have my and only my attention. He had no empathy, no feelings, he simply wanted me to be at his service my every living second and to ensure that, he made me dependant on him.
When I started to consider leaving, because no, it's not like in the movies where a woman packs a bag and leaves plus that thing could seriously injure a woman (stalkers that kill women are a thing and he would also follow me around the city sometimes) he noticed it but he didn't confront me but he did another piece of shit move: he trooned out.
He started stealing my shit, destroying my makeup becase "I'm learning, anon! You are supportive, right?"
I didn't want more abuse so I simply went "yeah" and also pretended to help him apply makeup. After this episode, I changed makeup brands because I associated my girly stuff with him.
And then I left. One day he was out, I called my family and they came to pick me up with my most important stuff and assuring that every document was also properly signed so I couldn't be accused of fraud (rent and stuff, not a burger).
He went on a rage fit and smearing campaigns of course, of course I'm the piece of shit, of course I'm a narc that left because I only care about me, of course I'm the bippie and not him (fun fact he went so deep into mirroring me that he got evaluated and surprise, he was a bippie but refused the diagnosis because "I don't have a simple personality disorder!!") and he had also the balls to contact my family and say shit like "Could you tell anon that I forgive her? She made mistakes and I know she's not coming back because she thinks I'm mad at her…"
Because he knew I used to vent to my family when he tard raged at me with words like "I don't know why bippie is mad at me…but I'm scared and I don't want to do the wrong thing." and after that he went after a girl that was eighteen. After 10 years that we were together.
I'm sorry if I got bloggy, I didn't want nor mean to but you cannot find enough of these horror tales online about BPD people. Remember that if a disorder gets an unbalanced amount of glazing or excusing behaviour (you don't see this shit with stuff like OCD that gets made fun of a lot or npd) it's highly suspicious and no, you can't fix them and no, they don't suffer. Their suffering is made up from lack of attention, can you imagine a more shitty person disorder?
And most of the girls you see online claiming it are not BPD, they're most likely abused or autistic but far from a full blown personality disorder (reminder that women always were called hysteric for rebelling against abuse, we are always "moody" according to medicine and psychology). Of course there are actual bippie women but they're very rare compared to bpd men and always believe a man if they say they are BPD and get the fuck away.
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>>2992429I assume the people who say this are lying tbh. They're either lying about being a troo sociopath who watches gore every day, or they
do watch gore every day and don't actually give a fuck if the
victim is human or not, they just say it to make themselves sound less deranged.
No. 2992762
>>2992717>And most of the girls you see online claiming it are not BPD, they're most likely abused or autisticIt's actually sad seeing girls (usually minors too, like girl you are 14 and your hormones are wacky) think they have it just because they had one shitty friendship or did one impulsive move. I get they're young and easily freak out with labels or self bias but if only they knew real BPD is nasty. It's sad when they feel the need to defend real bippies from their rightful stigma with the fact they are not
abusive themselves but like, that's a clear sign you're not bippie, kiddo.
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>>2993060Imo, kids who get diagnosed with autism very early on attend ASD therapy groups and social groups and constantly have their parents fuck up their personalities because of the whole "omg ppl with aspergers are soooooooooooo intelligent" which isn't true.
Furthermore, since a lot of aspies are self-centred and don't understand people so much, come off as incredibly awkward, I think narcisstic traits are very common among them.
It affects moid autists more than female ones, luckily.
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>>2993802Aren't most American school shooters autistic NEETs?
No. 2993822
>>2993816Yes it is. Graduating grade school doesn't exempt you from being a NEET. It's the absence of college or university classes being the reason they're not employed that contributes to the "not educated" part. What, did you think NEETs are homeschooled or just released from the womb into a room? kek
Plus, there are some that shot up schools they never even went to.
No. 2993859>>2993903
>>2992426AYRT, and yeah LOL
>for one, there is no clinically such thing as sociopathy like you said. That's the layman's term for people with ASPD, and an actual trademark of a person having ASPD is a history of mistreating animals because the lack of empathy usually starts with how they treat something lesser than themselves, like pets or wildlife.>since sociopathy is the layman's term, anybody who actually has it I feel wouldn't strictly call themselves a sociopath. If a person was truly diagnosed with ASPD and cared that much to even explain it, they would specifically say Antisocial Personality Disorder. "Sociopath" is a clinically useless term.That being said, I think a lot of autists mistake themselves for being "sociopaths" or having ASPD because they're horrible at getting along with other people and want to justify that with the excuse of "I naturally can't", or are morbidly curious and think they're actually monsters just because they like to sit on BestGore or something and watch random cartel murders. Which makes them sick fucks but I think actually being a real monster or heartless is something different on its own.
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>>2995237I always thought 'gifted' meant highly intelligent, like significantly above average. Is that not what it is?
I had one of those in my year in primary school, they made him study Chinese on his own because the regular material bore him and he had already skipped two years. He was always very isolated from his peers, doesn't surprise me if people like that grow up a little messed up.
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The biggest trick ASPDemons ever played was convincing everyone, but mostly tiktok teens who crave attention and mental health diagnoses and autistic people, that they were the REEL victims of vile abuse and everybody who speaks up about ASPD abuse and manipulation is ableist. It is beyond parody, I feel like I am in a South Park episode. Somehow you are allowed, and even encouraged to for the sake of transparency and prevention of romanticisiation, to show the non-glamorous and even abusive side to any and all other neurodivgencies and mental illnesses except cluster b disorders. The phrase "explanation, not an excuse" somehow never applies to them. It is ALWAYS an excuse. Also I hate how certain people, specifically the looney mental health "advocates", want to make it look like that people with ASPD are actually way better friends than anyone else because they "tell it how it is" and have "cognitive empathy which is better than just emotional empathy." It all looks like they think ASPDemons are just some quirky cartoon characters ala Alastor from Hazbin or some other shit.
No. 2997529
>>2997501I genuinely pity autists who sympathise with ASPDfags. It's so naive it's just sad. They quote stuff like how they also lack empathy (autist lack of empathy is probably saying cringe and inappropriate shit or misunderstanding a friend's emotions, ASPD lack of empathy meanwhile is DV, arson, murder, assault, CSA, rape, etc.) and it's just ridiculous.
Then there's the larpers who want it as an edgy label but without the actual stigma.
>Hi I'm a sociopathic ASPD guyzz I hate the stigma… I don't beat or rape, I just suck at empathy… oh you need a criminal record to be diagnosed? Oh well uh I stole a candy bar when I was 10…Just go back to kinning creepypastas or something Jesus Christ
No. 2998637
>>2998585it’s chicken and egg. most BPD girls were groomed as teenagers. is it because the grooming led to them developing traits that solidified into a personality disorder, or were they already predisposed to these traits which leads them to more impulsive risk taking behaviors that put them in situations where men who were looking to exploit young girls could reach them easily. thirst for attention and desperate for validation/love, impulsivity, etc. i could see it being a bit of both, and they might be more vulnerable targets as teenagers but if they’re like 30 saying they’re getting groomed that’s just like splitting on exes probably kek.
>>2998434these people share personalities with those who get addicted to drugs, alcohol, sex whatever. some people are super overzealous and intense about anything they do, and cannot help but take it to an extreme and do it compulsively. i disagree with the addiction as a disease model but for people addicted to gambling porn etc they’re hooked on the dopamine rush in the brain. rehabs figured out that you can’t cure this addictive brain mechanism of doing things extremely obsessively, so that’s why recover programs try to get addicts to swap out the harmful additions. they tend to land on being addicted to religion, gym, etc.
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>>2998434I agree, especially for the ones who are addicted to doomscrolling and social media. They assume we should feel bad for them when they're the ones who were actively ruining social media all that time. You want to use social media for specific purposes? No, normies who can't help but doomscroll will spam everyone and everything with politics or their uninteresting normie opinions and lead developers to ruin everything to cater to them. Fuck them. These exact same people have been calling others who play games on handhelds in public or read books in public to pass time in the train or subway or in long waiting lines performative instead of thinking about similar hobbies they could get into and practice anywhere instead of checking instagram from the billionth time. Some even take pictures of them and laugh at the behind their back online.
And you could have talked about shopping addicts. They're embarrassing. Oh you can't help but spend too much money you have or don't have on plastic trinkets and clothes you don't need? Just stop then, am I supposed to feel bad for you? And imagine being tricked into financially helping a gambling or a shopping addict too and finding out later, or being married to one?
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I do not know if this counts, but the responses to this
>>2999720 anon reminded me of similar situations when it comes to down's syndrome. There is a woman on tiktok who says that she has mosaic down's syndrome and has 2 kids with visible DS. She had a video where she talked about how inhumane it is that Iceland has nobody with DS because all fetuses with it got and are aborted. There were other DS and disability activists who were spouting the same bs and claiming it is ableist, because this is a "condition not a disease". On DS subreddit people get banned
allegedly for speaking up about negative sides of it and not presenting DS as a "oh they have just a slight mental disability and look different from us! Otherwise, they are exactly the same!" thing. I think you have to be an extremely naive imbecile to think this is what DS is. They always show like the top 1%, for the lack of the better term, of people with it and not the rest of them who suffer from cardiovascular disorders, seizures, early onset dementia, molest children and everybody within their vicinity, can't speak and communicate normally and shit themselves everyday. It won't be so "cute" when instead of 3 yo child there is a 28 yo 163 cm, 90 kg man who is crawling on your lap because he thinks he is still a baby. And even when they are children there are difficulties to raising them. Just like the mentioned anon said, shit like this ruins lives. Yes, the children with disorders like DS and autism do get mistreated, but if only the disabled community would not get their panties in a twist and allow people to discuss "controversial" and "painful" things like these without fear of being dogpiled by chronically online activists.
No. 3000109>>3000120
>>2998747You're completely right. People will really go out of their way to be as
toxic as possible and then act like Instagram forced them to do it kek
>inb4 complaining about toxicity on lolcorLet me throw stones from my glass house in peace, dammit
No. 3000120>>3000173>>3000567
>>3000109At least on LC we don't use accounts which means you can leave and come back anytime, there's no algorithm bullshit going on that's forcing us to see posts by retarded normies about topics nobody cares about, nobody is forcing us to use LC to hope to get a job later or have a social life, etc. And unless bots are getting worse here as well, we're talking directly to each other instead of throwing shitty unfunny memes or news articles at each other and hoping we'll get likes. Getting addicted to social media is embarrassing because these people aren't addicted to proper interactions with other people they're actively befriending or already know irl but can't contact by phone or irl like if they have friends or relatives abroad, they just fall for bait, only bots like their posts, they see pictures of Trump making stupid faces, ads for radioactive clothes sold on Shein or cats doing whatever and ask for more, sometimes they look at porn in there and they act like
victims. Who threatened them at gunpoint to create social media accounts? Nobody.
No. 3000173
>>3000120Kinda can be said about most addictions aside from like… what, opioids? Nobody put someone at gunpoint and told them to drink or smoke kek
Addictive personality people are such faggots
No. 3000559>>3000584
>>3000181You are betting way too hard on every person liking their kid. Not every woman likes her kid or would want to stay being a parent if it turns out retarded.
>emotionally attachedDo you hear yourself? Not everybody likes kids.
No. 3000584>>3000594
>>3000559the vast majority are, it's
your own kid.
No. 3000893>>3000920>>3000932>>3001089>>3001120>>3002712
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>>3000181ayrt I know you really want to be in denial, but I promise you. It has happened and I personally hate children a
lot. If I personally got pregnant, it'd be a result of
rape, and if you compounded on that the kid was showing signs of just being devoid of being any semblance of normal? Especially after being normal for a few years? Lmao, sayonara
I don't actively wish any harm on children inherently, but it is not unheard of that one would just disown that which does not function as intended. One of the reasons I had a hysterectomy at an early age is because I acknowledge that I would readily abandon a child for this very reason. No. 3001089
>>3000920>>3000932lmfaooooo
>>3000893"I hate children a lot" bitch you were a child. Sorry you're gay or whatever and that makes you think you can excuse your really unnecessary hatred of children, being raped and getting pregnant does not mean a justification in "hating" a baby, why are you not directing all that hate towards the rapist…. Anyway, I know this is a hypothetical situation (or is it?) but do you know that your personal experience Doesn't Mean Anything(tm) beyond your personal experience? As a person who doesn't want kids and is not dating or having sex with men, I feel like your disgust towards children is genuinely retarded, a sign of emotional immaturity, and you are not based, you are cringe.
No. 3001375
>>3001120I think that a lot of autism moms genuinely believe that since their child is autistic, it would stay like a baby forever. The true horror is that they don't.
Sure, there are calm autists but a moid will always have tard rage because it's in the dna to have tard fits, so imagine a walking mountain of muscles and fats hitting you because you can't bring it to mcdonalds.
As a parent, I think the top priority would be raise a child to live on their own, some (but very very very very few) manage to do so but still need support, like yeah they need their parent to check on them every week or so to make sure they didn't fuck up their apartment, but to these barely conscious autists its cruel to leave them be. Sadly they're bound to stay chained to a bed and sedated until they pass of old age or some complication or they accidentally kill themselves and I also hate the "When you choose to have a child, you signed up for the possibility to have an autistic child" no the fuck? I didn't! I always wished to have a healthy kid and that's not healthy!
Since autism is genetic, I wish that technology would be so advanced to recognize what is exactly responsible for it so to avoid it reproducing, like when people do tests for down syndrome. I also don't buy that they're clever but somehow trapped in their body so they need an ipad to communicate because even if they were trapped in their body, their ipad communications are always "mcdonalds mcdonalds bluey mcdonalds i want tendies disney bluey" and it's never stuff like "Mommy I need help, sorry if I hurt you" like a monkey is more conscious than them. It may seem that I'm overly mean for autism but I hate how it's glazed like a mere difference in communication and not an actual disease and also how these sacks of meat steal resources from sperg girls. Since there is no more distinction in between asperger and autism, therapists are now one-size-fits-all and sperg girls need a lot of support to navigate life but they're not taken seriously because they're forced to mask and get eventually abused meanwhile autism mommies get all the support to pay for useless therapies that surely wont magically make them evolve into sentient beings. It's sickening.
No. 3003372>>3005259
>>3002712I didn't think that my response would generate such a response, given the title of the thread kek. Thanks for trying to understand my perspective of things. I think parents like yourself are better emotionally equipped to handle those sorts of scenarios. And while I don't think that will change my opinion on autism as a Mental Disorder (I) Can't Deal With, I admire your level of passion.
Even if this was merely a hypothetical situation. I wouldn't wish it on anyone.
>>3001120Understands the sort of thing I'm personally afraid of happening to me, since I
have heard of scenarios where women have mentally disabled babies as a result of rape. Unsure why
>>3001279 took it so personally that I have a
specific fear that fuels one of the reasons I dislike kids though. I might've struck a nerve I guess?
No. 3004429
>>3002560You sound
triggered and you talk like a zoomer. Also, it's about aborting disabled kids, which your mother should have done with you.
(bait) No. 3005413>>3005696>>3006973
>>3005259I'm sterilized, as mentioned before. I've got my own mix of disabilities mentally, definitely, that have been brought up ITT that I ignore. I appreciate your valiant attempt at being a chair psychiatrist, but you're pretty far off the mark kek. None of what you listed came up and I've been tested for that stuff. I have a feeling most of those offended by what I was saying
are autistic, however. Most of the time when it's brought up, that seems to be the one disability that offends people if you speak against.
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>>2992429I probably sound incredibly retarded right now but isn’t there an overlap between gore watchers and that 764 cult? The people in that group are misanthropic gore loving bpd nightmares but are required to torture pets and wildlife in order to “ascend” or they blackmail kids into killing their pets. Do these people stop caring about animals when there edgelord points are threatened or something? I don’t hang around these communities at all so as an outsider they seem to have the same culture to me.
No. 3012460>>3012480>>3012491>>3012581>>3012614
I know charisma is common for people with BPD, but is it common for them to be liked by everyone? I knew a girl at university who instantly became popular (especially amongst the female students). She was approachable and easy to talk to, but only after knowing her for a month, I was already sick of her. She was extremely attention seeking, and she was always making up stories about how smart and talented she was or venting about some evil childhood friend while portraying herself as a rational angel who wanted to solve the conflict. One time she got involved in drama with an unpopular girl, and she proceeded to accuse the other girl of a crime she didn't commit. I normally choose to believe that people are telling the truth, but it was just so obvious everything she said was a lie.
I called her out on a lie in front of her face one time. She couldn't argue against it, but she still refused to back down. Later one of my friends told me that she didn't think it was a lie, and I genuinely felt like I was taking crazy pills because it was just so obvious.
I later found out she has BPD so that explained the martyr complex and need for attention. But I still don't get how she managed to charm everyone. I'm not even close with her, and I got sick of her antics pretty quickly. I don't understand how her friends put up with it.
>>3005041>>3005397>this mostly due to environment/socializationAt the risk of sounding preachy but society has changed rapidly the last few decades. Most people grew up on the internet now, and we are in general more isolated. Even the most outgoing, friendly not-autistic person who has no interest in faking mental illness for attention still sucks at social etiquette nowadays. Some behaviour that was considered mildly spergy two decades ago is just the norm now. That's why doctors should gatekeep the autism diagnosis harder.
No. 3012480
>>3012460I had no idea charisma was even a part of BPD. I would think all of it is masking to prevent abandonment, meet attention seeking needs and less actual charisma? Being attentive to conversation and reading social cues well can be due to possible trauma. The only ones I've met who were liked by everyone are the ones who also had narcisstic traits, but I'm no expert and have little experience with those formally diagnosed.
First ayrt. Completely agree with the gatekeeping. I do not understand how incredibly high functioning people that have never needed supports and are mildly spergy get diagnosed and for some reason people think nobody can ever be misdiagnosed with autism. I just stopped watching a youtuber who's claiming autism, suddenly making "the tism" jokes, making it her whole personality as if she's super special now. Is that normally how disabled people take their diagnosis or? Seems very tiktok-ified.
No. 3012614
>>3012460It's not that bippies are charismatic, they're predators in the literal sense. They shift themselves around their
victim(s) for their own good, they have no personality, that's in fact a diagnostic criteria, they simply morph in what people want. Dangerous. Some people can see it when they are faking but some genuinely believe they're good and tortured souls because they believe in the "kindness and don't judge" bullshit, remember to always shame, judge and point your finger and the bippies in your life.
No. 3021523
>>3021159They're also absolute cunts to anyone who tries to give them kind advice too. Especially if they live with others who aren't a fan of them reeking and rotting all day. At some point you do owe them basic normalcy.
>they're suffewing and hate themselves!I used to have sympathy for them tbh but it really drains once you meet first hand cases
No. 3021880
>>3015914>>3018525Yes in my experience they have a tendency to exploit and then control autistic people. My friend also constantly threatened suicide when we were both 14 and I constantly believed it then but looking back on it I think she was just saying so in order to get attention.
Bippies also constantly contradict themselves, for example loved Nigel Farage Matt Walsh Jordan Peterson and Ben Shapiro two years ago, wanted Republicans to win 22 midterms, called Barbie movie feminist propaganda, was a tradwife, now she's super WOKE and a member of the green party and hates people who use ai. A quick turnaround for sure. They love to anamaxx
No. 3021891>>3021917
>>3021887An 8 year old cant get erotic pleasure from sexually abusing someone so yes they are different
Children copy their parents
Theres also a difference between innocent experimentation and cocsa
No. 3021917
>>3021891even if it's """innocent experimentation""" it always leaves the
victims with trauma and when they speak out they get this bullshit shoved at them
>An 8 year old cant get erotic pleasure from sexually abusing someone As if that negates the crime? They still get some form of pleasure, even if it is not sexual, why else would they do it? They still feel pain from when it's done to them, meaning they know the abuse is bad, and they still choose to do the same thing on others. They deserve absolutely no sympathy.
No. 3026424
>>3022874They're attracted to the structure of the culture and flashy blinky colors on their merch.
Their train commuter system makes the common autist blush alone.
No. 3026636>>3026669>>3026694>>3026702>>3026776>>3026830>>3026878>>3077556
>>2943816Can you retarded bippies go back to your own thread? You realize if she was bippie then so were you too? Self own.
>When I was around 9 and her 7Kek. And if he really was sekshually abyoosing your asses, why didn't you report it to the police immediately? Last I checked 9 and 7 were clearly old enough to speak, not bumbling babies. Then again clusterbees aren't known for their intelligence kekkington. Makes sense someone would go for you since bippies are abnormally sexual to begin with.
>When he came over they'd often have sex right in the middle of the kitchen or living room and no we weren't spying on them, it would happen when we came home from school as we opened the front door.Yeah that totally happened. Can you at least make your retarded lies consistent? You can say you were just perverts who were jealous she had a partner at least. You thought you were slick with the fact you had to specify you totally weren't spying on them kek, means you definitely were. Bippies being hypersexual freaks from birth theory is undefeated. Your mom and him should've sued you both for defamation.
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>>3026636NTA but I'm sorry this is how you cope.
No. 3026677>>3026686
>>3026669and tell me exactly how I'm "coping", little miss
triggered bippiechan?
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>>3026677>bippiechanThere's only one anon itt writing walls of text about small children being evil perverts and it's not me
No. 3026708
>>3026695NTA but it kind of sounds like you have BPD and upon hearing her story of dealing with ger BPD nightmare mother you got insanely
triggered because you felt called out for some reason. I mean who says shit like
>You can say you were just perverts who were jealous she had a partner at leastabout small children or even
>And if he really was sekshually abyoosing your asses, why didn't you report it to the police immediately? Last I checked 9 and 7 were clearly old enough to speakabout children as well. Not all children have the means or even understanding to report their abusers. What the fuck is wrong with you nona?
No. 3026710>>3026714>>3026718>>3026722>>3026797
>>3026701Everyone at that age knows how to pick up a phone and dial 911. Retard.
Seething bippies mad they're getting called dumb so here's the studies:
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7910208/https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31317840/https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/10729927/https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3071095/>Specifically, those with borderline personality disorder are more likely to exhibit greater sexual preoccupation, have earlier sexual exposureAnd classic projection accusing me of bpd kek.
No. 3026718>>3026728
>>3026710It's not about the BPD you moron, you're a total freak expecting a 9 year old to be able to comprehend an
abusive living situation and be mature enough to handle it alone. You seriously should not be around kids if you can't understand something as basic as this
No. 3026720>>3026748
>>3026714And this is the mental disorders you can't deal with thread, read the rules whiteknight.
>leads to mental illnessAnd mental illness is a totally good thing. Makes sense.
No. 3026722>>3026733
>>3026710>Everyone at that age knows how to pick up a phone and dial 911. Retard.She was nine, possibly seven which makes more sense. Not all children know how to report their abusers, some might not even report their abusers because they're someone they trust like a close family member because of perceived consequences. There's fear, shame of not wanting anyone to know, and again, they might not want to hurt the trusted adult they love. Child abuse is an insanely complex situation that can't be handwaved with a "why didn't they just say anything!".
You are right though, you don't have BPD you're just insanely retarded.
No. 3026728>>3026795
>>3026718Yes it is about the BPD retard, it literally makes them less intelligent kek.
>you're a total freak expecting a 9 year old to be able to comprehend an abusive living situation and be mature enough to handle it aloneI had one and I was able to dial emergency services, so skill issue. Everyone I know who went through similar situations knew how to pick up mommy's phone at least. Tell me why you couldn't then
No. 3026779>>3026789>>3027589
>>3026759>two kids having school notice and help them get away from a fucking PEDOPHILE stepdad = evil bpds homewrecking an innocent relationshipHm
Anyway I'm assuming you're baiting but really to your other points… BPD is half genetic/inherited yes but never in cases like this, it wouldn't even be
valid in kids like her and her sister?
>>3026772>>3026767What if it's that nona's mom/mom's bf kek
No. 3026789
>>3026779To be honest, when nona said
>You realize if she was bippie then so were you too? Self own. who gives a shit? It wasn't like her post was defending BPD or her BPD mother. Her post was describing how her mother was a piece of shit because of her BPD and how it led to sexual abuse.
No. 3026795>>3027589
>>3026728A kid cannot comprehend it and you can't expect a kid to, that's why they are such easy targets for freaks. Not every kid understands it's wrong because it trusts older people/family members. they lack reference points that come with brain function. Blaming a 9 year old for not picking up the phone is ridiculous, people can go through years of abuse not understanding said abuse, or being so afraid that they don't feel like they can turn anywhere. You probably also think kidnapped children should just walk away if the door is open, it's unfortunately not that easy because if it was, then all kids would call services or tell someone and abuse wouldn't go on for years on end. There are plenty of cases of
victims staying with their abuser for years even in their 20s and they are not to blame either, there are all sorts of psychological factors and Stockholm syndrom
No. 3026797
>>3026710I'm gonna happily whiteknight bippies here then, many ARE
victims of abuse in childhood and it's why they're so fucked up. Is the crap they do to others bad? Yes, obviously. But does it mean they deserve or wanted it? Also obviously not. What in the strange black and white thinking do you have?
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>PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance)
unless you're 10 years old in an IEP, I won't hear it. I don't care what it's called, I don't care how you feel. I need you to pull your weight in this friendship/relationship/job. Or I'm dropping you. I absolutely refuse to make accommodations for that. Find your own way if you must, but I am not enabling your continued pathological avoidance of random bullshit we all have to do every fucking day.
No. 3027589
>>3026767>NigelKek everything is about Nigels to you. Sorry to break it to ya but not everyone does stuff because of a Nigel but hey only a thief thinks everyone else steals!
>groomed a minorCan you normies go back to twitter or tiktok with this retarded speak?
>>3026795Stockholm syndrome isn't real. Try again
>>3026772Didn't say they liked it sweetheart, just that they were retarded. Again none of you autists can comprehend the simplicity of a 3 digit number
>>3026776>>3026777I don't have kids retard and even if I did they'd be raised better than your collective intelligence. Sorry you're retarded.
>>3026800You need to be put in a special nursing home if that's what you read.
>>3026779Was he really a pedophile tho, think about it
>>3026878No but if I was I'd be suing for defamation as I'd deserve.
(bait) No. 3027627
>>3022874anime lacks subtlety and hand holds the viewer. Characters emotes with eeeeeh and aaaaah sound effects, sad scenes is accompanied with a sappy music piece, characters will narrate their big feelings via a voice-over.
Lots of anime use the same stock sound effects and expressions and autists love familiarity.
But mostly I think its because otaku culture glorify an asocial lifestyle were you consoom.
The
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>>3027634narcissists are hypersensitive to social rejection to the point of seeing social rejection where it isn't there, so they would be bothered by the lack of mirroring by autists.
No. 3029852>>3030118>>3030647
>>3029106Your average autist who's fussy about food and has a special interest is obviously far better than down syndrome. But severe autism is a non-verbal, aggressive/violent, can't be toilet trained, needs 24/7 care kind of disability. Based on temperament I'd honestly prefer a happy, lovable downie with high medical needs who needs constant care than a severe autist who also needs constant care.
Though if you're talking specifically about the fetus, down syndrome can be detected in utero and aborted if you want but you can't do that with autism. So if you have to pick a fetus with one or the other, again I would absolutely prefer downs.
No. 3030545>>3031098>>3031265
>>3029882and? it is still self centred and annoying to deal with. why is it whenever autism gets brought up all the
triggered autists come in to defend their bullshit, it really says something kek
No. 3031265>>3031537>>3031604
>>3030545>why is it whenever autism gets brought up all the triggered autists come in to defend their bullshitBy your own logic, shouldn't she have NPD? Or do you just have a hateboner against autists?
>>3031157I'm so sorry you have to deal with that. Just know that if you decide to end the friendship, it's more than understandeable. Autism doesn't go away, so you can't just wait for your friend(s?) to get better. I don't know you of course but judging by that post alone, I'd say you should put yourself first and break things off.
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>>3031537>tard rage fitI expect posts here to have content rather than irrational sperging. You know, experiences? Anons who actually have something to say?
>>3031604She brought up narcissism. NPD is about narcissism.
No. 3031692>>3031698>>3031720>>3031730>>3031748>>3031805>>3031893
>>3031583>>3031610Autists are born without cognitive empathy which is different from emotional empathy, they're not like narcissist they are capable of genuine guilt and remorse and genuinely care about the feelings of other people, they just have no clue if what they're going to say will upset other people because they can't understand other people's reactions or why someone else would be upset by what they say (autism = self focus, they develop their own way of thinking and believe it is better than anyone else's). The crucial fact is they think their
way of thinking is better than other people's, not that
they personally are better than other people, which is what narcissists believe. They develop a moral code independently of other people but often it is not grandiose and can even be self chastising. Some autists think it makes them automatically better then other people but they're by no means the majority. Most are very sad and insecure, and ashamed of who they are because of what happens to them due to their self focus. But again it's crucial to seperate self focus which Autists have, from self importance and entitlement which narcissists have. A person can also be simultaneously autistic and narcissistic but its not common. Autism is also present from birth and caused by genetics/prenatal factors not environment.
Bippies on the other hand are always, always products of a really fucked up home life when they were children, and they are made not born. Unlike Autists who usually don't want attention they're actively attention seeking, constantly change from topic to topic, and have constantly different views depending on who's around them, as they had no stability in childhood. This in a way makes them almost the opposite of Autists, who have extremely rigid beliefs about themselves, others, and the world, more rigid than normal people. Bippies on the other hand have extremely flexible beliefs (or no real beliefs at all) about themselves, others, and the world, and will always just adopt the belief systems of those around them which is why all bippies are dishonest, hypocritical, unpredictable and insincere. However they're not the same as narcissists, as despite all this they are still capable of caring for other people, but they are much more self absorbed with their own drama than Autists who tend to internalise it and don't like talking about it to others because they find it embarrassing.
No. 3031730
>>3031720I just knew some retard would bitch and moan despite it literally just being an info post
>>3031692Thank you, this actually adds insight to these posts
No. 3031741>>3031748
>>3031698Yes every bippie has a pet autist kek and they always fall out with each other, bippies are also quite likely to control and abuse Autists as Autists often have very few friends, become attached to the bippie, know all their friends through the bippy and are dependent on them. Bippies never make friends with each other because they would fall out in about 3 seconds, and Autists don't often make friends or relationships with each other because they're too shy.
Truthfully I don't hate bippies, because they're not to blame for how annoying and dishonest they are, but they are a pain in the arse. But normally they've been through something awful which is why they behave that way. I wouldnt say they're incapable of remorse or cruel just very self centred and want everything to be about them
No. 3031752
>>3031748Ehh sort of, but it's very unintentional on the part of the bippies, who are just as sad and desperate as the Autists at the end of the day. Autists also will not change their core personality or opinions to appease the bippies (or anyone) which is often what eventually leads to the bippies removing them.
Another funny thing about bippies is that without fail every single one of them hates every other bippie they know. They have a very naturally antagonistic personality.
No. 3031863>>3031866
>>3031830my particular ick is actually women who are low empathy but not autistic trying to claim an autism diagnosis when they are the most triangulation obsessed insecure women i’ve ever met and it’s like no. sorry. we aren’t doing this. going from being a bitch who insults others for not having a spine to tell her no when they have a problem with her aggressive behavior, who is unbearable when the attention is not on her in group settings and constantly “stirring the pot” to “actually i’m autistic” when they cause enough social issues to be called out is disgusting. especially when they have literally no empathy for “friends of theirs” who have something like literal cerebral palsy and a limp then want to turn around and play
victim for orchestrating a fight with the specific intention of getting closer to a man.
No. 3032002>>3032025
>>3031893I'm not retarded enough to get how that's supposed to be WKing, or indicate she's sick herself. Or maybe, just maybe, she just knows more than you and has something to offer itt.
>>3031997I don't think she's necessarily sick, but she definitely has low intelligence. Info posts fly over her head completely and she registers them as the anon having autism/bpd herself and defending it, all because she's not explicitly saying she's against the two.
>>3031805Seconding this. Info =/= WKing
No. 3032059>>3032060
>>3032025What for? To tell them what they already know? Half of that post is explaining autism, and again, stating facts isn't support. As someone who has been abused by someone with bipolar, I'd find it cool if someone helped me understand how they tick. Not even to excuse the
abusive behavior, just to help me make sense of wtf happened to me. And yeah they'd probably appreciate getting that for bippies who fucked them over but why wouldn't we benefit from the same type of post then (but with both bippies AND autists)?
No. 3032127>>3032150
>>3031610The fact that they physically can't learn is even more of propf as to why they are a blight to humanity. They're broken creatures and the numbers of them and their LARPing fans should really be studied and probably a cure should be sought out. Embracing it is one thing, but it really feels like autism is gaining traction with their misplaced aense of NLOG. Don't even get me started on how they think they can puppet "neurotypical" people. Christ on a motor bike.
I really wanted to understand them at a point. I wanted to whiteknight them even because developmental disorders aren't things you can prevent, probably. They can't help it and the world is already cruel enough. But oh my god when these fucking things show their true colors it's no wonder some of the worst evils out there exist; they're the ones behind it. Weirdass fetishists and nasty subhumans often times are autistic. Hm. I wonder why that is.
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In the end, I've come to realize that it is easier than ever to see who has autism even online. The ones that are trying to mask and seem normal immediately blow up the second you mention that autism is fucking annoying or detrimental in any way. Suddenly
>People are here to vent and some also have traumatic experiences, do not nitpick about "But the DSM V says-", don't care, no one here has the power to change the whole diagnostic world so a nobody on the internet isn't gonna change anything, plus most of the times official papers are unreliable so don't take that as the mental illness bible and don't use that against nonnies.
doesn't apply to them because their mental illness, I'm sorry I mean developmental problem, is super special. They're just different. In order to complain, you have to jump through hoops to qualify for if you even have any substance behind your complaint. Venting? No, no, you need to have an actual example of you being annoyed by it or inconvenienced. And even then, we must break down autism and how they struggle into digestible chunks to justify their inability to function. Bippies and narcissists? Nah, they're universally agreed upon that they're just intolerable. Very cute. Autism isn't even that bad! Only in men, see. Only in men is it a problem.
Autists can't even self reflect, it's looking like. I mean god damn.
>autists are NOT narcisitic. [insert highly technical comparison]
Imagine if we got this response in the dog hate thread. I don't touch the place, but if someone gave a technical explanation behind the behavior of a pitbull, I guaran-goddamn-tee you it'd be not only red texted, but laughed out of the thread.
Curious.
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>>3032646>alexithymiaHey wait a minute. I've never heard of this term but it seems to describe exactly what I was thinking.
It reminds me a time some autistic guy had this hate boner for me online. I was trying to tell some teenager that their period symptoms (probably PMDD) were something to see a doctor about and that she shouldn't feel guilty because of the bullying she received. I told her it wasn't fair and that life makes some of us its punching bags, and the guy cut in saying something along the lines of
>some people are permanently on their periods because they're always huge nasty bitches VC got very quiet and I think one of the other guys in the call went after him about how insensitive it was. And funny enough, what happened? The autistic guy didn't get it and immediately backpeddaled into how he was such a
victim of everyone being mean to him and how hard his life was.
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>>3032632>I've come to realize that it is easier than ever to see who has autism even onlineThis reminds me of the dozens of posts here in which anons start complaining about something in their personal life or job or school, I started assuming they're autistic because they did or say something retarded that caused these situations in the first place, and in the middle or the end of these posts they add that they're autistic. Like I don't know, maybe start with that? Since this is the reason why you behave in a way that makes you a friendless loser whose coworkers can't stand anymore, clearly.
>Autism isn't even that bad! Only in men, see. Only in men is it a problem.The anons saying this are all coping. Maybe this is true for the least severe cases that make patients just socially awkward but the girls and women are nearly just as bad as the boys and men. I wouldn't want to have a violent shit smearing screeching non verbal daughter just the same way I wouldn't want a violent shit smearing screeching non verbal son. I've had one female autistic classmate in middle school and several make autistic classmates later and the girl was a dangerous violent tard in comparison who once beat up someone for no reason during recess out of nowhere in a way that made him pass out. I don't want to be beaten up like this by any retard regardless of if they're male or female. The boys weren't as bad and were just creepy and annoying without sending anybody to the hospital.
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>>3032856>The anons saying this are all copingMaybe they're trying to be nice about it, but they're still wrong. Even when it's high-functionning autism, it's hard to live with for both the autist and the people around her, despite her not being a moid.
Might be off-topic for this thread but I hate when assholes like Sia say autism is just a "difference" and "like a superpower", as if it didn't require accomodations and for some parents to have to give up having a life to be their child's caretaker even in their adulthood>>3032948>>3033005The second anon here is talking about her personal experience, but the thing is, I remember "tard strength" being in tons of classic 4troon greentexts. It's definitely a common thing. The coordination thing explains the strength but why are they so fucking big ontop of that? They put all their points in physical stats and none in the intelligence stat I guess.
You know those retarded memes by autism fakers that go "God gave me anime autism instead of math autism teehee"? I'd love a version that goes "Tfw God gave me the sensitive to light autism instead of tard strength autism" That'd be authentic at least kek No. 3034160>>3034173>>3034182>>3034227
Any kind of mental retardation. I'm not talking about dumb people or lazy people than can develop critical thinking in the right environment, I'm talking about retarded people that just flap arms, groan like ghouls or just say the same two words over and over and scream. Everytime I see an adult and they are screaming or flapping around, to me it sits like in uncanny valley. I also hate how everyone around them copes and copes BAD. No argument is legit.
>"They know no evil!"
Because they are not capable of deeper feelings, their brain goes "this person feeds me? Good. I like this person"
>"They love unconditionally!"
See above
>"They are not ungrateful like those damn normal kids!"
Ok you narc fuck that only wants to interact with powerless people kek you're weird! If you cannot handle conflict, you're weird!
>"They are always happy!"
And? Being always happy is an anomaly. If you feed them and keep them safe that's the only feeling they can compute. Literal newborns can feel when the mother is stressed, they can't even do that.
I'm especially angry at this because we were doing great with consent talk and it magically doesn't apply to retarded people.
I don't care if your adult son or retarded brother is "good", if it hugs me randomly when we are in the streets, I'll hit it, no matter how many kind words you tell me, no matter how many "he means no harm!" or "he likes you!", it's a stranger and I don't like to be disturbed by it. One time I was out in the city and a tard kept asking me my name and age, name and age, name and age, over and over, and its caretaker went "he wants to know because thats how his brain processes new information!" and? That's your job to educate them to society if you make it go out. You have to teach them that eloping randomly and then stopping people to annoy them over and over it's a no-no. You don't make people their teacher because that might scare people. I am a petite woman, if a man runs to me doing that "euheuehueheuh" laugh I WILL scream. And you will not make me feel guilty about it or mean.
>"But they don't know!"
Then don't make them go out. You may never know if they approach another, maybe violent tard, that registers that as a threat and beats them. What will you do, then? Try to separate the tard fight?
I might seem too mean but I have no patience with them and I don't believe that elder adults with a tard son are not tired.
My brain sees them as aliens, something that has the face of a human but lacks everything that makes them a person.
I wish it was legal to put them out of misery because their whole life is basically being an eternal newborn that needs food and diapers or at best, a toddler that's always on his first day on two legs and then hoping they pass in a peaceful way. If life is quality and not quantity, they are only alive because it makes their narc parents and caretakers feel good so it's never about them, be human and be kind to them by not letting them suffer, if the mental retardation can be spotted in utero as a consequence of a genetic anomaly.
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>>3034160They know no evil is all fine and dandy until they injure or rape someone and can't be punished, and the
victims are just told to suck it up because
>it's not his fault he didn't mean to bash your head against a wall until you pass out and doesn't know what rape even isand then the tard is even treated as a poor little
victim.
>"he likes you!"To me this is a threat more than a compliment. I had a tard coworker to fill disability quotas when I worked in retail for longer than planned. I swear the managers always put me in the same tiny section of the store with that tard every single time I worked there while other coworkers were rotating until I quit just just because he liked me, so I was paid minimum wage to babysit a retard who smelled like shit and made work harder than it already was on top of dealing with the most ghetto costumers in the entire planet. That tard wasn't non verbal but he was acting like a kindergarten kid, and even then that's an insult to most kids in kindergarten.
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>>3034160>I am a petite woman, if a man runs to me doing that "euheuehueheuh" laugh I WILL scream. LC banner material
>>3034173Speaking of diversity quotas and tards, I cannot for the life of me eat at a restaurant a tard works in. I don't want shit particles in my food. Those gimmick restaurants run by all downie staffs are hell.
Anyone remember that greentext story about tards taking over a Chuck E Cheese, Mongol invasion style?
No. 3034255>>3034430>>3034818>>3035278
>>3034227I’m a firm believer that making tards work is doing a disservice to everyone. Tards gets deluded into thinking they’re “useful” and everyone else becomes suddenly responsible for them. I get especially angry when tards work at sensitive places like hospitals/clinics or like you said, restaurants.
Once I got really sick and the ER tards couldn’t give me instructions to which way to go, he only repeated “this is the ER!” like thanks, I can read, but which way to the motherfucking nurse office??
What do you mean they can slow down an entire department?? And like you said, to work in restaurants, some basic hygiene and safety course is required, I don’t care if your tard is trained like a good dog, if I see a tard that only breathes with his mouth giving me my food, I’ll never come back. If they are people like everyone else and you think that normal people can be dirty and that’s why they need an hygiene discourse, why do you think a tard is cleaner if they don’t understand the concept of cleaning after themselves? Because they are “good people”? They shit in diapers!
I also don’t buy that working makes them feel better, I think that a lot of people just put tards as a working force so they leave their family alone for one third of the day, I’m 100% sure that no tard said “I want to work out of pure will, I want to put in situations I don’t understand and make people’s lives difficult by not grasping the job position I’m in.”. Just like when child tards get parked into school so their mothers don’t have a meltdown, I also hated as a child hearing those monstrous screams in the hallway, like why do they even go to school for? To color shapes? They can do it at home and not disrupt the quiet of those that need an education
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>>3034227>>3034255>I don't want shit particles in my food.>if I see a tard that only breathes with his mouth giving me my food, I’ll never come backI was working in retail so this is a bit different but the tard who was always working with me didn't literally smell like shit, I meant to say he smelled really bad in general. He smelled strongly of BO and saliva because just like most tards, he was a mouth breather. Between this, his deformed face and his general behavior I was actually dreading going to work more and more. I swear even being called a whore by deranged male costumers who wanted to use the changing rooms one minute before the store closed but couldn't, these same customers threatening my coworkers and I to beat us up or worse, and seeing a fake customer/actually a secret security employee insulting me in front of everyone and barging in the changing room to gauge my reaction in a big mall inside a big city not long after major terrorist attacks in the country was less anxiety inducing than seeing the tard twice a week and hearing him groan and spit everywhere, when I remember it. Once he was prancing around instead of taking care of customers and putting their things away until they were done trying clothes, and one customers was so annoyed by his shitty attitude she straight up asked are your disabled or something? Well yes, he is, obviously. It took me everything to not reply that in front of my very offended coworkers.
From a different perspective, sometimes we had tards as customers too. Just following their parents, shitting and pissing inside the changing rooms and sometimes having the bright idea of pissing in a bottle or shitting in a plastic bag and not on the floor, and one exasperated mother even made me look for her autistic son in the massive store because he fled at the speed of light and was hiding behind clothes. One less retarded guy allegedly had this nasty habit of always trying the same jeans in the same color to jerk off in the changing room, but it never happened during my shift so I have no idea how severe his retardation was. Most customers were disgusting on purpose and not because they had a disability though.
>Those gimmick restaurants run by all downie staffs are hell.I know a chain of coffee shops just like that? The workers almost all have downs syndrom, I never went there until recently because the food and drinks didn't appeal to me at all. The one time I went there I was following relatives, and all the customers were acting like
>awww look at all these very happy employees who are working so hard and making themselves useful! how heartwarmingas if they were the woke version of circus freaks, except these workers aren't employees, they have a special status that makes them paid way less than minimum wage and they're not treated very well in some of the locations according to some of these very same workers. They should chill at home and not serve food and drinks after spitting all over them. I might post insulting things here but normies who think women aborting their severely disabled foetus are the devil and exploiting disabled workers like that is morally good aren't any better.
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As a teen I had anxiety issues so bad that they caused me physical pain and sickness. One day I had to be hospitalized in a psych ward for teens because my stomach was killing me and I couldn't keep food or water down anymore. They transported me into the ward using picrel and the nurse left it in a hallway near the lobby (with me still on it) to go do something in the office near the entrance. While I layed there, this unattended mentally disabled kid comes up to me and just starts touching my head like he was prodding at a dead animal or something. I was too dehydrated, hungry and nauseous to do anything about it other than feebly moving my head away, which didn't help. Thankfully the nurse ended up seeing him and told him to stop, but he had still touched me with hands that had been who knows where and, on a more comedic note (I guess), risked getting thrown up on by me
At some point during my stay, I asked why he was there. After all, every kid was staying with the goal of being released sooner or later, and hospitalizing someone for a permanent mental retardation would mean keeping them in forever, which was impossible. I asked a nurse, and she told me that he was there because it was hard for his mother to handle him while having a career. It does make sense for her to leave him with professionals so she can work, but it doesn't make sense to have him stay at a psych ward. There are facilities in my country that specialize in handling people with motor skill retardations, so why not send him there rather than to make mentally ill teens deal with him (and having him take the place of, idk, a suicidal teen who really needed to be in the ward or someone who had been on the waiting list for months)? One of my fellow patients was this girl who had violent outbursts (thankfully she only hit staff, at least that I know of) - what if she had fought that disabled boy? And not to coddle him, but hearing her scream when she had outbursts probably scared him since he didn't understand what was going on.
The worst part was that one of the activities for patients included cooking. Unlike psych wards for adults, you don't get to pick which activities you want, and attendance is always mandatory staff also decides when you go to your room and when you go to the lobby. You can't just go wherever you want. When I say cooking, I do mean cooking from scratch in a little kitchen, not just serving the food like lunch ladies. Whichever 3 patients were selected for kitchen duty that day cooked our dinner, basically. Of course I'm getting at the fact that the mentally disabled boy had to have handled our food at some point, as well as the cutlery and plates. In case you wonder, yes you can wash your hands before cooking, but they don't tell you to do it, and I doubt he ever did it.
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>>3034680Samefag - I was in another psych ward for teens at a point where my anxiety-induced sicknesses were less severe, and in this one we had more autonomy and only stayed during the day and went home in the late afternoon. One of my fellow patients there was this autistic guy with a slight motor-skill retardation (like aside from the autism) who was definitely not a minor and looked more like a 18-20 year old. He was a tall guy with thick angular glasses, a lazy eye and a 5 o'clock shadow he never shaved clean. He breathed with his mouth and had this look of permanent confusion as his resting face - not that he was actually aloof though, since he could get really petty and argumentative at times, including with me once. His hair was short but bushy (think a bit over 5cm), which just made it all the more obvious that it was really greasy and unkempt, with little strands sticking together. He had cats and dogs at home and always showed up covered in cat hairs. I never saw him wash his hands.
I remember all this about him but not his name, kek The worst part about him was his sleeves. They were always - and I mean always - covered with these gross, greenish-yellow crusty stains. It could only be soup or vomit
and I refuse to believe the fucker vomited every day and casually wiped his mouth afterwards. I really hope he just had a dinner routine where he always ate soup.
In that psychiatry we also had kitchen duty, but it was more akin to playing lunch ladies than actual cooking. We did, however, have to set the table (it was one big table with assigned seats instead of a lobby with multiple tables like in the other psychiatry,
picture the last supper, sperg edition) and so kitchen duty implied touching others' cutlery. That psychiatry was much less professional than the last (and I have my fair share of complaints regarding this, but that would be off-topic) and it almost felt like summer camp, so we socialized more and were generally aware of each-other's schedule, especially since we were pressured by staff to hang out and play whenever we had free time. I always thought to myself, "If that autistic guy's on kitchen duty I'll know it, and I'll just wash my cutlery before eating; everything will be fine".
One time, kitchen duty fags were about to serve lunch and I got to the table early, so I just sat at my assigned seat and waited. Waiting with me were a few others, and among them,
him. His seat was right next to the one on my left, and the girl who usually sat in it wasn't there yet. And for some reason, for some god forsaken reason, he just goes and grabs her cutlery by the ends that go into the food. As he holds them, he examines the cutlery around him and looked focused, as if some of the knives and forks were put at the wrong seats and needed to be swapped or something. He then untenses his face and subtly shakes his head as if to say "oh nevermind" and put the girl's cutlery back. That's when I asked myself, how many times did I put forks in my mouth without knowing he had touched them? Why did he even do that? Why did nobody say anything? Why is this fucker even here knowing he's over the age limit for patients?
Side note: long story but one time my group had to go retrieve something from outside the psychiatry, but I was the only one who had nothing on her schedule that morning (we weren't allowed to go anywhere unsupervised). I said I'd wait for my group, but suddenly the autism guy volunteered to accompany me on that impromptu errand despite the cold. He didn't even murder or rape me on the way back, so there's that I guess. At least that… No. 3034818>>3034879
>>3034255I can’t help but feel this is a direct consequence of idealizing work. It’s not wholesome or cute to have people in work where they don’t understand the work they’re doing, especially where they struggle with things like basic hygiene and verbal communication. However, it’s seen as peak fulfilment of a mentally disabled existence to be in the workforce, and I don’t understand why. At best, they’re exploited because they earn shit wages for the work they’re doing, and at worst they’re an active disruption to their job that exploits their coworkers who have to constantly be compensating for another person’s mistakes, whilst any work they’re actually doing is still exploited.
I always feel like I’m a really bad person for thinking like this, but I genuinely do think society is at fault. In nature, creatures that aren’t eventually capable of taking care of themselves in independent species are left to die. We’re the only species that decided we would vehemently reject this, likely due to sentimentality. We’re going to desperately keep everyone around us alive no matter what it costs us, and we’re going to make them live in the world until old age needing constant care from birth until death (I feel similarly about old people where their life quality and awareness of what’s happening around them has completely dropped, they are a shell of themselves, yet we desperately keep them alive). I don’t fully understand why. We invest and invest and invest for zero return except ethical superiority. And we’re trying to put these people in as much “real world” situations as possible (no matter if they’re learning anything or not) not their own communities. We can’t even accept them as they are- no mentally retarded person, you can’t play with trucks all day, we need to make you employable! They get treated like overexcited dogs but they still must aspire to employment even if the degree of retardation is so severe they will likely never get a job. It’s cruel to all of us.
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>>3034680>>3034735I had a really shit experience at a psych ward as a teen, so I can relate to this a lot. When I was at a ward, there was a retarded boy similar to the one you described, except he was clearly younger than the other patients, maybe 13 or so. He could only talk about hockey and was clearly autistic, and he was put there for being too violent for his normal tard school. Why they thought the ward was the right place for him I have no idea. We weren't allowed to lock our rooms, despite the fact that the staff had keys, so he kept coming into my room constantly, until I told him I would literally kill him if he did it again, which scared him off, and the staff of course scolded me for "being mean and threatening," no matter what the tard was doing before that. I also witnessed him attack a girl out of the blue, we were sitting in the common room when he ran in, grabbed her by her ears and started yanking them hard, and it took the lazy staff like two minutes to get him off her. It was a shitshow of a place anyway, but the tard made it worse.
No. 3035278>>3035293>>3035318>>3038652
>>3034255I agree with you but you can’t just make their mothers stay with them 24/7 because they’ll be murder-suicided or abused. People need respite because tards are gross and depressing to be around. There’s retards that work on the checkouts at my local supermarket and they do a good enough job. A little slow but other than that they’re ok. I wouldn’t mind but there’s an unemployment crisis atm and people are having to do 2 or more interviews for the most basic entry level jobs and then they just turn around and give it to a retard. It’s maddening. Only way to really solve the problem is
eugenics but that’s obviously deeply frowned upon.
No. 3035318
>>3035278>there’s an unemployment crisis atm and people are having to do 2 or more interviews for the most basic entry level jobs and then they just turn around and give it to a retard. It’s maddening.Retail anon here, that's exactly how I felt when I saw they hired a retard. Where I live the quotas apply to all disabilities so if you have diabetes or you're deaf or you just need to download a software to help you type because of your dyslexia, or you need a special office chair after your car accident you can be hired in the same pool of job seekers as drooling retards so that pissed me off way more than it should have. I was a poor student back then and once I finally had that job it was already too late to save money and spend it for specific university projects to have more skills and a better resume, because of an economic crisis first and then because of good old racist discrimination and "you don't have experience yet so we can't hire you". Then I see a drooling retard who should stay home got the same job and salary I got? Like at least I could get by with that money and I really needed it to compensate for my scholarship being reduced out of nowhere during my last years in university but everything about it felt like a cosmic punishment for trying to escape poverty. Like you finally have a part time job several years too late even if it sucks? Congrats, after all this time when hiring managers treated you like a piece of shit during interviews, you know who else has this job? A literal subhuman. You know who else had similar jobs earlier than you and didn't even need the money? Similar subhumans.
I don't give a fuck if that's ableist because these same employers refused to give my physically disabled mother a job for years and shit talked her from time to time because they'd rather hire people who never go to medical appointments, I'd rather feel bad for her and other people like her.
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absolutely dystopian and all the ppl around her were right, it's no one else's responsibility but ur own to take care of ur mental health, scrotes only alog when they're being cowards or to hurt their family/friends
(i hope im posting this in the right thread sorry if not nonas)
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>>3035344If he was delusional and bipolar, then it was time to make an appointment with a professional and get fucking medicated, there was literally no other way. She blames everyone else for something that pertained her boyfriend specifically, I think she can't cope with this fact yet so she prefers lashing out at randoms that couldn't possibly "make" him do what he was supposed to do: be responsible for his own mental health. "Talk to him" as if regulars can do something about fucking bipolar psychosis, we're not shrinks, psychiatrists or therapists, she's blaming everybody because she knows deep down her boyfriend decided his fate himself. He knew he was delusional and didn't act accordingly, instead decided to get actively worse and apparently avoid medication? Where was this guy shrink?? She needs therapy and to confront the situation and stop harboring resentment
No. 3035718>>3035723>>3035760
>>3035683I was on proana Tumblr for a bit so here's my insight It's a control thing, first and foremost. That's why a lot of ana spaces are obsessed with "discipline." If your life is shit, you can at least take control of your diet. If you feel ugly, you can at least take control of your weight. If you're stressed, you can relieve it with comforting rituals centered around food (or depriving yourself of it). Obviously they take it to a ridiculous extreme, but that's the core characteristic. It's also a competitive disorder by nature: some people will feel ugly or fat compared to others and spiral further, while others become super narcissistic because the ED gives them a warped perspective and they think they're better than everyone else. The latter type is LOUD. In my opinion, they always have some pre-existing issue unrelated to the ED. The control element can also extend to
triggering or bullying other people because they're nasty pickmes who literally have nothing else going on in their lives.
No. 3035729>>3035737
>>3035723Ayrt, they are
literally batshit insane kek
>I'm ~strong enough~ to resist temptation and starve myself, so anyone who doesn't is clearly just a lazy blob No. 3035742>>3035744
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>>3035737>They are obsessed with being bigger, not smallerShit like this should qualify as mental illness. These are the anachans of moids
No. 3035768>>3035774
>>3035766Attention seeking bippie like
>>3035760 said
No. 3035835>>3035963
>>3035828ADHD fags lie so badly, they are the opposite of what they say.
>I have ADHD so I'm great at multitasking!!!Is actually bad at doing any single task and will jump around erratically without doing anything properly. Will literally miss stop signs if having a conversation, but brag about being a multitasker. Id be fine with this flaw if they didn't meme it so hard that they have multi core processors in their head when they're shit at it.
>I have a fast brain and can conversate really well!Actually steamrolls you in discussion and doesn't let you get a word in if it's a topic they like, if they don't care they immediately zone out and leave you talking to a wall with no reply. Either way they do not care about intaking your side of the discussion, they listen only to rebuke or lead the topic elsewhere.
>ADHD is the reason my home is messy! You normies can just focus so easily Actually doesn't realize most of the things adhd fags meme about is stuff the entire world has to deal with
No. 3035897>>3035902>>3035914>>3035963>>3035980
>>3035828I've started to think that ADHD is a fake disorder. Every case I've seen of it fits into one of the following categories
> obviously cpstd > bad behaviour consequent to shitty parenting> pretentious self diagnosed lying moid Isn't there dispute among the medical profession as if it even exists? It doesn't have a very strong coherent collection of the same traits like bpd and autism do
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>>3035897This kind of tinfoiling is no better than medfagging tbh
>>3035902>>3035907No, because it's a type of neurodivergence
inb4 you argue, I heard that from a professional, face to face But that doesn't really change anything. They may not be able to unlearn it but they can take meds so it's not like they're helpless.
>>3035835I know some adhd fags, and while they didn't say exactly what you mentionned, they say very similar things. Long story short, they complain a lot but never seek help. My adhd fags don't brag about multitasking like yours but they act like they need constant stimulation because their brains are faster and more capable. As if our puny brains can't understand that their superior minds need more challenges. Motherfucker, start taking your meds and then we'll see about your so-called galaxy brain.
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>>3035897I don't doubt it exists but they're definitely enabled a lot more, especially moids
Basically
>ADHD moid>Gets diagnosed in primary school>Get given drugs, extra tutors, extra attention from teachers, extended time on assignments, more excuses for missed homework, etc >Get praised for doing the bare minimum And then he turns into an unbearable adult who still gets things handed to him and his wife/gf/whoever has to pick up the slack because he can't function
ADHD in girls
>Get punished for missing assignments, struggling in school, etc>People dismiss lack of attention span as a result of TV/phone/just being lazy>Get ass whooped some more>Put in 10x the effort as a normal student just to maintain a C-D average while ADHD moids get medication, tutors and excuses No. 3035989>>3035994
>>3035970I doubt us farmers know better about it than people with doctorates who studied the matter for years. Btw I referred to said professional in relation to the neurodivergence thing, not the meds. Even so though, those meds do help in a lot of cases, so I don't get the excessive scepticism towards meds. You want mentally ill people to stop acting mentally ill after all, right?
>>3035978Yes adhd is a fake disorder made up by big pharma because, uh… reasons! Yes!
No. 3036121>>3036124
>>3036093that just sounds like a parenting failure, they were sheltered from the consequences of their disorganized actions by their parents and never had to suffer through them so there was no incentive to learn. istg behind every adhder there's always a mommy or grandma who always made sure they had clean clothes, picked up their garbage from the floor and cooked for them, so they never burnt a 50+usd frying pan that they would have to replace out of their own pocket
or worse and never left the laundry wet in the washing machine for 3 days causing it to smell like mould.
No. 3036295>>3036306>>3036574
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>>3036280>>3036200Nta but said lesions are different. Let me guess, you didn't look it up, right? Disclaimer to you and everyone else who thinks they know better than actual doctors: nobody gives a fuck about your anti-vaxx Karen tier theory about what ADHD could be, we're here to share experiences about how people with disorders have hurt us. Since you refuse to do any research, at least go to the tinfoil thread.
>>3036166I highly doubt she'll do her research, sadly
>>3036199I had to deal with two losers like that, both moids. The annoying part is they treat you like their personal therapist after their girlfriend leaves them or is about to. Each time I instantly shut them up by just asking "But you've lived for years without knowing her. You'd just revert to that."
No. 3036306>>3036347
>>3036295nta but doctors were also prescribing lobotomies when it was the trendy new cure so when there's a massive ballooning of any medical or psychiatric trend like this which suspiciously overlaps with a social need like this, it's worth being skeptical. I don't think all ADHD is fake but I do think a lot of cases are, like the
>>3036280 twins where one is and one isn't. ADHD can be real and massively over-diagnosed at the same time.
No. 3036347
>>3036306>ADHD can be real and massively over-diagnosed at the same time.Ayrt, I know, I'm just tired of these fringe theories. Skepticism is good
btw sorry for misspelling with a c instead of k earlier, ET(third)L and necessary even but these anons seem sure of their theories and don't want to do research. Next they'll be saying autism is caused by milk and that we're hit autistic dogs if we disagree.
>>3036330>someone in the family for making threats and false police reportsThat must be so dangerous for the people living in the same house. Police loves to ignore cases they don't deem serious (
cough women who are about to be
victims of femicides
cough) so I can imagine that they'll view a genuine call from the household of a serial false reporter as a "boy who cried wolf" situation. If it were me living there I'd kick the person out as a matter of safety.
No. 3036659>>3036669
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It's so funny that even DIDfags know that the whole thing is bullshit
No. 3036695>>3036731
>>3036669Some cases of multi personality have been real, but usually it is because of severe isolation and trauma. Its not a mental disorder that can be developed in any other way. And there have been very few credible cases. One was of a woman who was like, tied up somewhere and kept blindfolded and alone for years and raped and tortured. The people in her head were coping mechanisms and stand ins for relationships she didn't have in the situation. A mom figure, a father figure, a sister figure. So on and so forth. An extreme maldaptive coping mechanism that is curable with intensive therapy and medication.
Not this cutesy "i feel like wearing black uwu that means my emo alter is fronting"…
No. 3036912
>>3036574No anon, you can't just wish adhd away. You can take meds to tone it way down, though. Oh wait, you don't like when they do that either. "Stop having adhd! No not like that!"
>>3036908I don't think she meant that literally
>>3036669There are real cases but it's like 1% of the population. Just like asexuality, it does exist but so many people fake it en masse that most "cases" you witness are bs.
No. 3036932>>3036938
>>3036930They're low-level narcs. Then they turn around and go
>UGH I'm sooo empathetic and also so nice to everyone why do people always hate me I'm just a sweet angel who can do NO WRONG except LOVE AND CARE WITH ALL OF MY HEART!!!Of course they mean the random dick they message twice on tinder and have three hookups with that they're then madly "in love" with and not a single other person in their lives.
No. 3037030
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>>2909787My coworker that I've only known for a month sent me this after I told them they needed to pick up slack. I gave it straight to HR.
No. 3038652
>>3035278I swear to fucking god, the thing that made me blackpilled about the job market and job laws in my country is the tard quota. I was working in one of those bookstore-cafe-chill type thing, a little cafe with a little book section that you could either rent or buy, I applied and got accepted, there were THREE tards with me that constantly fucked shit up like messing up book orders (they would randomly type shit on the computer and order the same book 5-6 times and not restock the right ones), shrugged at people who stole shit because "they wanted it" and leaving crumbs on our customers tables during their lunch break. I got fired after a year because the boss told me that I was taking too much of their yearly bonuses and I understood where the shit was: they were running on tard benefits. The government was giving each tard, lets say, not a burger, 1k dollars for each tard working there monthly despite them just waddling around and making my boss their baby sitter and since I wasn't a tard, they had to pay me a proper salary and
I was the unsustainable one because I did my job. They couldn't fire the tards and give me their salary because what I did was going over their expectation. I had rent and food to pay, tards had housing by the government and their disability bucks with their minisalary from that workplace. I wish there was a law that keeps them from getting a job if they live on our tax money, this thing made me so evil that it made me think about faking autism and fibro to get some extra money. To think that I could get that money, of all of them combined, but couldn't so they could "stay busy" during the day and not hit their poor mothers and caretakers at home makes me rage, it was the perfect workplace for me since it was quiet and at a walking distance and now I have to wake up three fucking hours early to get to my new workplace.
No. 3038705>>3038824
>>3038672It's a bippie thing. I used to have a friend like this (obviously diagnosed and obviously refusign the bpd diagnosis) and he went into a tard rage when I stopped inviting them.
It's a form of attention seeking and one time he accidentally told me what he actually thought when doing shit like that. Basically this friend of mine was flaky as fuck, always left meetings early, always blamed it on "migraines" or nausea, always cancelling last minute, I got stood up a shitload of times and when I started hanging out with people and yes, I did it as revenge to get back to him (reminder that bippies DON'T have feelings. Real bippies don't feel anything besides rage or sniffing-own-farts type of satisfaction when they have attention, like a "gotcha") and he went "Uhmmm why I wasn't invited?" "Because if you're always sick, I avoid bothering you" and he had this slip where he said "But anon I like to be invited and to be considered, even if I'm not there, the thought of you inviting me makes me feel good…so please invite me, even if I'm not coming."
It just a way for them to be sure you're always thinking about them even if you're out with other people. They do not accept not being the center of your attention.
No. 3038778
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>>3038443ACKSHUALLY it depends on the person (as in, not all autists can't think critically, the bigger picture thing is due to paying more attention to detail, yada yada) but the way I understand it, being autistic makes you way more likely to have a mental retardation, which in itself does make your thinking more child-like and rigid (duh).This is going to sound really weird but the way I view it, autism is a bit like AIDS. It doesn't automatically come with cancer or some fucked up disease (metaphor for retardation in this case), but it's really damn likely. So yes, whenever people instantly act like an autist is a misunderstood genius, it honestly looks more like fake kiss-assery for social justice points if anything. And when the autist themselves does it, you can tell somebody lied to them, typically their parents.
>>3038672As someone who struggled with severe migraines in the past: there's definitely something off here. There is medicine that actually helps with crippling migraines, though it's stuff you can only take twice a week or you get liver damage. Either way, she could've showed up at LEAST twice a week instead of never. As for your friend, she's absolutely bullshitting and I'm sorry about that.
No. 3038787
>>3038672Anyone who claims to get migraines but still uses a screen without blue light reduction filters is full of shit. 100% of the time. No exceptions. If she's calling out of plans for a migraine but still posts on insta, she's a munchie liar who doesn't understand what a migraine is. Reducing blue light exposure is literally the easiest thing someone can do to reduce migraines but watch all those phone addicts clamor for excuses and claim that the sepia tone on their bright white screen
triggers a headache.
No. 3038883>>3039741>>3040516
>>3036731nta I want to know how these people have such a firm control over their mind and compartmentalizing their thoughts in such a way. Fascinated because I personally lack that, and would assume most
victims of truama would be even
moreso lacking in that area. Feels like it is on par with telling a depressed person to just not be depressed kek
No. 3039766>>3039787>>3044043
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Aaand it's another "people look up what BPD actually is, by citing the symptoms and butthurt bippies/lazily diagnosed girls say that they would never do shit that's literally in the diagnostic criteria" episode.
I don't blame them, as I said I believe that half of the girls and women diagnosed with bippieism are most likely the
victim of lazy therapists that just slap that label and call it a day but I hate how defensive they get over a disorder they most likely do not have.
Some people are pieces of shit because their disorder keeps them from being decent human beings, that's just facts. You do not see this shit with other disorders.
https://x.com/AI_EmeraldApple/status/2066267496400003143 No. 3040516
>>3038883The older I get the more I think that a lot of mental illness related behavior is mainly caused by a lack of emotional and general intelligence, not even the trauma or whatever. Like these people barely interiorized theory of mind, sure it’s not that they
literally don’t know other people are separate from them, but their behavior is that of someone that doesn’t
fully believe/accept that others have their own lives and interests and rich inner worlds. And then you could have someone with the same abandonment trauma who does have some emotional intelligence, they will also have their mental issues but it won’t manifest in bippie behavior. Who knows how or why this happens, it’s also true that trauma, especially early trauma literally causes brain damage so could it be that they just don’t fully develop past a certain point or something due to that? Idk I’m just talking out of my ass, but it’s just so clear to me that as you say they are literally emotionally retarded and this is what drives most of their actions
No. 3041254>>3041721>>3044040
>>3040909There's a lot of overlap between the symptoms of autism and ADHD so I bet a huge amount of these diagnoses (not counting self diagnoses via Tiktok) are lazy/shitty psychiatrists. I'm sure it's possible to have both at the same time but when I think of AuDHD I think of Courtney Ahn kek.
>>3038798Well yeah because those parents see their child as a prop, not a human. They take their 6 year old overstimulated child to Disneyland on the busiest day of the year, film the meltdowns and put it online for asspats about how brave and wonderful they are for raising a literal devil from hell and taking it to see Mickey. Before socials were a thing these parents were into indigo children and empaths.
No. 3044043>>3044047
>>3039787>>3039766Imo a lot of women who "have" BPD would instantly be cured if they stopped hanging out with
toxic scrotes/friends. And a lot of people who "have" AuDHD would be cured if they cut down the screentime once in a while
No. 3044047
>>3044043ngl i believe the line between real bpd and a wrong mis/self diagnosis is
abusive behavior. the latter never show even the slightest "craziness" other than crying over being treated like shit but somehow think they're bpd
No. 3044310>>3044349>>3045069
>>3043523further update: the child was being reported as safe, but he's got life-changing permanent injuries.
>>3044231the focus has completely been on his carers for not paying attention, and while they should face criminal consequences for that, why was a retard with violent tendencies let outside at all?
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>>3044958>>3044967On a related note, it makes me fucking sick how women are just expected to spend their whole lives slaving away for these children that are incapable of loving them back. What purpose does it serve to keep these barely-functioning retards alive??
No. 3045069
>>3044310>why was a retard with violent tendencies let outside at all?I sincerely don't know. Is there a reason we don't use those leash backpacks? Parents I know swear by them so I don't see why they can't be scaled up for adults.
>>3044412Holy neglectful parenting Batman. His parents LET HIM drink out of the same plastic sippy cup for over a decade!? There's a reason toddlers are taught to drink out of normal cups as soon as they're able to hold them upright, because doing sucking motions too often and too late into childhood will screw up how your teeth grow in.
No. 3045870>>3046068
>>3045084There is a creepy phenomenon especially common with boys where a mentally ill parent (usually the mom but can happen with both) will purposefully arrest a child's development in an attempt to control them.
I have seen some serious fucked up shit with mentally ill parents to the point where my mind sometimes wanders to eugenics for the sake of child welfare.
No. 3048720>>3048725
>>3048397Yeah but they're crazy obsessed with how people think of them and at some point there is an overlap.
I get being shy as a kid at your first job or public speaking but if you're over 25 and still have "social anxiety" over asking for extra napkins at McDonald's then you really need to be removed from society. You think the employee gives a fuck about you out of all people?
It's like schizophrenics who think everyone's out to get THEM of all people kek, as if the government cares about your super special self.
No. 3048725>>3048728
>>3048720A lot of self-proclaimed "anxious" people are also nasty as hell
over the internet, they'd never say shit to anyone's face kek to anyone who is cringe and free instead of obsessing over others' perception of them 24/7. It's like when dysmorphiafags seethe over normal looking people, or when people pleasers seethe that you've got a spine and stand up for yourself kek
No. 3049299
>>3044412I think that the core essence of being a parent is to raise kids, teach them life and one day, let them go and be proud of them. These kids are nothing.
Lets examine this case: that cup is NOT life saving. If he doesn't use it, he wont die. That cup is not a medicine or a medical equipment.
As a parent, his father should have educated him from a young age to every kind of cup. That is a survival tactic.
The cup can break or get lost, lets say, on holiday. What will he do?
If he drinks only by a sucking motion, it's purposely not letting him live.
I hate autism parents that disguise their munchiness by saying "this is for awareness!"
Uh yes? I'm aware that tards exist, now what? What changed in my and our life as a whole? The parent failed the disabled child. Sad as fuck.
No. 3049411
>>3044412How come these parents are never concerned that their kid is gonna die from obesity.
They'll do shit like freak out and reach out to the makers of 'insert highly processed food' if a company dares to change a recipe because that's the only thing their kid will eat. And isn't their kid actually so smart for noticing that it changed! They'll want a whole community effort to get involved and 'reach out' like a planned harrassment campaign. That's not so wholesome. But they're never anywhere near as concerned that their kid is fucking gigantic. They're more conerned with starvation and how it's a companies fault that their kid will now STARVE or dehydrate their way to an early grave. I've seen them try to boycott companies who won't bend at the knee for one tard kid. Tommee Tippee probably didn't want that heat but these parents also do it with companies that make snacks. They want them to just keep producing an unpopular product (that expires) soley for their kid
No. 3058705
>>3048952To be honest I don't see autists abuse or annihilate entire families like narcs do. On average narcs are way more dangerous, especially to women and children. I don't know about bippies tho, never met one
>>3048966If the narc is charming enough people won't believe you until it's too late, and even then it's debatable. Autists on average have lower social status, so besides a few guilt trips it's easier to leave them. Narcs often have circles of people who defend them too, I wouldn't fuck with that. Also if you make a mistake to reproduce a narc, you may give birth to another demonspawn who will try to ruin your life, that you will be responsible for.
Women should never get their guard down for narcs
No. 3062161>>3062201
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Malingerers or munchies should be locked up the moment the therapist realize it. Not only they're major attention whores, they also have the balls to act every illness under the sun for what? Attention? The cheapest thing you can get from someone?
Pic related is Evie Field, a random girl that one day has seizures, one day has pandas, one day has dystonia, one day has tics, one day has depression, one day she has to wear helmets for tics but somedays she's perfectly fine, until she randomly needs a wheelchair but then she can run. Fuck them.
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Literally anyone who won't stop demanding my fucking attention.
No. 3066681
A bippie made me spiral into full blown depression and anxiety, they're actual demons. I hate when people say shit like "you wont look cool when you will kill yourself over a boy" and I agree that many suicidal attemps are attention seeking but in my case, beware of blog but this has to serve as an example of how destructive they are, I grew up as "average pretty" autistic girl, meaning I only had creepy attention towards me but never actual connection because I didn't click with no one due to my social impairments. In my life, starting as a young teen, I was fucking molested because I was accused of being a pretty girl that was purposely acting dumb when in reality I didn't care/didnt get the whole flirting thing so that made me desirable at the eyes of moids?? what the fuck?
Anyway, growing up like this fucks up your entire perception and your self esteem, like I seriously thought at sixteen that I was only good as a sex object because I had nothing to offer and didn't deserve love (hey, I was a teen, I am social retarded to this day and I was hormonal, bear with me), to the point I was cool of being the side bitch of a dude if at least I got some positive attention and not insults then one day, this demon, this absolute poor excuse of a human being came into my life at 18.
He pretended and faked his personality to match mine, he fake laughed at my weird humor, he faked being into the things I was into and mind you, when you go all your life believing that you have to suppress your weirdness you kinda dig it, you know? He faked everything. He even fake wanted to get matching tattoos since I was getting into them.
Until one day, after he knew that he had me wrapped around his finger, he started being randomly mean and accusing me of it.
"Oh nona, you're annoying" "W-What? But you said-" "Yeah but can't you see I have things to do?"
"Oh nona, you're so mean when you engange in your interests (when it wasn't a problem till that exact moment) and you can't see how bad I'm hurting!" "But why didn't you tell me you're hurting?" "You have to FEEL it you insensitive cunt! You self absorbed bitch!"
and so on. I blamed myself for his evilness. I blamed myself once again for not being good enough.
Until one day, this was many years ago, he changed his status to engaged to another person.
"…Moid? What?"
"Oh yeah I didn't tell you?"
"No?"
"Yeah I knew this girl"
"…But we've been together for months? We were going out and having sex and all that? You said you loved me?"
"Yeah but we never officialized it, did I ever call you my girlfriend?"
That was the last straw that threw me into a full depression episode that lasted years. yes, years.
Because I blamed myself not for being weird, but for being stupid. I fell for his love bombing and then I had to deal with his random rage outbursts, I let him use my body and then he threw me away the moment he wasn't getting the right attention from me. I let him sweet talk me, I believed him and then I wasn't paranoid enough nor I didn't question him when he was on the phone while we were out at restaurants (I assumed he was looking at random stuff, like I browse lc when I'm on my phone outside kek). I was stupid.
I started not trusting anyone, I started being suspicious of anyone that came near me except my parents because what would they gain from me? I started not going out, I started being fucking agoraphobic because I was afraid of being molested again or "lured" into this kind of relationships again because I'm still a bit naive and to me, since I'm an autist, it doesn't make sense to be evil you know? When I heavily dislike someone I simply ignore them and if I want something I simply get it because manipulating people requires a fuck ton of energies that I don't have (plus I think it's retarded, if you have to manipulate people to have sex with them, you're no better than an actual retard that can't speak properly).
I had suicidal intentions because I didn't see a way out, I didn't see the good in anybody and everything. I know that maybe this would also sound like those narcs that believe the world revolves around them but try to see things by my point of view.
I'm a grown adult now and I did a lot of therapy to get out of this, I don't want to kill myself anymore but everytime I see his name, since we live in the same city, there's something that breaks in me again because how come that this spawn of hell is free to do whatever he wants out there and no one is making him accountable? How come that every girlfriend of his has something to say, since a couple reached out to me because he was stupid enoug to say my full name but then shut themselves like they're admitting war crimes? I don't understand. End bippie men.
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the bippie that split up our friend group broke up with her boyfriend and has been in another state for at least 3 months. But two other people in the group are getting married, and they apparently have still kept her invite. WHY?
I hate how fucking stupid my friends are. What really pisses me off is that I used to live with the BPD. People warned me about it. I thought oh no, it can't be that bad, and I got burned for it. These fucks acted like "oh well we told you so" with very little sympathy for me. That I suppose I can understand, but why still invite her then? So, you guys are just as retarded? And you're okay with her potentially ruining your day? Fucking insane.
No. 3066832>>3066854>>3067199
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Has anyone noticed a huge uptick in public tard encounters? I guess in the long term because they're not being sequestered in asylums anymore, further encouraged by carer discounts and lack of public scrutiny out of pity. But comparing how many I used to see in public growing up vs now, it really feels like this generation of parents have spawned so many of them.
Maybe I just woke up to it after working in retail. So many of them on public transit but tbf the region I was commuting through was infamous for high incest rates. Job listing sites are 90% carer jobs now and yes I know some are old people's homes but still. Bleak.
I deeply relate to the earlier thread discussions on tard hires (especially the males) ruining everything, because thinking about my experiences with both coworkers and customers still makes me shudder. I asked two carers sitting with a tardscrote on our lobby sofa if they were okay because they were acting strange, one gave me the look of a terrified prey animal and forced a smile, said everything was fine before the motley trio fled the scene of the crime, limping tard in tow. I inspected the sofa - he had pissed all over it.
No. 3076887>>3079408
I hate codependents/inverted narcissists. Lots of people think that just means clingy/enmeshed, but that’s not true - it means someone who’s enabling someone awful because they get something out of the caretaking role. Traditionally used in the context where the “someone awful” is an alcoholic, but it applies to lots of other situations, too. It makes me so sad to see women give up their life in service of man-children, and angry when I realize I’m being recruited into their chain to funnel my energy and resources into their pet bottomless pits. There are even some examples in this thread. I’m probably a codependent, too, because I wish to change the codependents who wish to change the addicts…
>>3063195Autism used to be considered a type of schizophrenia. I don’t know why that’s not more common knowledge. I was once close with a high-functioning autist and she did jump to wack-ass conclusions, just like a schizo thinks a red car means the CIA is following them. As I got to know her better, I realized she was saying things that didn’t add up. I had to cut her off because I just couldn’t trust her anymore - not because she was lying on purpose, but because she couldn’t correctly perceive the truth.
No. 3077556
I don't get it when autists say they're so much more deeper and realer in personality than le annoying normies. Mate your entire personality is you larping an anime character, normal people have plenty of facets to their personality. It's the most hilarious cope for their lack of social skills.
unrelated but I've been thinking of this post
>>3026636 for some reason like this genuinely feels fishy/like nona's mom/nigel discovered lc and decided to wk
No. 3077809>>3077818>>3084095
>>3076748The bippie I know fucking trooned out for attention. Yeah I know, all troons do it for attention but he did it because their old personality change didn't bring anymore attention.
In order, they tried to be an artist, then a cosplayer, then they tried competitive videogames, then they wanted to be a game developer, then they wanted to play piano, then crafts, then concept art, then writing, then tablet top games but since these hobbies didn't stick because they didn't bring them attention, they started going all in with shit like from being a /r9k/ robot incel to whore themselves out by saying that they could do whatever they want and nobody should judged, dressed like a raver and being a creep then they tried being an intellectual with almost all of their hair shaved down, glasses and good clothes and diet, they lost 20kgs and became the "uhm akcthtually guy" then they faked a mental illness and one week later, with no therapy, they had full knowledge of the disorder and became a spokeperson of it then the hype was dying down and the trooning out began and they became obese. It's like they reinvent themselves and don't actually remember all of their past lives and when you try to point out any holes in their story, they go "yeah I was naive, I didn't know!". They change personality, morals, everything around them, they can be your friend one minute and enemies the other because they are different people everytime. They could say shit like "I never liked you!" because in that moment the past and the buildup of their character doesn't exist. Everyone is a progress of themselves, they are just dangerous black holes and I say dangerous because they are so good at it, they attract a lot of people and hurt them deeply.
No. 3077818>>3077859>>3077907
>>3077809Interesting stories here, pretty eye opening tbh, kek.
>It's like they reinvent themselves and don't actually remember all of their past lives Yeah, this phenomenon baffles me. I genuinely thought it was simpler, like some normie going through a million tiktok phases, but the difference between the bippie and the phase normie is that the latter still naturally acknowledges their phases as part of them? Even if they find it cringe and want to die and hide everything, they're still aware and acknowledge it. Meanwhile the bippie is genuinely a black hole. Plus the normie still retains their "base" values, personality and morals
No. 3077911
>>3077907Those weren't examples enough?
Well say you try a thing, you drop it because it doesn't fit ya, you try another thing. The self doing the trying stays the same throughout. Actual identity disturbance means there's no stable self doing the trying to begin with. The trying is
all there is. There's no base underneath going "hmm this one's more me" because there's no "me" running the comparison to begin with. Each new aesthetic or identity isn't tried on with a bippie, it's inhabited completely and then abandoned completely, with no continuity between them.
The difference is whether you can look back and go "lol I had a X phase." If you can narrate it as a phase, you have a continuous self that persisted through it. Even if the phase makes you want to die of cringe. BPD identity disturbance means they can't narrate it that way because the person in the phase wasn't them in any felt sense. There's no narrator above the phases
>>3077908>going full no contact for a couple weeks and then coming back like nothing happenedEmotional disturbance. They always chalk it up to "uhh i was struggling" but there's a difference between people who can't reply because of depression or being busy and bippies cutting you out of nowhere (then often claiming you abandoned them first!)
No. 3077950>>3077957>>3077962
>>3077944>>3077933It's not a mental illness, it's a
personality disorder aka worse. It's literally who they are as a person and incurable. A mental illness is something like depression or anxiety which is simpler and curable
>I think saying that its a mental illness and just to deal with it takes away all the responsibility that they haveActually yeah
No. 3077965
>>3077962None, duh?
>they aren't mentally incapacitated and they know what they are doingYeah? That's true too ofc
No. 3077972
>>3077961Nah for some reason the ICD places it under the mental illness category.
>Even so TBIs aren't as bad as bippiesA lot of them are on par or much worse. TBIs can cause people to become insane uncontrollable perverts with intense anger issues, particularly in moids but that's a given.
No. 3078023>>3078050
>>3077677>"narcissistic abuse survivor" who makes it their entire personality is often narcissistic themselvesAbsolute truth. Particularly the ones who decide that they must become the prophet of narcissism and teach people how to "train their narcs." The training doesn't work, and it just encourages people to lash themselves to problem people instead of get out of an abuse situation.
>>3077992Genuinely, I have yet to see a case of social anxiety in adults that can't be explained by excess self-absorption. "Ummm but they're judging me." No they're fucking not, and why would you care if they were? You're going to spend all of five seconds interacting with them and then both of you will move on with life.
No. 3078050>>3078080
>>3078023>No they're fucking notThat's a lie and you know it. Especially in contexts where everyone knows each other. You're correct when you say we shouldn't care though. I can't really say I had anxiety but when I was younger I was told all the time that nobody cares what I do and I should just be myself and all that bullshit just to meet some people from 15 or 20 years ago by accident lately that I never even talked to who remembered my first and last name, in which class I was in the same school, what I looked like, who joked about how weird my hair looked
because of white hairdressers being retarded or how short I was
because of a disability which I was bullied for, and told me to say hi to one of my siblings. And I'm from a big city. People with anxiety are annoying as fuck and I eventually kept my distance from someone I know because of her own anxiety but telling them nobody cares about them isn't going to help them at all.
No. 3078080>>3078175
People with misophonia, fuck off.
>DON'T CHEW CHIPS AROUND ME RAHHHHHH IT SETS OFF MY TISM-POWERED HEARING RAHHHHHH!! HULK SMASH!!>>3078050Nobody actually cares though, social anxiety is just a form of narcissism because of constantly thinking if how other people perceive you. Believing that nobody cares about you is better than being retarded and thinking every single person you've ever passed by in your life has created a perfect 1:1 version of you in their head that they laugh at constantly.
No. 3079408
>>3076887>Autism used to be considered a type of schizophrenia. I don’t know why that’s not more common knowledge. I was once close with a high-functioning autist and she did jump to wack-ass conclusions, just like a schizo thinks a red car means the CIA is following them. As I got to know her better, I realized she was saying things that didn’t add up. I had to cut her off because I just couldn’t trust her anymore - not because she was lying on purpose, but because she couldn’t correctly perceive the truth.Yeah, I've experienced this from an autistic person but I didn't think it was literal belief in that stuff it was just invented drama to give themselves dopamine and social connectedness that they can't get naturally. Most autists I've met have a fixation on social status because they rarely get any wins or inclusion and being stalked by the cia would make you feel important.
>>3079251Not really. BPDs are socially manipulative and copy others to try and achieve a sense of security that they don't have from their lack of self, autists have very rigid interests and can't read the room socially at all. Autists have meltdowns that come from being unable to control their environment, usually set off by physical sound or food
triggers, BPDs have meltdowns from being unable to control people. Literally everyone yells and screams and punches things if they get angry enough. Being good at copying others and picking up on trends is where BPDs get their phases from, an autist couldn't do that.
No. 3083444
>>3080356In my experience, they do this weird lovebombing thing where they target a person with low self esteem and glaze the
fuck out of them. Night comes, some awitch flips, and they dig into the person in the weirdest, most targetted manner. Night ends, they apologize. Morning comes, they lovebomb. Rinse and repeat on a religiously accurate timer. Stands out like a sore thumb. When you finally break free from them, you become public enemy number one to them, and they will do whatever it takes, 24/7 to make you feel like ass no matter how gently you let them go.
>t. dealt with several of them in the past without knowing what the fuck BPD even was until years later No. 3084090>>3087035
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No. 3089556
>>3089549>I also think its more common with bad parents.Absolute truth. It's very difficult to tell the difference between ADHD and someone who just wasn't raised right. Children who grow up without anything expected of them tend to have problems with attention and punctuality as adults, who would have guessed?
>I hate the idea of kids given powerful meds to mold them into whateverSincerely, I cannot wait until we see psychiatric treatment of children the way we see lobotomies today. It's actually heinous to give a child psych meds when their brains are still developing.
No. 3089562>>3089566
Why does
>>2943816 have two bait replies? Assuming they're not the same person. But did that anon's mom or pedo boyfriend find this site or track her device history or something? It has to be kek like surely it can't be just a normal troll, there are plenty of other stories about violence and csa in these threads but they're going for this one in particular? Or maybe I'm writing fiction
On the rare chance it isn't and maybe replier is just really mentally stunted then uhh getting "annoyed" by kids isn't an excuse to rape them, whatever it's probably bait isn't it.
No. 3089572
>>3089504I don't think that's a nonna kek
>>3089566Maybe it's really the mom/bf, a typical one would go for like 50 other posts itt
No. 3089581
>>3089573Never doubt the insanity of a pickme defending a pedo nigel. If that mental strength and stubbornness was made physical, she would be stronger than every human on earth combined.
>>3026767 is right
No. 3090449
>>3090431That narcissistic abuse thing is such a grift for pop psych influencers IMHO.
They just throw shit at the wall and see what sticks and naive people eat this shit up and can make the abuse they endure even worse by doing those strategies that obviously don't work.
We've already discussed gray rocking, lmao, this is the go-to advice, it doesn't work.
No. 3090509
>>3090486That doesn't work if the person is genuinely nuts or lives off control. If you're "boring", then they'll just get worse and find a way to make you "interesting".
>you should talk moreAs if this won't just infuriate them rather than "bore" them
No. 3090565
>>3090486Best thing you can do is not feed the narc. Ignore them, don't respond. They take any sign from you as a win. They will hate you once you stop serving them and might lash out but you need to not react and they will move on to the next
victim on their supply list. Usually they can already tell when you figure them out and just keep you as a holding space before you even start to grey rock them
No. 3092725>>3092783>>3094154
>>3091504>>3091418>>3091408Everytime I had an argument with a bippie it was always
>Do something>Bippie doesn't like it>Bippie bottles that shit up >Bippie becomes passive aggressive instead of talking>"Bippie what's wrong?">"Oh why can't you understand?">"What?">"You did this, anon">"Oh, why didn't you tell me in that moment instead of bottling up? I could've listened.">"Because you're retarded and stupid and you deserve to die and I hate you and you father did a good thing by molesting you as a kid and you deserved your family dying in front of you and your dog getting run over by a car as a kid was an act of kindness by God to you since you're so fucking evil!">"Bippie why are you such a cunt">"YOU MADE ME ACT LIKE THIS!">"So you're saying that you can't control yourself?">"No it means that you have to realize what a shit person you are, anon! Never speak to me again! Fuck off"One week passes and they do shit like
>"Oh anon…I miss you."Repeat.
When I was in a strict relationship with a bippie and I was already fallen out of any kind of love, it had become a game to see in how much time he (of course, male) would go back to his words and he was always the one to reach out when he said he didn't want me to talk to him, as if I was the one doing that or in how many minutes he would call me again after hanging out and tarding out on me on the phones. The last time was 4 minutes. He expected me to call back yeah kek no.
The reason bpd is being seen as a beautiful princess disorder and not retarded narcissism, which it is, is that their actions are completely random. A true narcissist plans their shit moves carefully and makes everything fall into pieces to craft this perfect version of themselves, plus they lack emotions, bippies wants to do that but they have their hormones all over the place (that's also why is called emotional immaturity, they act like edgy teens) and are impulsive as fuck so they sabotage their same plans and since they cannot self reflect because they don't have a self to reflect to, they blame everything to others. Remember, there's a reason it's in the same cluster a narcissism and that's because don't feel empathy, their "empathy" is just them suffering because you don't provide for them.
Meaning if you're sad one day and you cannot give them your full attention because you have your own shit to take care of, they pull this absolute rancid game of checking your mental status instead of actually caring.
>Oh uhm anon? Are you sad? Are you sad that your mother died? Uhm, ok anon. Uhmmm. Are you still sad anon? Oh, ok. Ok! Uhm. Anon! Anon! Listen, your mom was a good person, ok anon? Ok! Are you still sad, anon? How do you feel anon? Are you better? When will you be better, anon? Later, tomorrow? Anon, I can't live without you(r attention), anon! Please remember this anon! Anon? Why are you still sad? Anon? But you were sad yesterday, why are you also sad today? Please cheer up anon! If you're not happy you cannot provide for me! Anon! So you don't want to leave the house? Anon? But you were supposed to come here and do nothing with me? It's like a child crying over a broken toy, they're not devastated about the toy, but because they cannot play with it no more.
Never fall for the bippie propaganda, never try to excuse them, most criminals are in the cluster B and bpd men are violent shits. They cannot be saved.
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>>3092725my favorite bippie argument
(bippie is short with me when I ask her to pick up some shit in our living arrangement)
>bippie: I have demand avoidance so if you ask me to do it now i'm not going to do it now (smug grin)>me: okay well do it some time soon>bippie: are you mad at me, are you mad at me, are you mad at me, are you mad at me>me: (after the third time i say no) well you keep asking me that and it's very annoying.>bippie: (bursts into treats and stomp-runs into her bedroom crying like a toddler, wails loudly for an hour)I kicked that bitch out shortly after that, and it was the beginning of the end of my entire attitude towards these types of people. It was actually embarrassing.
>bippie: you're kicking me out!? during a HOMELESS CRISIS?!????!>bippie 2 weeks later: moves in with pussywhipped younger boyfriend>bippie 4 months later: effortlessly moves back in with parents at their nice house in the westJust a pathetic, cringeworthy, childish person. I have to be in the same room with her soon for a mutual friend event, and I'm fully prepared to lob back any of the passive aggressive, sickly sweet, psychopathic shit she directs at me. I am no longer worried about alienating myself from the friend group because I think these people are retarded for entertaining her the same way I did. So it's on. This week it is so fucking on.
No. 3092795
>>3092788>>3092787she claims her BPD is actually autism, which is why I am this anon now:
>>3091408She started saying that she was autistic maybe a year or two after her family member's child was diagnosed with nonverbal autism. The whole thing stunk the moment she started up with it. Then she started doing all kinds of stupid shit, like
>exaggerated stimming>hypersensitivity to smells and sounds (easy to write it off as such instead of being emotionally volatile)>becoming obsessed with jelly things and stim toys (lol)>calling herself autistic in her socialsIt's the easiest way to draw attention to herself, so I'd rather not even use the label anymore, as she would love to run that argument into the dirt. I don't care if she has lupus, she's a fucking cunt and if I have to be the first person in the group to shit on her thoroughly I will.
No. 3095400>>3095567
>>3094514>>Autists act like they have inherently deeper ethics and integrity.I think this has more to do with the intensity of hyperfixation. A lot of autist are really into history, philosophy, and ethics, where they develop into hyperfixations. All that time and energy put into those subjects may convince them of having a deeper insight into their special interests over others.I seen this with autism and academics. But hyperfixation is fleeting.
t. autist
No. 3095795
>>3095723You haven't seen sonic autists and fetishfags? Kek
>>3095540Learn2reply and who said they weren't? They just need to fuck off and actually get help rather than make it everyone's problem
No. 3095847>>3096103
>>3095521Especially the ones who post online and basically brag and turn self harm into a competition. There are pro-SH communities online that basically operate the same as pro-ana where they compete to be the most fucked up cutter and sneer at "fake cutters doing it for attention" (when I was a teen a "fake cutter doing it for attention" was anyone doing superficial self harm on an easy to hide body part and TRVE CVLT CVTTERS where hacking themselves to the bone and going to the ER every weekend which I guess is somehow less attention seeking than being discrete?).
>>3095723Ironically this thread is full of undiagnosed autists (and/or diagnosed "not like other autists" autists) who have rigid and inflexible thinking wrt autism.
Same as how 90% of BPD BAD posts here are very clearly by martyr-type cluster Bs sorting the world into black-and-white categories of "narcs" and "
victims".
No. 3096103
>>3095819The bird catalogue autist is also a Chris chan autist in secret. They're all one and the same, don't act like there's special categories
>>3095847I wonder how they get all the money and resources for people to fawn over them with their daily ER visits
No. 3096344
>>3096320>suicide baiting is a form of splittingEh not really, those are separate criteria aren't they? Violent or no, splitting involves literal good vs bad, them seeing you as an angel and perfect vs suddenly thinking you're evil and should be killed, no? Even when he was suicide baiting he still was the former despite wanting attention. He was just all "anon you're so lovely and cute, you're so good, you're the ultimate judge, should I die lol" rather than "fuck you you evil spawn of satan and lilith you should die tomorrow i'm gonna kms to make you suffer in guilt and hell forever" which is what a lot of other survivors go through from speaking to them.
Bippies only need 5/9 criteria anyway so maybe he just didn't have that
No. 3096743>>3096774>>3096910
>>3096740NTA but being in psychosis does not make someone
less vulnerable to abuse/attacks
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>>3096581antipsychotics cause brain damage.
https://www.camh.ca/en/camh-news-and-stories/anti-psychotic-medication-linked-to-potentially-adverse-changes-in-brain-structurethere's also evidence that over medicating schizophrenia can lead to a poorer prognosis. i'll take my meds when i go full schizo and they force them down my throat, but i'm not giving myself a chemical lobotomy willingly.
No. 3097102
>>3096916>I'm pretty sure these are not scientifically documented side effects ofnta Gonna have to stop you there. While I have no horse in this race, docs are real good at pretending side effects don't happen when they're reported to happen in groups.
See: Brain Zaps kek
