Replying to @Hlela_Lulubel
she was a horrible parent,
She used to physically and mentally abuse me.
She left me and my dad to go to California when I was 4,
She was never there for me til I was 7 when I saw her again, I had dreams about seeing her only to wake up with nobody around me,
She divorced my dad after I came to california and then took me with her only for me to be mentally and physically abused,
I mean she tried to take care of me but she didn't have good mental health, and she was unstable and life was hell for me because we kept moving every few months or year, so I never had friends, eventually, I got sick of it and moved in with my dad at 12.