ATOGA - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything: In this thread we ask the opposite gender anything! There are no thread-specific rules here, but we're on /adv/ so please respect /adv/ forum rules. Previously on ATOGA: >>34622465

Schizos who got on meds, did you feel better?: I had an episode of THC induced psychosis a year and a half ago and I only now started getting psychiatric help after I was worrying if God or the universe was talking to me through things like the words on chip bags. For the people who were at my level of retardation, did your treatment get you back to normalcy?

/htgwg/ - How to Get Women General #350: >What is /htgwg/? How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro. >What is /htgwg/ not? These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard today, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, give up, or insist there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can pollute. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM! >How to ask for advice Context is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question. >Resources and Books https://wingman.live/ (AI dating coach) https://pdfcoffee.com/318797392-mark-manson-models-2016pdf-4-pdf-free.html https://archive.org/details/robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy-id-353324692-size-612 https://www.youtube.com/@YourWingmam https://www.doctornerdlove.com/blog/ https://pastebin.com/7U5Sdhwq (Leykis 101) https://dokumen.pub/why-women-deserve-less-firstnbsped-1467978302-r-1917433.html https://www.fantasticanachronism.com/p/how-to-be-good-at-dating (new suggestions with working links are welcome) REMEMBER: It's good to read and prepare, but don't overdo it. Get off this site: go learn and build up your social skills by meeting actual women in the real world. Previous: >>34599628

How do i cope with the fact that no woman has ever sent me something like this or expressed any interest in me because im average looking and 176cm (right above 5'9ish) in a place every male is on average 185 (6'-6'1)? Never experienced childhood or teen love, never had any gf during early 20s, never held hands, lost my virginity to a 1 time tinder date and pity fuck

Work on myself, how?: People tell my to "work on myself" whenever I say I wish I could get a gf, but I don't know what that means. Exercise??? More money???

Ideas to fuck with neighbors you hate: Living in an apartment. Having access to their front door and their underground space in the common area (two parking spaces and storage unit) 1. Vanilla (minor hassle - easy to fix) - Put a piece of raw meat or fish inside their front door electrical panel. Let it rot and smell for days until they find it. - Flip the circuit breaker of their charger while they're charging their Tesla during the night. Ideally go back early in the morning and turn it back on so they don't understand why the fuck their car didn't charge. - Graffiti a giant swastika or cock on their front-door. 2. Committed (real hassle - hard to fix) - Cut off their charging post from the power source; their individual charging post is connected to the common electrical box. The wire goes through plastic pipes. Cut a section of wire inside the pipe so it isn't obvious the connection was broken. They will them assume the charger is broken and spend weeks arguing with the manufacturer before realizing what happened. - Pour cement in their keyholes (front-door and storage). For the front-door, do it while no one is home so they can't get inside without drilling. - Jam their car doors with super glue. 3. Demented (they might have to move) - Cement their car. Prepare two large bucket of fast-setting cement, then go to their parking space and pour it all over their Tesla. Level it with a spatula to make sure most of the car is covered. Go disguised as a clown or something because Teslas have sentry mode and you don't wanna fuck with that. What they'll see is a lunatic dressed as a clown holding two buckets coming towards the camera before everything goes dark. - Find a way to break into their house while they're on vacation and fill their toilet and sink drains with hydraulic cement. Pour a bunch of water to make sure it dries inside their pipes. They have to do serious and expensive repair work and won't be able to live there in the meantime. Add your own ideas.

My friend and his gf are fighting. We were supposed to watch UFC Freedom 250, but should I just leave? They just went into their bedroom to discuss/talk it out or whatever.

Should I keep pursuing my degree even if I hate it?: 1.5 years left. Computer Science. This degree is an actual scam. I studied this so I could learn to be a software engineer but there's barely any problem solving. What's the point of college if I'm going to be teaching myself everything anyways? I may as well have just studied something I actually cared about even if it wouldn't get me a job. Should I keep going or just bite the bullet and drop out? I will graduate with no debt but I will be debt and a loser.

How to fix my SHIT life at 25yrs old: I'm a huge fucking LOSER. I failed once or twice and then I just kept losing for a looong time now. I know it's stupid to even ask here but I am desperate and against the wall so to speak. Context: >Graduated in 2023, Software Degree and IT course (didn't know the market would get saturated this fast) >2024 I tried to get a job the way you usually do >2025, went abroad for work and only managed to hold a job for 3 months until the contract ended and the business changed owners >2026, basically fully NEET and back in my home country after pussying out overseas >Did a course in teaching English because I thought it'd get me short term cash (it did not) So, what do I do? I know any plans of having 'fun' 20's are over and done with but even the idea of getting anywhere in life seems impossible to me. Also: >Addicted to Doomscrolling, can't get enough sleep >Not sure how to socialize or network if it's even possible for me >Flat broke >Most likely have some form of ASD and trauma, as pathetic as that sounds I am trying to fix these things all at the same time but maybe I should look into getting meds or something. I think I might be depressed or burnt out or something. I don't recognize being this fucked up, even as a teenager. I just want to make money and be left alone now.

>"You have to learn to love yourself" >"Girls won't like you until you like yourself" >Okay, how do I do that? >"...*cough* Y-you just have to do it bro. It doesn't happen overnight. Excuse me, I left the oven on at home." So basically unless you won the parent lottery and they raised you to have self esteem there is no way to ever feel happy. Thank you very helpful.

How do you keep going as a non tall non attractive male in this hellhole society? I genuinely try everything in my power to not be blackpilled but it keeps slapping me in the face. I will probably rope by 30 at this rate.

I just got blackmailed, it was a screen shot of me, nude. It's my fault but.. Can someone help me negotiate?. This scammer want to destroy my life and someone in the future. It is my fault, fall for this trap, but help me make this scammer stop before someone else fall.

Any tailors here can tell me if these pants can be saved?:: Pants of a 2-piece suit. Bought off the rack and my wide shoulders forced me to get a number whose pants were huge. Went to tailor all to size but picrel shows the tailor fucked up. The pants are tight but that's just me being fat. The real issue is the diaper effect by the long seat and the pockets flaring noticeably. No tailor will now touch these as they say doing what I want would cause the crotch to tear open when I sit. First, the seat hangs 5cm past my genitals, grabbing 1cm of material away at the seat fixes the diaper effect and doesn't make sitting difficult. As for the pockets... Do I keep trying to convince tailors or take the loss?

Looksmaxxing: Is gettin jacked and lean really the only valid looksmaxxing and anti againg there is and all the other things are just wishful thinking?

Have you guys ever bought one of these? Is it worth it?

>rejected by any woman I approach >only approached by fat, polyamorous Disney adult women (happens once every few years) I’m too ugly to attract someone I’m attracted to, but I would sooner die than throw away my dignity. How do I hold on until death without compromising myself?

7 inches for a dick that's average right?

My roommates recently broke up with each other and now it's just me and the girl living together. I'm not really attracted to her, but I figure I'll never get another opportunity like this again, so should I try seeing if I can fuck her?

How do damaged women become BPD and can they be saved?

Whenever I see shit like this happening in third world countries to attractive women, I wonder how they ended up in a situation where they risk their life for a bit dopamine / attention of local chad / sensation of narcotics, when the only thing they need to do to have a good life is >go on dating website with location set for a first world country >like some nerd engineer guy with a stable job >make long distance relationship and marry him and move together in the course of a year Why are women so bad at investing their beauty/youth?

A confession from a friend: I published this earlier, but my grammar is horrendous becase english it's not my first languaje so I asked for some help to make this post easier to read: A month ago, my female best friend cried and confessed she has feelings for me. I'm pretty sure I'm straight. Before that, she tried to kiss me at a party, but I declined because I’ve never been kissed and wasn't ready. Since the confession, things have been incredibly awkward. We share the same friend group. In person, she acts cold, distant, or sad when I'm around. When I gathered the courage to say hi, she literally asked me, "Why are you here?" making me feel completely unwelcome. However, her text messages contradict her behavior. Over text, she says she wants to talk more, asks me out on dates (without setting a specific time), and even asked if I’d let her kiss me someday (I said I didn't know). Recently, she texted me saying it was weird that I was nearby and didn't talk to her, and offered me 5 bucks if she managed to talked to me the next day. She hasn't talked to me since, and we completely stopped texting. Now I'm added to a group chat with her because one of my friends add me. I'm incredibly confused. Her mixed signals are making me sad and anxious. Does she hate me? Is she just shy? Why say she wants to hang out if she acts miserable in my presence? Should I just ignore her, mind my own business, and match her energy? Help.

Is it true that women can tell when you're a coomer?

How to make a bigger sister apologize: Sorry for a wall of text but I'd appreciate any and all input. Not sure how to start but my sister (35) and me, the little brother (32) have always had a strained relationship. I've felt like she's had a mask all her life and that Ive never truly felt like Ive met "her", just a version she projects. She's been an avid attendant at church from around 13-14 and today is married to a priest and had a daughter three years ago whom have already started her brainwashing, wanting me to read books about church it her and shit. A lot of stuff is just incompatibility but my bottom live worry is this: She is hopeless at saying "im sorry". Why? I think she prays to her imaginary friend and that she, through "him", forgive her self - never actually being forced to say it straight to the persons face. I think she has a dream of being a saint too, so I guess shes taking the Trump route and never admitting to any faults. It's been two months now since she raised her voice at me for no reason except for her just not wanting to talk to me, mind you I was folding her laundry and keeping my niece and brother in law occupied from her and she thought it would be a good idea to yell at me trying to talk to her. I've gray rocked her since and I cant find myself wanting to explain anything to her as she's rarely listed to my needs before. So, how do I trey and bridge this fucked up gap without leaving me principles at the door regarding treating each other with respect and being able to apologize?

How does one fight depression, stress and anxiety at the same time: Yay, another one of those depression threads ik, but seriously, how the fuck is someone supposed to go about it. Due to certain home conditions and other stuff going on in my social life (along some more school related reasons, how exciting) I've gotten severely stressed over multiple months, which then let to depression, paired with the anxiety I already had going on. I even visited some therapist, but all they basically did was telling me: "Yeah. You're depressed and you also might have some anxiety", with nothing to go off by to treat it. And now I'm basically praying to stumble by someone who maybe has experienced similar things and tell me how they went about dealing with it.....

My wife is pregnant and the economy is strangling me. I can't sabe anything by the end of the month. I'm really concerned about giving this child a future. Any (non troll) /adv/ice? Pic related.

am i being cheated on?: basically just tell me if theres something else going on or im being a chud cuck here and should dig further for proof my gf recently brought up the idea of an "open" relationship to an extent where we stay together but its sort of dont ask dont tell what we do with other people, and honestly i was more or less down for it initially because we got together super young and had almost no experience before each other, after awhile though she backed out on the idea the concerning factor here is i never have really given a fuck who she has contact with, if she felt she wanted to talk to an ex i just told her to be transparent about it and i trust her, she was cheated on the times before by said ex and was constantly checking me early on in the relationship because of it well now i'm fearing i let her get too comfortable with this, i had an instinct kick in last night after all this we talked about while she was out, and i checked her ipad at home cause they sync her messages lo and behold there is 2 texts to her ex "i'll open the snaps (snapchats) later its dark out and i have people behind me" followed by "thank you sm" with a heart eyes emoji, there is NO message history before this which i know has to mean some shit has been deleted before that exchange i checked again and the dude just responded "hehe ofc" and that was it, i don't have an easy way to access the snapchat messages without getting her phone off of her, basically this shit looks suspicious as fuck to me thing is she's still acting completely normal and loving towards me, ive been planning to propose in a year and i don't think there's any way i can without knowing what the fuck is going on here as a side note: she used to "jokingly" take my phone to see who i was texting, which obviously idgaf about, it was just kind of annoying. lately, i can't recall a SINGLE time where she's done it, almost as if she's trying to avoid reminding me that i can just take hers and go through hers.

My GF admitted to lying to me to make sure I stayed with her.: A few weeks back my girlfriend told me to my face that she lied to me repeatedly over the first 3-4 months of our relationship to prevent me from leaving. She justified this by saying that "its normal for most people to lie and exaggerate as a form of masking during the honeymoon period", and then admitted that she had no guilt over what she did. It has been nearly 2 years and our relationship seems to just become more and more mutually destructive. She has become significantly less mature and needy over time and I have become distant and have lost almost all desire to engage in sexual activity with her, something which she has noticed and complained about. Both of us slowly stopped working out over time, something which we used to do nearly daily prior to us dating, and this has negatively impacted both of us. I should also mention that neither of us are straight and she is almost exclusively attracted to women. On top of this, neither of us originally wanted a monogamous relationship. We were effectively using each other to get back on the dating scene, or what is left of it, and even if we decided to continue dating we both planned on seeing other people on the side or integrating them into our relationship. While we both agree that what is going on isn't healthy we are unable to come to any solutions that we can both agree on. I do not want to break up with her as while we have our issues we both agree that we are the best partners we have ever had. Also, before anyone says "just be monogamous" that's what we have been doing for the last 2 years and neither of us are happy.

So basically any time I feel bad I immediately pivot to my phone or something similar and try my best not to think about it. The issue ist that I think that it fucks me even more over.

What skills can I learn in 30 days?: Gonna be jobless for the next 30 days and will have a lot of free time. Idk just looking for suggestions on what to do during this time. Been looking through the Google training and Coursera but idk if it's good or not

International Long Distance Wife is in a Crisis, What can I do?: >Married a woman in Texas >I'm in Canada >I visit her as much as I can while waiting for immigration to take in the application >things are fine when I'm there, but she seems to have severe abandonment issues, and they flare up severely when I go back home >like severely severely, maybe undiagnosed PTSD severely, I don't know >daily meltdowns, even at work, nothing really seems to help, inconsolable during these episodes >limited family resources, the only person she could move in with is her adoptive mom in another city who has, at best, a frayed relationship with her >If she was institutionalized in a ward right now, she would lose her job probably, and then go bankrupt after What can I possibly do here? I feel backed into a corner. Any ideas?

How do I cope with being the last person using this website from my peer group?: I'm a 28 y/o indian male raised in America who grew up with friends using 4chan in high school and college. As time passed, the friends left 4chan (and me) for various reasons, and it has become increasingly clear that I am the last person in my peer group using this website. What am I supposed to do? This website, since 2018 and especially 2023, has become really against, but at the same time, I don't want to lose the memory of using the website growing up and move on especially since I have no friends in real life and online. Any advice appreciated. Thanks.

Explain the women game to me. What do I need to do to fuck them? How would you game pic related to fuck her?

Lost story what can I do to make my piss smell as bad as possible?

Okay, so you know how zoomers are obsessed with jacking off to feet? Much the same way old people were obsessed with women's asses? Am I going to get sick if I go to one of those anime cosplay conventions and drink the foot juice of those anime girl cosplayers?

I know people who have gotten attention unbidden from women. Ie >number written on coffee cup going through the sbux drive through >girl smiles at them out of nowhere at a concert I've gotten buff, had my hair short, had my hair long--nothing has ever made a difference. I am always invisible. I don't believe a single female has ever expressed positive feelings towards me to any degree. Whenever a friend shares a story where some girl came on to them, I always get incredibly sad because it hasn't happened to me. What the fuck do I do? I'm sick of feeling hopeless, and I don't like getting upset just because something good happened to a friend.

Monogamy and escort maxxing: I need relationship advice from oldfags who've been there done that. About if I'll be content with only having one sexual partner I'm a 21 year old KHHV, I desperately want a girlfriend and want to have sexual encounters. If I woke up one day and was a chad, I'd go have a hoe phase So my questions is, even though I'm chronicly depressed and regret having never dated before, if I by an absolute miracle found the one, a woman that I honest to God loved with all my heart, would I be able to cope with having missed out for so many years I've heard that being a man slut can make you jaded, and make you unable to be cuddly and lovey-dovey and genuinely love someone. Is that real or is that cope? Because those kinds of kinda cringy disney movie-esque things are what my dream romance would be and I don't want to ruin it for myself if I decided to screw escorts Will I be able to make up for lost time and be happy, or even though my hypothetical wife loves me and I love her, will I still be depressed thinking about all that lost time?

How do I express my sexuality towards women? Is it just telling them you find them attractive? Does me saying I want to date them imply that I also want to put my penis in them eventually? What is the correct way to express this intention?

What should I do if, much of the time, I would rather jerk off to pornography than have sex with my girlfriend? I'm getting tired of doing it because it's so much effort. For example, on a day like today, she is at work for another few hours, and rather than wait for her and have sex with her tonight and try to put on a performance, I would rather just goon out like 3 nuts to internet porn and just call it a day and not give a fuck anymore when she gets here. Context >I'm 32, she is 30 >I am attracted to her, she is not fat or ugly, I would call her a 6.5 out of 10. We are relatively looksmatched imo as I am 5'10 and in good shape. >Been together for about 6 months so, the infatuation phase is probably ending Having sex is so much work. Even though I am attracted to her, she just cannot compete with whatever kind of hyper specific unrealistic scenarios I can watch in HD for free online with women from all over the world that I can handpick. I don't know how to say no to sex without feeling like a failure as a man, or that I'm not masculine. Am I doing something wrong?

How can I stop yearning?: >be me >I played it safe. I was a quiet, indoor type kid. I listened to advice from adults, focused on studies. >Never did anything bold, never caused much trouble >Currently finishing a masters. >Realize I don't really have passions. There's nothing I really care about except from getting a good job so I have food on the table >No experience with women. Recently moved away from my hometown for studies, so no friends either. I don't know how to make small talk. I don't even know how to dance. >Listened to a song about careless teenage romance >Realize I just finished the stage of life I was supposed to be careless at. I must now become a responsible adult. >Get depressed. Is there anything I can do? I have nostalgia for something I didn't do, and it's getting worse by the day.

GYM ICE BREAKERS: you using that?

How do I masturbate and not feel like death afterwards? It's okay when I'm all alone and don't have any noise after that for about 30 minutes. If I hear or see someone I get embarrased and feel shaky all through my body. I would fap more but I feel bad if I don't pee in a certain way.

I proposed to my girlfriend of 5 years a few months ago and now she wants to quit her job and be a "kept woman" with her lifestyle fully funded by me. She never wants to work again. I can't afford this shit but she insists I can. I joked about how I can buy her cute dresses to wear while she does chores and gives me the occasional BJ and she got very angry >I'M NOT GOING TO BE YOUR FUCKING BANGMAID WTF does she want? I thought a kept woman was basically a sugar baby. I have to pay and I can't even ask for blowjobs?? I go down on her all the time. I've never seen her this mad. Being around her is just miserable now. She just wants to scroll Tiktok all day. wat do???

Should I spend $100 on model kits or get a gf?: I am 21. My parents say that I should look for a gf but I have a model competition in less than 4 months and want to order some stuff to build for it (largest show in the state, by the way and I won a prize at the local level). Which do I choose? Convince me one way or the other. I cannot choose both.

cant find wallet: lost my wallet a month ago, cant go out do anything and am terribly miserable. i know nobody stole it because there have been no attempted charged on my account. its either in the house or in the trash. anybody have any tips?

How do I stop being overly emotional as an adult man? I can't control or hide my emotions and I am 30 years old. I have been practicing by watching heart wrenching shows and movies but I cry every time. I know plenty of women that are emotionally stronger than me.

Is it unethical to search for a relationship while mentally ill?

I just saw an image of a dude with his balls exposed and dissected. He's dead of course, but I have lost all desire to get an erection or masturbate as a result of that. Is this a reasonable response or am I a big pussy?

should i tell my bf im trans: I'm 19; he's 27. We're constantly going on day trips, and he takes me out to eat so much. I don't have a car, so he picks me up and sends me home via Uber. He also bought me Confessions of a Mask and Spring Snow by Yukio Mishima while we were at a bookstore. We then kissed in the elevator, and then again while in an art gallery with nobody but us. He constantly greets me not with a "hello," but by calling me "beautiful" or "cute," then caressing the top of my head like I'm a cat. He says I'm the cutest girl he's ever dated. He also introduced me to alcohol. So far, I've had bourbon, gin, and sake, which got me so drunk that he had to princess carry me to bed. That happened on our first night and many times since then. I really don't want to tell him because I'm scared he will break up with me in disgust. But I am still naive enough to believe that maybe he will reciprocate and love me regardless. It's just getting increasingly difficult because now that we've been dating for some time, he's expecting sex. I have to be very vigilant to roll away from him when he tries to touch my private area, though he may already know because he has lain on top of me. It really is getting exhausting; for now, it's still viable to deny him intimacy, but with every day that passes, it becomes less so. And although it was beautiful in this one fleeting moment, I may end it without explanation since I want to preserve something beautiful rather than allow the truth to pervert it into something it’s not. Still, we were texting yesterday, and he said, "I would still date you if you were a trans woman." I looked for reassurance and asked if he would date me if I were "a bio male," and he hesitated but simply replied, "Sure." So I suppose he would still be interested if I told him? But I don't think I want to, even if he'd accept me regardless, because I think I value this relationship less as a romance and more as a vehicle to live out my fantasy as a cis woman. What should I do?

Is she not interested or just awkward?: A girl at work stares at me like picrel. What does she mean by this? For context, she's a foreigner, but we've been working together for three years now. I tried to talk to her last year, but she told me she doesn't speak any Czech, and this remains the only thing I've ever heard her say. We started interacting more after her recent change of position. It's purely work, but she still just stares and doesn't speak, smile, or really react in any way. The most I got out of her was a nod after I gave her instructions in quasi-Russian. She always seemed somewhat withdrawn. She wouldn't speak unless spoken to and would spend breaks alone, though I've stopped monitoring her since our "conversation" last year revealed her inaccessibility. Foreman told me that's just the way she is, and I can see that she doesn't treat others much differently. The thing is, as an introvert myself, I find her quite intriguing. She's also very attractive. But I can't tell whether this is her baseline or whether she doesn't want to talk to me. I locked onto her only after another girl who talked to me quit, and after another girl who talked to me (a lot) stopped (after I got the wrong idea). I rely on positive feedback a lot, and I'm not getting any from her. Her only display of emotion was when I offered her candy. She rejected, but smiled to show her braces. What do you think? Should I continue until I break the ice? Or should I stop before I embarrass myself?

Meta Thread: >how do I stop being lazy??? And no, don't tell me to take any kind of action with the purpose to build any sort of momentum in my life whatsoever. >how do I get a girlfriend if I'm an overweight depressed socially anxious porn-addicted smelly incel who hates women and doesn't leave his room? And no, don't tell to "go outside" or "get your shit together". Chad doesn't have to do that, so I won't either. >how do I cope with the fact that (((God))) personally hates me so much that he made me an autistic (self-diagnosed) khhv? And no, I won't ever ever ever leave my comfort zone and dare to improve my life somehow.

why, whenever I say what I think or how I feel, do people call me stupid, wrong or just don't even get me in the first place? It's like I always have to select the standard dialogue option to not get immediately seen as a retarded weirdo.

how do I get a relationship like picrel as a 20 something year old man?

Am I actually more okay than I think?: 2 years ago I was actually able to get on a few dates with a woman. It was very nice and I enjoyed being around her. She actually ended up kissing me which was also my first kiss. Unfortunately I am quite behind the curve and at that time I was 30. Now I am 32 and I think back about what was my first kiss a lot. Unfortunately things didn't work out though. I think she got sick of dating me or I bored her is my assumption. She basically said our personalities are too different. I respect her for even explaining though. Anyway, I use to think I am awful and completely incapable of dating properly or even invoking such feelings in a woman that she wants to be around me. If a woman chose to kiss me of her own volition and choice, is it possible that I am not an insufferable freak of some sort? What I'd like to do in the future is figure out how to apply more confidence to myself because I truly don't believe in my dating capability. I was truly astonished when she chose to kiss me because it was only the second date. So at the very least, can I assume that I at least did SOMETHING right if a woman chose to kiss me? I remember feeling so happy that day. Wish I could feel that again.

How do I, a white supremacist neonazi, get a brown baddie gf?

I need advice. Girlfriend of eight months went back to her country for two weeks to visit her friends music tour. The tour about four days, two in each city. But the thing is our birthday are two weeks apart. The reason she went is because its her friends last music tour, and that her friends may host a birthday party for her, I'm not sure. Does this mean she doesn't find me important and that she knows I'll stay anyway? (Past arguments always ended in each sides apologizing and begging to stay). She could've only attended the concert in one city and celebrate our birthdays together. Let me know if you need for information, and make the verdict. I'm just tired of finding another girl and starting the whole cycle again. Also please let me know factors to determine whether a girl is really worth my time. I just want to be loved.

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How do you approach girls at a bouldering gym?: I go bouldering 3x a week. I see so many cute girls there at the gym it's insane. However, I basically never meet or get in contact with them. The only way I ever get a shot is if I approach them. How do I do that though? I want to continue going to this gym and not develop a bad reputation or make girls uncomfortable.

Is getting in shape meme dating advice?: I have been going to the gym, bouldering and running consistently for the past 3 years. I have built up muscle, strength, hit V8 in bouldering and can easily run a 10K in 48 min. Yet, I am 26 years old and have never even been on a date. No girl has ever been attracted to me, not before I was into sports and not now. I have read tons of threads on reddit and posts here about how getting in shape completely transformed their dating life. Why did this not happen for me? I am still attracting 0 girls, they don't even look into my direction, never smile at me, nothing. I am 5'9", 180lbs.

help me deale with spangzoidstrexxes (bug which shall not be named) I'm going crazy here in moms basement watching them squeeze out from the cracks between the acoustic panels and straight up descend like absolute creep faggots.. Major league fat ones can't even repel properly and I'm just hearing them smack the floor and shit all around me. I know they "don't want to hurt me" but fuck that - I keep finding their bite marks everyday in the shower.!! And one went in my coffee and I drank it! For me, personally, that's the last straw, to be completely honest with you... Help me devise some sort of device or bait that can lure them all into one horrible mass that I can collect and get tf out (once I'm done smacking my head and reaching into my ears in panic) I also tested putting windex on them which does fucking nothing. They're in my bath towels (nightmare). One went in my ear and gave me PTSD when I discovered it. Also I ran an ozone generator overnight which gave me a massive headache but did nothing to them spadzoo because ozones heavier than air, and they're in the ceiling mainly as mentioned before. So it all comes down to this. A final battle between man and crabboid abomination. 100% Lemon juice does fucking 100% nothing on them by the way. Who the fuck even... well I guess god made them if you believe in that stuff but., why. When you see those legs start to poke out from acoustic tile and swish around in the air. Those thick black legs feelering around, and you just know it's a fatty plummeter. That must be a test from god to see if I'll commit suicide. Really funny dude. I've been sucking them into a Boba straw with some very fucking secure bit of cotton ball at the end so I don't inhale a wall-raisin. This splits my sanity in half like the joker. I feel like I'm at least doing something to help but it's also like wtf did I do to deserve this. Can some body please recommend what to do please. Sorry for swearing excessively during that btw

>30 year old virgin >healthy weight, have a good job >never been on date >make profiles on Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, other sites >no matches for months >try professional photos and paid versions of apps >zero matches So I have confirmation that every single woman considers me hideous. Now what?

Does anyone know any foods I can eat that can provide me with carbs and can be sweet as a dessert? Every fucking food I buy for carbs or sweets has flour in it, and when they include the flour, it's all fucking enriched with fucking iron and folic acid. These are toxic fucking levels of iron and folic acid and my body cannot fucking handle that shit. My teeth hurt, my muscles hurt, my chest hurts, my mouth feels and tastes like it's attached to a car battery. My skin gets inflamed and even has these random swellings like warts in random places. All because I keep eating this shit. And I feel like shit. Like literal fucking shit. It's fucking awful. These fucking vitamins are fucking retarded. I can't enjoy anything made with flour cause it has been "enriched" with this shit. What the fuck am I supposed to do now? Where am I going to get my carbs and sweets from? Pasta? Enriched. Bread? Enriched. PopTarts? Enriched. Ramen? Enriched. Cookies? Enriched. Even fucking rice is enriched. I need to get rid of these vitamin foods, they're literally hurting my body. What are your suggestions?

How can I stop obsessing over IQ?: I've had a lifelong obsession with IQ and intelligence. I'm constantly comparing myself to other people and convincing myself that I'm not smart enough. It's reached the point where I'm severely depressed because I keep thinking I'll never be intelligent or successful no matter how hard I try. I feel like my general knowledge is worse than most people's, and I often struggle to put my thoughts into words. Even when I know what I want to say, it can come out awkwardly or not flow the way I intended. What really fuels this obsession is my belief that IQ is mostly genetic and fixed, so no amount of effort will make a meaningful difference. I don't know if that's actually true, but it's something I keep coming back to and it leaves me feeling hopeless. I overanalyse everything I do and treat it as evidence that I have a low IQ, whether it's taking longer to understand something, forgetting information, or not knowing facts that seem obvious to everyone else. At the same time, I can learn and remember a lot when it's a topic I'm genuinely interested in. I spend a lot of time reading about intelligence online, but it usually just makes the obsession worse. Has anyone else dealt with this kind of fixation? Did you find that your fears about your intelligence matched reality, or were you judging yourself too harshly?

My girlfriend is going on a two day trip with her two male friends. They'll be staying in the same room. Should I be worried?

How do I handle being famous? How do I not get panic attacks from hate and publicity? How do I keep my public image tame?

does dopamine detox really work?: i have an exam in like 2 weeks and i've been severely addicted to gooning and doomscrolling (i've been sick so i didn't feel like studying really)

How do I fix a phone addiction?: My phone addiction is so bad, to the point where I keep picking up my phone over and over again. Uninstalling social medias didn’t really help because I still keep picking it up, even though I don’t expect any messages. Should I invest in those dumb phones? They might be good but losing access to calendar and maps would suck. Is it even possible to have a healthy relationship with mobile devices these days?

follow my truth or take the safest path?: Honestly the older I get, the more I realize that religion is just about the vibes and your willingness to be a good person. The actual codified rules and interpretations are some particular flavor but ultimately the idea of success is the same. I grew up in Islam, and honestly after a deep dive - it feels like a massive long con now. It's clear to me that the religion never really counted on something like the Internet existing that could put all the pieces together that really undermine Muhammad (ie his Hadith). Enter Christianity, truth be told I don't know if Jesus is "true" or not , and I don't really care - I enjoy the idea of Jesus as my god , there is nothing but love and forgiveness, the new testament when I read it actually fills me with inspiration and wisdom rather than doom and gloom of Allah's Wrath. Quran is half instruction manual (including how to leave muhammads house as a guest kek) and half retelling of stories. and apostasy laws are whack , like what a dead giveaway that you're running a cult. Muslims give me some abstract academic answer to these question like "he did it cause he had scary enemies etc etc" but they are not even allowed to make common sense upgrades cause Muhammad was "perfect"

Is gooning more retarded than masturbating?

Why can't these words stop me from seeking her still?: "I'm not [mad at you]. I just find you really annoying. Why do you keep clinging to me? Please respect my personal space." It'll be nearly 3 years since she said these words and our worlds have changed since, though she has more of the world we shared as classmates than I do. She's had a GF for a year now and I see on both of their TikToks a side of her I wish I could have witnessed, though I know she's a lesbian and I wouldn't know if she'd still be in the disposition now to say what she said. A few months before she got a GF we started talking to each other but we never got to apologize — me for being clingy and her for those words — and at the time I was in full denial of her being a lesbian.

How do you stop being depressed?: I'm looking for drugs/substances/meds that will numb the pain. I'm crying every day, I want to basically just die to end my neverending suffering. I don't want to feel like this anymore. I tried all the normie advice and it did nothing (exercise, hobbies...) Does alcohol work? I don't care that it doesn't solve my problems which are impossible to solve anyways.

How to get over someone?: I have a crush on a guy but the feelings arent mutual. We havent seen or spoken to each other in 5 months but I cant get over him or forget about him… any advice?

cant let into relationships or even casual dating: I dont know if it's because of the way i act or because i dont really understand what i want. People always say it's easy for women to find someone, and honestly, they're not entirely wrong. I'm not going to pretend otherwise. But im just an average-looking woman, nothing special, nothing that turns heads. Most of the guys who approached me were never interested in anything serious. They just wanted to hang out and hook up, if you know what I mean. At this point I've basically been voluntarily celibate my whole life, unless you count those elementary school "relationships" that didn't even last two weeks. Whenever i get close to someone, I end up pushing them away because im afraid they'll learn too much about me and lose interest. I also have a hard time accepting relationships where the other person strongly disagrees with my values, opinions, or what I think is best for myself and them. For a while I thought I might be asexual. The thing is, I have felt attraction before. I've wanted people. I just never do anything about it. Maybe this is actually a simple problem and im overcomplicating it. It's hard to explain because it's kind of abstract and would take way more words than this post. I dont want to die alone. I want someone who genuinely likes me, doesnt get tired of me, and wants me around every day. But maybe that's selfish. I can make an effort to care about the other person's needs too. Sometimes I wonder if I'm actually aromantic. Do you think I should actively look for love, or just let it happen naturally? When I go out, whether its events, public places, whatever, men never ask for my socials or show much interest. At most I get polite greetings in group settings, and sometimes women compliment my style. Because of that, i sometimes worry that I come across as some weird, off putting person without realizing it.

Ruined my 5yr Relationship: I am 26 m and ex is 28 f. We met in 2020. In 23 I cheated while she waited for me in NYC. She took me back after this, but I didn't commit to the relationship. I indulged in prostitution and casually flirted at work. Getting away with it eventually detracted my ability to actively participate in my relationship. We had sex still, but it wasn't the same for me. Sometimes I actually felt guilty about cheating while having sex. I also stopped planning dates and doing nice things for her. I didn't help look for an apartment enough ( it was NYC so we were fucked anyway). When we couldn't find an apartment in Dec 2025 we decided to move. She went to Texas and I went to the SE US( not Florida). On Christmas, the day of the move, her cat died. It was awful. During the 3 day move I caught an awful fever. 2 weeks upon getting to Texas she suggested going on a break. It's been 6 months and we tried to rekindle things during month 2, but it didn't work. I think it was her trying to give it one more chance even though she was committed to it not working out. 2 weeks ago I texted her gay friend how's she's been and he called me a piece of shit for trying to break no contact end that I need to work on myself. I guess with this all being said, I am devastated. I feel like I lost the one person who actually loved me so much for so long. I should've treated her better. Instead of doing that when I got to NYC I became a drunk and mentally checked out. Any advice is appreciated. I'd just like to start getting over the emotional pain or dealing with it constructively.

how the hell do you make friends in university? its been years and i am nothing with these people. the path i am studying is VERY neglected, presently less than 10 of us are there in the whole city. and i have been unable to make friends with any of them. Those i do ends up going nowhere because theres 2 guys who really obviously hate me. i did "fuck it up" with them, i guess, by getting drunk when i go out. Which is usually not a dealbreaker for people but ig for these people it is. Not like i dont have friends but i see these people nearly every day youd think that would be a shared burden or something. Can it be too late with these people? they call me and then all they do is talk about the times they DIDN'T call me. And i can tell its to get under my skin because the same guy always shifts to that topic. I also feel as though none of my colleagues really care about the subject, cant even talk about that

Men, how would you live your lives if you were girls?: I'm not trans, I'm just a regular girl. I was curious to know how you would live your lives if you had been born female, would it be the same? Would they paint their nails? What kind of clothes would they buy? Would they try to live differently? How do they imagine it would be?

How can I get a stacy gf as a balding incel?

How to Maintain a Focused and Calm Mind and not Fall into Traps of Malaise: First to preface: I recently have found myself cutting off social media nearly entirely after realizing it was what was stopping me from feeling motivated, focused, calm minded, and to be completely honest conscious This worked, along with implementing other rules such as accepting boredom as part of life, not multitasking and no impulsively checking my phone during mundane tasks Essentially I reset my mind to not fill gaps of time with mind sludge, make myself focus on one thing at a time, and never stress about how much I get done either I have realized that boredom is a great tool, not really feeling bored but the act of not doing something, it allows me to reflect, immerse in things more, anticipate things, reflect, etc However, using social media (and sometimes other shit like edging a lot) are by nature and design easy to do and hard to stop once you fall in What I want to do is design some sort of way to avoid the pitfall of falling back into a state where I legitimately do nothing but scroll all day Does anyone have any ideas For reference I really feel like not using social media accounts for 80% of my success with doing hobbies now, 10% impulse control, and 10% just the positive feedback loop of doing something that makes me feel fulfilled and not just content I’ve considered just starting days at my PC by staring at my desktop or wall until I choose something to do, to not open Pandora’s box and just hope I choose the right path Any other ideas? Hopefully this was explained well I want to consistently interact with my hobbies and have this be my natural state I am loving it but want to be consistent The alternative is infinitely scrolling and feeling content, technically filling my mind with things I’m “doing” but have no fulfillment

Literally all of my problems would be solved overnight if I lived in a walkable city. If I want friends, a wife, and affordable housing, should I just leave Los Angeles? If yes, to where?

My cat constantly tries to drink from the tap, doesn't matter how much she had to drink if the tap is open she'll be there to try and drink, to the point she drinks so much she'll end up vomiting Is this something I should be concerned with? She's nearly 15, and we don't think she's dehydrated since she also drinks normally

Should I stay in 'WMAF' relationship?: Pretty much what the title says. My gf is perfect for me in terms of look, personality, attitude, lifestyle, etc. but I'm white American and she's Japanese (from Japan, we met here). I really do love her, but the sheer amount of hate against 'WMAF' couples online is making me rethink it. I know you only have one life and should generally ignore other people's opinions of you, but I won't lie it's hard. I guess desu I have somewhat low self-esteem and so it's hard to take constant criticism. That being said, I've only seen it online, never had anyone say it to me irl. Also, and I'm not saying this to 'brag' (I brought this up somewhere else and people said I was bragging) since this is an anonymous forum, but we're both fairly good looking, so we don't lean into the stereotype that way. Sorry if this was kind of rambling, I don't really know how to structure this. Anyways, should I stay with her or is the hate against WMAF real and will be a big obstacle?

I just moved into a place and my new roommate is gay. How likely am I to contract parasites from him via shared spaces like the bathroom and kitchen? How do I avoid getting parasites? And if I do get them, how will I know and how can I get rid of them? Serious answers only please. And don't tell me that gays don't have parasites, I know they fucking do.

Damn... reddit has AI now. Search for answers and shit. Is this something all sites are gonna be doing? How exactly is this any different from a traditional search engine?

>still best friends with my ex wife >visit France multiple times a year to see her and her new wife >her new wife also loves my company and insists I be there more often than I can >actually considering moving to Finistere to be near my ex wife >haven't gotten over the divorce at all, though at this point I'm not actually hoping to get back together, the woman is really good to her Am I delusional for considering this or? Understand that her ex wife is very well-born. The plan is not to arrive there and homeless or wash dishes. I can probably keep my Brazilian remote job for a few months before I try to get a white collar job with EU pay. Consider that she is the only person I've ever met who has felt really entertaining to me. We like to play and have fun like kids, but also appreciate very highfalutin stuff that 99% of the people I could meet in Brazil would dismiss as an attempt to come off as cultured. Also, the three of us are the same specific type of woke-chud hybrid.

>my grandpa keeps calling me a ladyboy and no one is correcting him What can I do except slowly waiting until he dies?

How do I not go insane while my life is on hold?: Just FYI, I am legally not allowed to disclose what I do for work, but while that sounds exciting its actually boring as fuck. TLDR: Forced to drop out of college for a year and am now working a dead end job where I wont be able to advance in the company because I need the degree I am working at the company to pay for. I am getting quite discouraged regarding my education. This is the 2nd gap year I have been forced to take during my undergraduate degree. While I had a decent job prior to this one the commute was unbearable and the pay was not as good. The downside is that this job, while technically relating to the field I am studying, requires no critical thought. I have yet to actually use anything I have learned from my coursework at my job so far and have been told that I most likely will not be doing so in the future. While I have a decent chunk of my degree under my belt I do not have enough credits to qualify for a better position within the company as they do allow individuals who are a certain way through their degree to qualify for higher/more relevant positions. While they do have a tuition assistance program it is horrid and have been indirectly advised to stay away from it. How do I stay sane while I spend 8-9 hours a day doing maybe 2 hours of work? I have considered bringing books or doing prep work/review for college but there is nowhere to properly study and be available to fulfill the obligations of my position.

In the process of painfully, slowy, cryptically asking my crush if they may as well. I cant just be straightfoward with it, i think im just confusing them. Ive just never done this! Any case sceanrio is gonna be so awkward man.. we are coworkers. If they dont have feelings, im hopeful we can do friendship but its gonna be so damn weird!! And if they DO then im FUCKED ive never been in a relationship i have 0 idea what to do! Fuck!

Is it possible to get rid of a fetish?: my issue with this is that my fetishes are the perfect storm, my fetish is momcest and if you go to the generals on /r9k/ I fit the stereotype perfectly: sheltered kid, overprotective mother, emotionally absent father, bullied, afraid of girls to the point where thinking that they could be attracted to me is so unrealistic that I don't even fantasize about it, obsessed with women with extremely large breasts... Everything is connected and it's terrifying, it's almost as if I was meant to have this

is there any way to sus out if someone is a virgin?: I'm a hopeless romantic and I want my first time to be with a virgin so that we carve oursleves (metaphorically) into each other forever as each others first loves. the problem obviously is how I can sus out if a girl is a virgin. I have been on a couple of dates and could never really guess. is there some sign or a question that needs to asked?

Feeling irreparably broken: >grow up with abusive parents >depressed, anxious, stressed through childhood >do terribly at school as a result >non-existent self-esteem and self-worth >don't graduate highschool because of mental health >keep trying and failing to get better >get into college despite all odds >struggle hard, take nearly 7 years to get a 3 year degree >never get a job because of mental health >feel socially disconnected from everyone else >have two failed relationships with equally broken people I turn 30 this year and I feel like I've wasted my entire 20s dealing with the fallout of my really shitty childhood. I haven't lived like other people my age. I don't want to keep living like this. I want to be happy and I want to live life but I feel like I am stuck in the past. I feel like there's no way to overcome my shitty childhood because it has shaped who I am now in such a big way. I feel irreparably broken. >daily mental struggle to get things done and live life >still constantly anxious, depressed >still have low-self esteem and self-worth >still socially anxious and isolated >struggle to support myself How do I get better and fix myself when I'm so broken? Feels impossible, like trying to learn how to run with broken legs.

getting framed: I have found hynpotic implants using energy medicine telling me to look at lolis on /b/ I don't think it's legal and I told my doctor I shared books on how to sabotage people remotely program them or stalk and kill them, I had a rich person I was introduced to online through a mobster wannabe and I copied the SN and stalked the rich person. The rich person is indoctrinated i am not. He's using his saying power to try and kill me with the intel. I do not affiliate with the mob but he does and he's ruining my life. From spreading the books only someone not indoctrinated would spread to copying the conents and enacting them I am so fucked. I have reason to believe he's egging my doctor on or it's someone bad to share I was looking at the CASM on /b/ I said it was my tourettes but I found the hypnotic implants. I hate this a hypnotic implant is when someone remotely hypnotizes you and you succumb. The books I shared state how to do that. He tried killing me, killed xenon and beckattack and tried framing me for "being made and homosexual". I wondered from home as a infant and said I was fotb italian and they used me for work and gave me shitty plastic surgery. I have them stalking me and popping into my life and killing partners over orientations even though they said "you were to young" and they didn't mean to use monarch mind control on me to make me do crime and forget so they've given me permission to like other ladies. I don't like this i can't smack people being obnoxious with telepathy and the doctors don't agree its telepathy and commit me and its getting bad. I have books I shared on how to give people voices they hear and I shared them with his friends and he's keen to paying them to sabotage me. I hate this I can't trust them and this sutffs undetectable.

My university went on a strike and thus the classes were suspended. However, I was having language classes with an entity that is related to my department but paralel to it, meaning that its classes weren't suspended, but we were having live online classes instead of in the university (as we were having when the circumstances were normal). For a reason I don't remember I got disorganized and instead of watching the classes I was recording them thinking that I would watch them and take notes of them later. I did that with a few classes but in the end what happened was that I have a lot of accumulated classes to watch and take notes, meaning I'm also behind of the class. The problem arises now: students decided to stop the strike and thus the classes will be given at the university again. The first one after the strike will start tomorrow. All the accumulated content was giving me anxiety already, but now I'm even more anxious: I can't record the classes anymore and I'm probably not prepared to watch the classes because I'm very behind. How can I navigate that?

how do you stop hating white women for being such vapid whores they'd rather date a tall nig/bugman than a short or average white dude?

What should I do if my girlfriend of several years suddenly decides she wants to transition into becoming a man? And what if we had plans on getting married and having children?

Would you say picrel is a compliment? I took it as one a decent amount, I feel like "rape frats" are the top tier frats. He said that to me in response to a vocaroo btw

How do you avoid women just using you for your time/attention/money?

/sfg/ Sexual Fitness General: It’s 2026 and women are expecting better sex than ever. I’m 5 inches and thin. I’ve had girls tell me before they love feeling stretched and it makes it way easier for them to cum. I also cum in like 2-3 mins. I’m worried I’ll find a girl and start dating but she will be underwhelmed in the bedroom and leave me. I think that’s why my last gf did. She said she could have multiple orgasms from riding her last bf but never did with me. Fucking brutal. Women are expecting to cum from sex and I have never been able to make them. Are there any penis exercises I can do for size? Also for lasting longer any exercises for that? Numbing cream? I see roider guys use cabergoline and also maybe I could try some DHT cream on my dick? Hgh too?

Is it not normal for your mom to never say she loves you in your entire life? Also I never got a hug until visiting after I moved out. >prude irish american side of family >only just reconnected with dad and that side of family after 25 years and my aunt is already warmer than my mom ever was, and I want to fuck my aunt now but that's another issue

How do I, a man in my mid-30s, learn to live without the praise and external validation I used to get as a child? I never grew out of that need and haven't been the same since I graduated high school.

It's payday, should I buy it? Would it ruin women forever for me?

How to get traction for Ecom in 2026?: >I'm trying to build a store for a high value product however I cant get any traffic. >I have little to no budget for professional marketing >SEO optimization doesn't give more than reliable indexing for low DR domains... >Keyword targeting seem to gave me 1 or 2 organic searches but I'm not sure if its consequence or not. >All guest posting options are paid, even shittiest domains. >Social media doesnt even get 100 views In 2026 it seem impossible

Born into loserdum(hehe): How do I deal with the made incredibly obvious fact that I was born to be a loser. >Inb4 kill urself XDDDD

Should I give in to my degenerate desires?: I was thinking about joining to Fetlife and find girls to indulge in my weird fantasies but I feel uneasy about it, like I shouldn't go down that path

So how do you get to know yourself better: Feel like I completely failed in that department to a point where I can't figure what makes me sad, or why I even act certain ways. It's like my brain is denying to give me satisfying answers. It feels like that other peo who are depressed have it exactly figured out in regards with what they are struggling with or what caused it

How do I cope with most stuff I did as young and addicted?: I don't know other people's experiences with porn addiction, but personally is singlehandedly the most damaging thing I have been on. From 12 to somewhere around 18 I was addicted and I was a complete different person to what I am now. I did things I regret, the ones that hurt the most is the people I hurt or kept away from me. Specially friends and family. I wonder how do most people cope with it, since I often ruminate about it. The thing that keeps the most is the dilemma if I should blame myself for it because for in one hand I was not even able to think properly while on that (I was also psychotic to a certain degree). Or blame the addiction entirely.

I don't know what to do: I'm not sure if this post will stand out much or not, but here goes. >I am 20 years old >Have no friends (IRL at least) >Out of shape, but not terribly overweight >Never been employed >About to start community college >Desperately want to learn a skill, but can't focus on anything besides porn for more than 5 minutes My life doesn't feel like it's going anywhere, every day feels like a more or less extreme version of the day that came before it. I plan on creating a more consistent schedule: going to the gym twice a week, reading every day, perhaps practicing drawing more often. I'm sure that many people would reccomend talking those closest to them about their life problems (I do this too much actually), but honestly as close as I am to my immediate family, it feels like no one in my household understands what I'm going through. I ask anyone who may be getting deja-vu from reading this to reach out. Thank you. P.S. I fucked up captchas for 20 minutes and forgot to add a file, I deserve a response just for having to deal with that lol.

my dad says i should move back to my home town with my other indigenous family members(from the illegal occupation of australia) they live in a rural town, but i think it would be difficult to get a house and move my stuff there anyway, i also have a good house where i am in perth, but my dad says he will die soon cuz his extremely unhealthy and fat. Idk how i would be over there, i like where i am j just have no friends and am dealing with dp/dr

What does it take to get a cute girlfriend with small boobs?: Feels like every guy here is always obsessed with getting a hot slim girl with big breasts. However, what if you are into the cute girls with small ones? What type of guy do you have to be to pick one up and make her your girlfriend and do cute things together?

Don't enjoy anything anymore: What do you do when you genuinely don't enjoy anything anymore? I'm not exaggerating. Everything is getting old. Gaming is boring, movies are boring, music is boring, outside is boring, social media is boring, sports are boring, tv is boring, politics is boring. The world... it's all just boring to me. I know a major reason for this is my lack of genuine companionship, but there's nothing I can do about that. That doesn't exist on this earth and I'd be delusional to think otherwise. What else can I do? Is it even possible to fix this? Or am I doomed to just wait until I die?

how do all these spineless, underachieving, insecure retards have gfs?: There will be anons asking how to deal with their girlfriend who's getting mad at them because they don't know how to change a tire or put bread in the toaster, and any confrontation makes them hysterically sob. Is talking to women really that easy?

How can I attract busty girls at ren faires?

/fit/ and /xs/ adjacent advice: how can I get jacked and be good at fighting without ruining my knees? it seems athletes are always ruining their knees, and the ones who aren't ruining their knees are getting brain damage head trauma

Just realized that I still envy a couple over their spending habits the same way I did over another couple nearly 4 years ago. Both couples involve some girl my age I was/still am interested in to some degree and whose socials I've constantly stalked even if much of them are privated much of the time. I'm 23

How do you find purpose when you are just one of billions of people?

Since I was a child, it's been my lifelong dream to be an adulterer. I always found affairs to be more exciting and romantic than marriage and my marriage will be a means to that end. I want my affair to last at least 6 years without getting caught and I would expect myself to get remarried to one of my affair partners. The advice I'm looking for is: "what's the best way to keep it hidden?" "if I happen to marry a lawyer what can I do to prevent them from taking legal action against me or my AP?" >inb4 don't do it I won't accept anything like that so you might as well save it for somebody who cares. >inb4 adultery is evil and you're a bad person for wanting to do it. Adultery is a valid form of love and there's nothing evil about it. Society has collectively gaslit each other to rationalize their own violence against people >inb4 be an "ethical" polyamorist That's incredibly boring and unappealing to me. Sneaking around is more fun and exciting and romantic. >inb4 I got cheated on/one of my parents had an affair and it turned me into a neurotic crybaby you're not a victim, stfu and stop pretending that you are.

killed my soul sleeping 5 hrs a night for 5 years: I've been out of work for 9 months now. For 5 almost 6 years before that, I would work from 6 or 7 in the morning til 3:30 in the afternoon. I hated it. I had to start drinking coffee because I couldn't stand how much of the day went to wagecucking. So I slept 5 hours a night. Felt numb to reality after 6 months. My creative energy plummeted. Now I sleep better, a full 8 or 9 hours, but I still feel dead inside. I go outside, I did a 55 mile bike ride the other day, just for the hell of it. Still feels like there is a veil between me and the outside world. I finally lost my virginity and now I am just trying to fuck as many women as possible. I have a nice petite asian gf and I got to stand on a dock at an outdoor bar/club and kiss her while watching the sunset, and felt basically nothing. I mean it was nice, don't get me wrong, I enjoyed it. But it's like this deeper layer there was to me before is gone. I still do creative work, but it's not as good. I used to write music, but the melodies that would just come into my mind don't come anymore. I cannot write prose anymore either. I actually could write passable prose and was improving. Now I don't. I don't imagine anymore, I used to visualize these very elaborate stories, purely because the drive from my soul was to imagine these things. Now I don't, as much. Admittedly I'm 31 instead of 25 now but still, I can't blame all of this on "maturing." Has anyone else experienced this? It's clear I brain-damaged myself to some degree but I don't know how much of it is fixable, if any. Or how to cope with it if not. Thanks in advance for any advice.

I don't know how to deal with mean people: The more I grow older, the more misanthropic I have become. Every time I see people being toxic on the video games, I just can't help but to get mad, most of the time, it's uncalled for. I don't know why people choose to be mean and miserable for no reason. They just want people to feel like shit, and for what? I hate it because I ended up arguing with them all the time. I want to kill them with a hammer.

Looking for movies like Mad Max: Fury Road: Basically movies where the setting of the story is so ridiculous you cant help but be mesmerized by it. literally so much crazy shit happens in that movie, its my favorite. any recs?

Anybody know what it takes to make a successful PMV? I've been trying for years to make one that people like, but I only ever manage to get like 1K views on them while other PMV creators get like 10K or 30K views on theirs.

/ATOGA/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything: Previously: >>34619498

Realistically, how hard is to seduce older women?

Unironically how to get laid when you are a 40 year old fat man 4/10 base appearance, small penis, virgin, neet with no job I know that sounds like a shit post, but thats really what you are working with also wont fuck anything under 4/10, cant be retarded, morbidly obese. dont care if thats hypocritical

>gf gets mad at me because I cooked something badly a week ago and because I tend to be sluggish in terms of my processing speed (literal diagnosed autism) >goes on a rant about how I'm a shitty person and an idiotic child and can't take care of her >says she finds me unattractive and that I should hit the gym >says she won't go with me >previously asked me if I would love her after gaining weight and asked for my permission for her to gain weight and let herself go >says I'm like all men and that all men are the same, being happy while their GFS suffer >says "fuck you all" >tells me I'm making her life a hellhole and deletes the entire chat >starts a new one three hours later >give her a reply that's dry humor >she says ""Don't make me hate this chat and delete it too. You're already being sarcastic. The other chat was shitty and got deleted. I started this one off neutral and you're like let's make this sarcastic and make this another shitty one. Why do I even bother." >don't reply within 3 mins >Okay, thanks for making it clear that you don't want to talk. I'll delete this too" I already told everyone she broke up with me because she basically spent the entire chat today talking about how great her life will be when we break up before deleting literally everything. I assumed she was done. Anyways, is she a sane person?

Manager gets away with murder: I shit you not, this is fucking ridiculous. >Have female manager >She gets away with murder >She will "go out for a cigarette" and come back 3 hours later >She sleeps for hours on end in the staff room >Essentially when other colleagues call her out on her not doing any work, she makes a song and dance and plays the victim. Claiming no one appreciates her >I wrote a grievance letter and spoke to several people from HR Got a letter back to say that was AI generated, but the closing point was that I should respect her position

Cold feet: I'm going to move in with my boyfriend of 4 years in a few months. I've been having a lot of doubt about it and I don't know if my hesitation is normal or it's going to blow up in my face after living together for a few months. We both live with our parents, I'm 21 and going to go into my second year of college when we move. I think about moving out to get roommates instead all the time. Not only because it would be more financially viable (I am worried my boyfriend will flake and not work fulltime, I will be working fulltime. I pay for my own college, I'm going to a community college atm), but because my boyfriend gives me a rash sometimes. When I told him I wanted to move, he told me "You should leave me, I'll just hold you down, I'm not built for this" - which is retarded defeatist shit. It took him a few months to get a job, not because of a lack of choice, but because he didn't want to work fulltime and he got too nervous at his first attempt. I am as understanding as possible. If I bring up shit that scares him he completely stonewalls me and tells me he's worthless, he pouts like a child. I am so worried how this will continue when we move out. However, I do believe he's not as much of a pushover as he makes himself out to be. It is really not hard to work a shitty job that doesn't require social interaction. He is clingy and I feel very guilty for not feeling the same way. He does the whole "I love you MORE" like he's telling me "I know you love me less". I love him, I like him, but I am worried about the relationship itself. He's a very nice person. He rarely does mean petty shit. I feel like I do not have the option to say no. I do not know if it's normal to feel this apprehensive about moving in with your partner. I am not necessarily seeking something else, I just don't want to move in with a basket case. But I know >>>Relationships take work. I am worried he will not put in the same effort as I do because he feels like he is not worth it.

Sex with prostitutes. Is it worth it? I'm sick of fapping and need a real woman.

I turn 40 next month Will I be too old to be drafted into the military? US citizen

Is there a guide that teaches you how to seduce older women?

/adv/ QUICK I need advice I'm a neet for all intensive purposes I work Uber but my car is broken I don't want my parents to find out I've been unemployed for 3 years I really don't want to let them down, their wanting to see my paycheques from my other job they think I still have in order to make sense of my finances and now think I owe money to the tax man how can I unfuck my situation without breaking their trust in me and their hearts?

People are naturally afraid of me. I think I might have Resting Bitch Face or something, when I make eye contact with people they look to the side and get passive etc. How do I make people interact with me differently?

How to stop smelling bad?: I take a shower, scrub myself, apply deodorant but still smell like dogshit after sweating. Help me anons

How do I get inhto cyber security with no experience or a degree?: I'm interested in cyber security due to recent events but i don't have a degree. I have 2 years of college experience but nothing to major. If I have to go back to school I would but Idk what steps i would have to take to get to the right direction. Are there also alternatives to college to get a cyber security job?

How should I navigate my sexuality?: I never really had an attraction to females. Not a primal/sexual attraction that is. Not that I don't enjoy the company of females. I do - more so than men as I faced prejudice and outright hostility more so from other guys than from girls, something I did not realize until almost almost 12 months ago. That made me come to the harsh understanding that men are inclined to think of other men as competitors (which really is prejudice dissected in its baseline form). I will not go into that any further mainly because of the character limit. Besides that is not the subject of my thread. I find some girls to be attractive with some sexual arousal, yes but even those girls for the most part are really only aesthetically pleasing to me, not that I necessarily want to dick them down. Not to mention they have to have a very feminine physique (at least be an 8, 9 or 10). I guess my point is that I find females to be mediocre in their overall femininity. I know the right thing to do is to find a woman and start a family (at least by the time I'm 40) but deep down I just want to pin down a twink or a convincing doll and wife that up instead. I know that men with my psychology (or should I say neurological wiring) are not exactly the norm but I feel like we are more in touch with our masculinity than actual straight men who often are in relationships with women who boss them around and treat them like a buffoon. Unlike in a healthy relationship where the woman looks up to her man as head of her in all manners of life which he can then mold her because she respects him and most importantly has sexual attraction for him. Sadly I feel like that archetype is less common in heterosexual relationships than it is for a prison gay man and his twink boi lover.

package delivery: >tried job as a delivery driver >first day on my own >get lost constantly because of shitty gps >customers want packages at their door, but never ring you in to their buildings >get parking ticket >van is hell to maneuver and park in traffic >crack step bumper and reflector on curb >almost have a panic attack due to heat, exhaustion, and dehydration I feel like such a failure. Probably going to quit today over the phone. Is it just me? I know the turnover rate is high, but the guy who trained me (for half a day) was there the better part of a year. If I can't manage this low-skilled labor job, how grim are my job prospects when it comes to specialized work?

Dating perils: I’m 31, and my gf is nearly 21 How do I stop feeling guilt for everyone ribbing me, call me a cradle snatcher and generally making snide remarks? It’s mostly leftists that do this but it still gets to me Is this just something I have to put up with?

How the FUCK do I learn how to dress when I just don't have an eye for it at all?

how can i be less nervous?: especially when talking to beautiful girls pic unrelated

How can I get some SLEEP?: I do not even know how I am writing this, or even if the writing is coherent, but I am in desperate need of advice. My family are noisy spics and seemingly never sleep, I have not been able to sleep in more than a month since these animals are always blasting music or talking loudly at ungodly hours of the night, but get annoyed at me if they hear me walking past their rooms at night despite the fact that I have never yelled or raised my voice to talk to someone infront of me or to make a phonecall. Safe to say, I am nearing my wit's end, and my cognition and state of reality / consciousness have been greatly impacted and my studies are suffering because of this. Please do not advise me to move out, I would have done so if I could. I am stuck in this situation for now and need some advice on how to get best deal with this situation. How can I get a good night's rest?

I love her every day, I wish she never went away, We were like the moon and the stars, We were together always, I would do anything for her, Last night I had a dream, We were together for 6 months, Then she had to leave, They were the happiest moments, Pic related she looked like her Sorry for not rhyming I’m not a poet

/r9k/ wasnt much help so I'll ask here >be me >small penis, 4.5 inches >girlfriend is supportive and affectionate though >last too long though >takes 30-40 minutes to orgasm depending on stress as long as it's uninterrupted >girlfriend only takes 5 minutes >after her third orgasm she gets too exhausted >end up just using her like a toy or something while she lays there until I can manage to finish >feel like she just feels obligated because she's my girlfriend >get self conscious about not being enough >if my penis was bigger maybe she'd enjoy it more and want to go more rounds >get too self conscious and can't finish >girlfriend is supportive because good girlfriend >resume cycle of blue balls and sexual repression life would be so much easier if big penis and only lasted 5 minutes is my relationship doomed? how do I cope?

How?: How do I become a spineless, sissy, cuckold of a faggot and accept a ran through woman as a wife? I just can't even imagine this as both my mum and dad were virgins before their marriage and lost it to each other only during their honeymoon. I'm not a hardcore christian per se, but the very notion of having to accept a ran through woman who I ought to take care for the rest of my life repulses me to the point where even suicide seems to be a better deal.

Does meeting women from IG actually work or is it a meme? I see graphics like this all the time on X If it does work, is it worth the effort compared to regular dating apps or meeting irl?

how to stop swearing?: seriously how do you stop using the N word and other slurs and bad words in general? I picked up very bad speech habits from being chronically online when i was young. and now that I am older I no longer think swearing and using slurs is something a mature person should be doing. How can I break that habit? I tried just stopping and being mindful of what I say. but quite often the muscle memory kicks in and I type or say a swear word. what would you recommend?

My dream is to friendzone 100 guys who confess to me Right now I'm at 11 What are some good ways to make guys fall in love with you so that I can reach my goal number of 100

I'm a bifag who's secretly in love with my straight best friend, like literally mad for him, almost possessively, treating him like a surrogate girlfriend. We're pretty intimate and we're also very similar to each other in our personalities, almost like weird twins who keep completing each other sentences. He knows I'm bi and I've even acted zesty with him before and he doesn't seem to mind it that much other than always shutting it down playfully or humorously, on some level he obviously already knows intuitively about how I really feel about him, and out of respect for him I'd rather bottle it up forever and keep it platonic so as to preserve and not ruin our friendship with unnecessary drama or hopeless retardation. I'm just wondering how healthy this is for me in the long-term, does anyone else here have any experience with this type of situation? Is it sustainable? I'm really only interested in hearing from other dudes who've been there, anybody else can excuse themselves from this thread

Do you find therapy actually works?: Has anyone here actually tried therapy? I was thinking of going, and my parents have tried to get me to go, but I worry it's just going to be me spilling my guts for a leftoid woman who doesn't really know what she's talking about. What do you all think?