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I'm too soft, this makes me gayer sometimes. But I also try to act more masculine, I wear normal clothes for boys. I just don't want to be gay. I want to marry a ginger/blonde girl and have children. I don't know what would happen if I was a man's boywife. Too much anime and yaoi fanarts degenerated my mind.
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I'm crying
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hey
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If I was like this. You'd like me.
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>>24473146 (OP)
soft men are real men theyre the real deal nigga dont be ashamed of what you are
>>24473441
geg
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>>24473146 (OP)
You again? *cracks knuckles*
>My life would be better if I were 100% hetero
Being able to see beauty in men is a good thing actually.
>and not a soft boy
Well ... every good man has strength AND softness in him. Contrary to popular belief, a man CAN have both.
This has been known since ancient times. Ancient heroes like Heracles, Achilles, Cú Chulainn and Gilgamesh were capable of fighting but they were kind towards their friends. This can be seen in modern fiction as well. Most superheroes in general are capable of fighting but they are also capable of being friendly. That's why Superman is so beloved. Superman has godlike power, but he's generally a nice lad who loves to help people.
You can also see this if you analyze the male characters in stories aimed at women. Think of the Disney Princes. The Disney Princes are basically the sort of men that women and girls want. Pretty much all of them are strong guys with a soft interior.
Anyone who tells you "Men shouldn't have a soft side at all!" is a BULLY and a fool. It has been known since ancient times that an ideal man has both strength AND a soft side.
Also, the VAST majority of men are already strong, due to the biological sex differences between men and women. You are probably strong already. If you possess gentleness also then you possess a virtue that evil men lack.
All men are strong already. A hero is a man who has a soft side. A villain lacks one.
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>>24473146 (OP)
>I'm too soft
I bet you aren't.
>this makes me gayer sometimes.
Good. Men are objectively beautiful! That's why you love them! <3
>But I also try to act more masculine
Again, read what I said above. Hercules and Superman both have a gentle side. Don't let bullies tell you what masculinity is. All men have masculinity but a hero has compassion also.
>I want to marry a ginger/blonde girl and have children.
Being bisexual isn't the same as being gay.
>Too much anime and yaoi fanarts degenerated my mind.
What if you married a woman but you also had male buddies? Would that make you happy?
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>>24473203
It's okay to cry. You were suicidal a while ago. You've been through serious pain.
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>>24473366
Howdy pardner.
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>>24473492
>Pretty much all of them are strong guys with a soft interior.
also theyre chad
arent you maidenless?
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>>24473441
I already like you. You are nicer than most people are. A lot of people in the world are assholes towards me. That's why I keep coming back to you.
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>>24473497
I look like a natural femboy
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>>24473146 (OP)
>>24473203
man get a job
yiu can do whatever you want in this world anon
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>>24473515
femboys don't work
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>>24473515
>you can do whatever you want
Except not being Brazilian.
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>>24473506
>also theyre chad
Not really. Remember Beauty and the Beast? The Beast is basically an autistic incel. Belle still chose him over the "Chad" Gaston because Beast learned how to behave like a gentleman wheras Gaston kept behaving like a rapist and refused to stop.
>arent you maidenless?
Yes but I haven't given up.
I grew up with an abusive mother and sister. Okay? I've struggled with misogynistic thoughts for most of my life because of that. I'm grappling with trauma. Throw me a bone here. I'm struggling with autism too.
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>>24473526
Remember Beauty and the Beast? this is them now, feel old yet?
and hes super rich lives in a castle
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>>24473523
Why do you hate me, I'm even Brazilian, I'm Portuguese, I don't have indigenous and negroid face to be called Brazilian.
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>>24473511
>I look like a natural femboy
Some women what that.
Not all women want that but some do.
Seek out women who want what you can easily deliver. Avoid women who are too hard to impress.
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>>24473520
>femboys don't work
Yes they do.
A lot of femboys are musicians, artists, vtubers or fashion models. Haven't you ever watched Zoolander?
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>>24473441
>If I was like this. You'd like me.
But you’re not like that.
Fuck, that is like the breakfast question. >>24473533
Ehhh, I’m going to need to call up my friend who has a PhD in phrenology. You’ll get your results back soon.
>>24473536
>Some women want that.
I can guarantee you no woman wants to settle down with a ‘feminine boy’ and if she claims to, it’s a phase for her. Look at >>24473520 for example, a ‘feminine boy’ can’t protect or provide. Let’s be real, you said in
>>24473526
>I grew up with an abusive mother and sister. Okay? I've struggled with misogynistic thoughts for most of my life because of that. I'm grappling with trauma. Throw me a bone here. I'm struggling with autism too.
This proves that you know nothing about women. You’re misogynistic? So you don’t know anything about women? Stop trying to give advice for that sector of life.
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>>24473553
>But you’re not like that.
>Fuck, that is like the breakfast question. >>24473533(You)#
>Ehhh, I’m going to need to call up my friend who has a PhD in phrenology. You’ll get your results back soon.
kill yourself. i hate you. you don't want me to be blonde and blue-eyed and be finally accepted by society.
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>>24473553
>you know nothing about women.
I grew up with women, idiot.
>You’re misogynistic?
Well ... some man-haters on the internet think that I'm misogynistic. I think that I've just learned from experience.
Whatever. The people who think that I'm "misogynistic" are communists anyway.
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>>24473567
Again, try not to respond to mean posters mac. Try to ignore mean people. If you feel like you can't ignore them then look at cute content on YouTube or DeviantArt and take a break from 4chan for a while.
Have you ever watched videos of penguins taking care of their babies? Those videos might make you happy if you are sad. Interestingly, it is the penguin dads (not the mothers) who take care of the babies during the coldest part of the Antarctic winter. Cute stuff.
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>>24473567
>blonde
I have brown hair so even I don’t have that luxury.
>blue-eyed
This isn’t really relevant, but I have grey eyes. Which are rarer than blue eyes because only 2 or 3% of the world’s population have them. Grey eyes is what figures like Benjamin Franklin, George Washington and Andrew Jackson had.
>>24473587
You also mentioned having autism. I’m not an expert, but you may struggle to gauge social interactions, human emotions, and intent. I don’t mean to be rude.
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>>24473622
So ... you are saying that I can't give advice just because I'm on the spectrum?
Fuck off normie. Us autistic people are tortured by normies enough!
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I may be autistic and nerdy but that doesn't mean that you have the right to torture me.
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>>24473622
ur luckier than me, also u live in u.k
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Anyways, Brazilian anon, remember that you ARE strong. Having a soft side doesn't mean that you are less manly. It just means that you have the heart of a hero and not the cruel heart of a villain. Pic related is an ancient depiction of Achilles helping his friend Patroclus bandage a nasty wound.
>In b4 "That looks gay!"
Yes. There's nothing wrong with two Ancient Greek war heroes being gay.
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>>24473642
Do what you can with what you've got mac.
Have you ever seen The Thief and the Cobbler? Tack was a poor guy but he manged to stop the war machine with only a tack. Learn to make use of what you have.
By the way, if you haven't seen The Thief and the Cobbler before then watch The Recobbled Cut. The other versions of the film are pure shit.
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>>24473146 (OP)
ass pic



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