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Why does the opposite happen
So every time i expect something good to happen bad things happen and when i expect bad things to happen the best happens, Why is that? And how do I stop this?
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The answer to your question is hidden in this post, in a way. Read it out loud to yourself. Sometimes it can be hard to see the underlying effects of your beliefs and thoughts if you are living in the situation and a lot easier for people to see it from an outside perspective.
If you have noticed that this happens; you may not be expecting it consciously but subconsciously there is some underlying belief that the opposite of what you are expecting will occur.
Reprograming the subconscious can be tough but in my experience, it really comes down to the feeling. The more you believe and feel that it will work out when you are conscious (truly believe), the more it will slowly influence and change the subconscious mind.
It's a strange concept to grasp fully and it took me a long time to wrap my head around it, but the relationship between those parts of the mind is constantly creating a self-fulfilling prophecy with each other.
There are tons of great books and videos on Youtube that may help you learn how to influence your subconscious as well.
Best of luck in your journey, you've got this!
So basically i have to believe that my subconscious will never change and so it does? Since the opposite always happens?
you cannot jinx the jinx itself, its like the only thing that is unjinxable
Yep. Happens to me all the time. I think it's because when you EXPECT it you put too much thought on it, when you believe it won't work, you somehow, let go easily :)
Not really. I don't really get attached much to my desires. I think my manifestations backfire when i am confident because the universe thinks i should be dependent on it?
Do you remember the very first lesson from the very first day of LOA 101: Any action taken from a place of lack will do nothing at best and backfire at worst.
If you missed day 1 lesson 1, you probably missed just about everything else of value. Start over: LOA: Where to start? A review of all (most) the LOA Teachers & Material
I am not sure what does that have to do with my post. I basically manifest better when i am not sure of myself and have negative feelings not the other way around lol. Basically when i am "lacking" the best happens and vice versa
What it means for you is: when you manifest (bad things) out of lack, it can backfire. That means the bad turns out to be good.
shit happens to me too. Idk why and I hate when i expect good to happen when the shitty stuff occurs.
What do you mean when you expect bad things to happen? Like you've let go of any hope for a positive outcome? Or do you mean when you are generally feeling like shits? Can you provide specific examples?
This has happened to me too, many times. It’s more like I’ll wish for something bad to happen because I feel like it can’t get any worse.
When I start saying “I wish I could just be broke and alone so I could just stop trying” then suddenly I’ll get advancements in the financial & social aspect.
If I start thinking positively like “ugh I wish I could just have better income and friends or I know it’ll be better soon” then things worsen drastically (lose money and friends/social benefits).
When i don't study for a test (or do study just not good enough) i get good results and when i do study hard for a test i get bad results. The same thing when I am trying to manifest someone, when i lose all hope my sp notices me and talks to me more and when i am hopeful they end up ghosting me.