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American , don’t get me wrong they are yummy but it’s always pain in the neck to take a bite on a their huge hamburgers and they’re so greasy. Their meat (BBQ) are very well done, their salad are so dry. Their drinks are too sweet I would always puke No wonder many of the people from America now are preparing their food at home which is a very wise and healthy choice!




















I don’t have much advice tbh, but to just let him go. He’s been saying to you it’s too late no matter how you explain your side so it’s either he is in the peak of his libido and can no longer keep being in a dead bedroom or he has already met someone. I wish and pray that you may find someone that you can both feel happy to have each other.




This. TBH I’ve never encountered any friends around me who are foreigners that feel pressured/oppressed here and want to go back ti their home country. Everyone say they want to stay here and mind you not all of these friends are earning above average, some even need more although they’re still single . Why I noticed though is, once you’ve got your community (friends mixed of same foreigners and Japanese), nice Japanese neighbors, being used to city support, here in Japan, it’s the best place to live “right now” (so far) for me.



旅行したりするのはよいと思います! 人脈作りは、もともと社交的で人に興味あるほうのタイプは大丈夫だけど、人によりますので注意が必要。 例えば、もともと社交的じゃない人が無理矢理、人脈を作ったりすると人の嫌なところばかり見ちゃったり、逆に人間関係に疲れたりしてしまい逆効果になります。 もともと社交的じゃないタイプの人はまず、一人二人のような少人数で心から呼べる友達を作って、何度か一緒に旅行や人が多いイベントへお出かけしたりしてから人脈を広げるのでスムーズだと思います。















OP, I’m so sorry to hear that. *virtual higpit yakap I am very close to God and I believe in Him, your mother is in my prayers 🙏✨ God will heal her. Please OP pahinga muna ikaw and eat well… I’ll pray for your strength too.





This is mostly nationwide unacceptable in Japan. Unless the restaurant or chain has a name list to be written mandatory by the customers (with # of people) beforehand and they have written theirs before yours. Personally if I were you, I would have talked to the owner saying that’s usually unacceptable and they should write a note showing the policy.



The sins of the fathers are not the sins of the their children. Blaming children for their ancestors' actions is widely considered morally wrong, fostering unfair vengeance rather than accountability, so it’s good to hear that young people in China mostly don’t have the same grudge about Japan as their older families…




Because of the growing awareness about health on YouTube and other social media platforms, people are becoming more careful and increasingly interested in medical checkups. However, unlike in countries such as Japan where annual health checkups are mandatory and covered by general health insurance many people cannot afford these checkups or blood tests on their own, as they are not covered and are too expensive. Plus imagine how much housing prices have increased in the last 5 years at least…




This. Sometimes it’s not that they don’t love the woman or didn’t get want to married with them, but the financial capacity timing sometimes ply a big part. My partner and I dated for over 4 years because he didn’t have a stable job yet at that time and I wanted a wedding with all the families haha and once he got the much better and stable job, we got married on the spot.





AIは仕事の時や計算とかの時だけ使って、一人の時は話す相手はいつも神様というのは私だけかな?小さい頃からずっと神様に助けられて、本当に今は色々恵まれていて感謝しかない。AIの活用は本当にくれぐれも気をつけてね。


国を背負うなんてとてもじゃないけど、死ぬほどものすごい大変だと思うよ。特になにもかもが簡単に動画やインターネットに記録出来ちゃうまたは作れちゃう時代に。 真面目な人には向かないかもね。案外、ポジティブで適当に考えられる人のほうが向いているのかも。ただトランプみたいにモラルのリミットを超えるようなバカはかなり危険。




I did actually invite them many times, but they said the priests on the Catholic Churches or Christian mass didn’t give them the answer they have been asking God. Which I answered to them “I always feel God’s presence every day and that alone gives me answers that I need”


My friends from Jehovah’s Witness
My friends from Jehovah’s Witness

Hello!

I’ve been invited by a few friends to join the Jehovah’s Witness group. I have nothing against them, and I truly respect how devoted they are to the Bible’s teachings.

However, I’ve been Catholic my whole life. Even though I don’t attend Sunday Mass every week, I make sure to go on the first Sunday of every month. I still speak to God every day, sincerely praise Him, try to follow His teachings in my daily life, and repent when I fall short…

Because of that, I don’t really feel the need to join my friends. I’ve also heard that Jehovah’s Witnesses have very strict rules, such as not celebrating certain events, and I’m not sure if I could commit to that.

So when they invite me, I usually thank them and say I’ll try, but in reality I haven’t attended any of their meetings.

I sometimes wonder if that’s wrong. Is it a sin? Would God be disappointed that I’m not joining them?

Edit:

Thank you God.

Thank you so much all for sharing your thoughts and experiences. I never knew the words they have been sharing with me on text messages are not the same as the Bible.

Being closer to God alone is an ultimate blessing already so I will keep on politely telling them thank you but I am happy to stay as Catholic and God bless them.




Haha typical Japanese loophole present culture. They don’t hate you don’t worry. Older people especially those who are already retired are fond of giving fruits or anything they have to younger people they like.


何が正解なのか議論するつもりはないが、自分の命や人生よりも仕事が優先されるような国民性であれば、いずれこうした状況になるのも無理はないと思うよ。 働くことはもちろん大事だが、日本では自分のを犠牲にしてまで働いているように感じる。んで本当の幸せが分からなくなり、余裕がなくなり、生産性が下がり、周りまで影響を及ばす。 他の国はもう少しバランスを取っているんだよね。 本来人間は大昔から生きるために働くはずなのに、日本ではどこか働くために生きるようになってしまっているね。 順序が逆なんだよね。今の時代には少し合っていないのかもしれない。と30年ずっと日本に住んでる外人の私が日本に住んでみて思った。 夜中から失礼いたしました。全国の日本人の皆さんに言いたい→仕事以外にも幸せを見つけようよ。


Please go to your closest government hall or workforce association. They’ve been more improved now helping lots of foreigners who get power harassed at work. If you can hide it you can voice record as a proof.



People can now do everything anything they want at home without even going out the house hence very low in vitamin D and other good benefits of sun and air outside. Plus you get to move your body more if you are outside. So it’s better to consciously get out of your house especially early in the morning!









Japan has got yummy food all over (both healthy and unhealthy ones). Especially those ones that have lots of sugar on them so I would suggest to check what you have been eating, you might be shocked to find out that you’ve been taking much calories more than you grin by walking or moving all day everyday, although personally it’s not bad at all life is short you’re on vacation have fun and start your diet when you’re back home!








外国人が来るな!って感情的に叫ぶだけなのが、正直かなり残念。ちゃんと頭で考えれば、外国人や移民は歓迎しつつ、税金を日本人より多めに払ってもらい、犯罪や違反があれば送還+責任+大量の違約金を明確にする、みたいな形で経済的に活かすこともできるのになぁと思う。少子化の改善にもなるし。なんだか本当に残念。。みんな意外と賢くないんだなぁ。


Naaah tbh living here made my standards higher. I’m loving it here and would prefer to stay here than go back live in my own country. In this generation every country has its own issues, and for me issues in Japan are nothing compared to others… But then again this is my opinion and I’m not pushing anyone, goodluck to you friend. May you find the peace you desire in the choice you’ll make.

Btw, I believe China won’t start any war (they will continue to bully smaller countries though) because it’s their “sunshine” era and they’re currently strong economically now exceeding the US - they won’t do anything that will kill all these.


Just quit my friend. I know it’s easier said than done but there’s plenty of much better jobs in Japan and have better environment. Few of my friends (non Japanese) they quit their toxic IT companies an moved to coffee shops and Izakaya and they’ve never been happier since , although the pay is not that high but still your well being is more important


For stopping in “knowing” your spouse. Simple yet married couples tend to forget about how important this is. People change, physically, mentally and emotionally due to work, health issues or societal conditions sometimes in a good way sometimes in a badly way. It’s very dangerous, because not doing this would lead to misunderstanding, resentment, disconnection. Please stay interested in your spouse don’t stop knowing about them☺️









I am so sorry you’re going through hard times with raising special children. I hope you get whatever support you may need from the people around you or even free support from the government. Thank you for sharing your experiences. My partner and I have been struggling with infertility for years, and I’m on the verge of giving up (because of age factors) so I really appreciate you for sharing



I am very sorry you’re going through this. I have no better words to say but as a virtual friend I am very worried about yours and your child’s well being if you continue to stay with your husband. I don’t feel like he has respect for you at all… If your heart says you want to patch things up and give your marriage a chance, please try to consider counseling if that would help. I pray for you and your child’s happiness. God will help.







I’ve seen two of my friends, one female and one male, fall out of love. To summarize it short, thankfully, neither of them cheated; they were honest and chose to end the relationship in the end. The reason they gave was that the marriage was pushed to them indirectly by social pressure and family expectations. They said when they looked back they weren’t truly ready, and at those times during dating they weren’t even physically attracted to their partners. But still they went ahead with marriage because they believed it was the right path, with the right reasons like the felt they were good friends with their partners and trusted them, so why don’t get married? which made them feel the decision was probably right. As time went on, though, they realized they could no longer see their partners as romantic or sexual partners. The attraction faded completely, including sexual attraction, and the relationship shifted from being romantic to feeling more like a family bond. Eventually, when they faced the decision of whether to grow their family (like having kids etc) , it became the final realization that they couldn’t continue. I hope this helps? I hope this is not the same for you.


I’m sorry to break it down to you but it looks like you love him as a person or a family member than as a intimate opposite sex that you are physically attracted too. Let me know if I’m wrong. If I might be correct, please take time away and have a peaceful time for yourself alone to think away. I wish you goodluck








This!! I can’t explain it it’s ironic because if I don’t add sweet snacks like (but the way I eat one kiwi every night so it’s not like zero sugar) cake or pastries or chocolates you name it, my face would go too puffy. It’s weird because people say sugar would make you look bloated… It’s opposite for me 😅



I actually thought about that like maybe I just become happier if I eat sweets aside so I took photos, and I could literally tell it’s different I don’t know if it’s the glow or the eyes looks wider. But then you have a point if it makes me happier it probably shows in the face.




Is cutting sugar 100% bad at all?
Is cutting sugar 100% bad at all?

I’ve been eating clean for about five years now, along with doing light weight-lifting at home and walking at least 30 minutes a day. I’ve lost 10 kg, reached my ideal weight, and overall I feel great.

But there’s one thing I’ve noticed over the past few years: when I cut sugar almost completely, my appearance changes noticeably. For example, if I eat something like onion soup, a boiled egg, lettuce, and a thin sandwich for breakfast; grilled chicken for lunch; an iced matcha latte for a snack; and fish for dinner, I start to look pale and tired, and my face even seems to sag. However, if I add sweets—like chocolate, cake, or ice cream—my skin looks healthier and more glowy, and I feel lighter and better overall.

Is anyone else experiencing this? People always say we don’t need added sugar since we already get carbs from foods like rice and bread, but can someone explain why this might be happening to me?


Same here and finally someone posted this unpopular opinion. I used to jump on my husband like everyday just to get laid, in my 20s and early 30s I swore I even prayed to God to cool down my drive. Now I’m very peaceful emotionally and physically, and tbh once a week or even once a month is more than enough I’m even scared what if it would come back lol my husband and I get to focus more on conversation over meal or coffee, doing different hobbies together, traveling more. Our connection is much more meaningful now! It’s much deeper!!


Exactly! Hindi ba pedeng nainlove ka lang naman sa taong who happens to be wealthy? Bakit kasi masyadong binibigyan ng issue. Yung Sophia rin bat sya maiinis kay Chie, parang napakalinis nya, she needs to check herself on the mirror first. Be happy with people who are in love , they’re not cheating on anyone or stepping on people’s toes. Please focus more on retaliating people or groups who love corruption and stealing Filipino citizens’ money.










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I’m so sorry and tight hugs to you OP❤️ I’m in similar situation and we’ve been waiting for like forever 😭 I have lifted everything to God now as my husband and I have done everything we could for three years. Don’t worry OP we will get our babies in God’s time 🙏






My husband and I have been struggling with infertility for years, and I have two baby dolls in our bedroom. Because I'm a woman, people see it as acceptable — but if it were my husband, many would instantly assume something disturbing, like pedophilia. It's really sad. As for Michael Jackson, there was never any solid evidence proving he molested children. Can we just leave it at that? The truth will come out in time, if it's meant to. Until then, maybe we should stop making harsh judgments about someone who’s no longer here to defend themselves please.


37 honestly we are comfortably living with good health. We have caring family so we are very blessed and thankful enough but we’ve been struggling with infertility for years. We super badly want kids but we haven’t been blessed one yet. We tried adopting but so many people are adopting and we’re still waiting for our time.




Why is the American government fond of war?
Why is the American government fond of war?

Please forgive me to post this again as it got removed from the “NoStupidQuestions” sub.

Why does the U.S. government seem like they want more and more war? As a global leader, I can't recall a time when it clearly said, “We do not condone war.” Would saying that be so difficult? A statement like that could send a powerful message to the world, especially since America still holds major influence.

Is it because of its weapons industry or other economic profit interests tied to war? If so even without these profit America would still stay the lead in the world as it has lots of money. I may not fully understand the global situation, and I apologize if I’m missing something. I’m just someone from Asia who feels overwhelmed seeing so much violence and division around the world every day. To make things worse the current American government doesn’t help at all and only contributes to conflicts more.

Gratitude:

Thank you for all your inputs. According to your inputs It looks like eventhough America won’t run out of money they still want more even it causes more war. I am very scared because some countries’ governments in Asia are starting to copy current America’s. And it’s starting to cause division in the citizens and fight on each other 😢I pray to God that the world will soon be in peace.





What movie do you personally think deserves a prequel?
What movie do you personally think deserves a prequel?

If there's one movie that absolutely deserves a prequel, for me I would say it's I Am Legend. The story is so immersive and emotionally gripping that I felt like I was walking in the protagonist’s shoes from the very first scene to the last. Its plot is masterfully crafted, with a twist that’s both haunting and thought-provoking. What makes it even more compelling is how eerily plausible it feels—like a chilling glimpse into a future that could very well unfold on Earth.

While the absence of a prequel leaves us dangling in mystery, which has its own charm, I personally crave more. I want to know what led to that world, how it all began, and what choices shaped the fate we witnessed. The silence before the storm is a story waiting to be told.



It’s a trend and trend is scary because you feel it’s okay and looks good because everybody is doing it. And even if people would say bad about it they would think, I’m not alone anyway everybody is doing it.


I hope this is not the case but I know some very good looking (to the point where a lot of people regardless of gender can’t help not to stare when they pass him) men that are respectful and kind hearted too, but they were porn addict, and asexual.


I saw few recent studies that highlighted some concerning health risks associated with everyday products. One study found that cooking stoves at home (statistically speaking women cook more than men) emit hazardous gases that can affect lung health and potentially increase the risk of cancer. Another study identified that powdered cosmetics might contain asbestos, which can be inhaled daily. So I guess this might be additional factors.




くりはま花の国 Kurihama Hana no Kuni

and

ソレイユの丘 Soleil Park

Both are huge nature parks located in Yokosuka that I really recommend, with sporty/adventury type of playgrounds that adults can enjoy too!



Hi there kabayan! (I’m half Filipino /Japanese grew up in PH till HS) We live in Yokosuka Chuo station, very convenient, cheap, international, and not too far away from Yokohama station (30mins by Keikyu line) . I work remotely (US company) and our office is at Osaki station Tokyo , so whenever I go to Tokyo it’s around an hour to go there.

Please feel free to DM me if you need more information or help.


Have you tried searching for him on social platforms like Facebook or Instagram? If yes and haven’t had the luck yet, I would suggest to ask Jijikai in the neighborhood if you could post a message on their bulletin board about the person and to call you to catch up and say your personal thank you. Goodluck!





Due to chickens' short lifespan, can farmers simply wait for them to die naturally to use their meat instead?
Due to chickens' short lifespan, can farmers simply wait for them to die naturally to use their meat instead?

Can anyone please share a serious answer? Pretty much the question. Instead of killing these innocent chickens against their will, can we just let them live and use their meat when their die? It doesn’t seem unhealthy, it’s the same meat. Unless they die because of an epidemic. I just saw the a video of chicken or animal farm for food… It’s just… So sad…




It would be much better if movie theaters add old or classic film trailers during the previews.
It would be much better if movie theaters add old or classic film trailers during the previews.

It seems that as time progresses , older movies are becoming less accessible or should I say new generation gets less “knowledge “ about. Introducing trailers for classic films during theater previews could highlight what audiences might be missing out on and encourage them to explore these timeless gems.

Edit: Thank you for your inputs. First of please excuse this robotic grammar as English is not my first language so I used an AI to rephrase my grammar in a better way. Second, I am fully aware that movie theaters advertise new movies for profit. But just one or two old movies trailers that can be what, within 1-2 minutes, would not hurt would it?

Anyway I just feel somewhat sorry for people especially new generation on great movies they might be missing on. This subreddit helps a lot to share great movies together though…



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