r/WomenAreNotIntoMen

alot of men have a false sense of confidence and superiority just because they were able to "attract" a woman in high school. they don't realize that the women that supposedly are attracted to them will want sex a lot less frequently than they do. and the sex their women want is only sex that makes them feminine and submissive, not mutual sex where both partners feel desired and wanted.

these men think they're chads because one woman likes to use them for utility. so with that false inflated sense of confidence come to this subreddit and say "women are straight bro, they just want men with good looks and you're just ugly bro." they are so stupid you could never convince them that women's desire towards men just isn't that strong regardless of looks. they will never get it. they will continue eroticizing chad and masturbating to the idea of being a chad rather than admit that maybe they aren't that desirable in the first place, and they're just being utilized for something they don't realize yet

But can you blame them when even straight women see PIV sex as something to "power through" too?

Straight women complain about:

-most men being unattractive to them

-receiving male attention when out and about

-receiving dick pics or sexual pics from men they're already in relationships with

-sex being boring to the point where they fake orgasms to get it over with

-straight porn not being as good as lesbian porn

No wonder so many lesbians think they're straight for so long while being grossed out by men at the same time. The line between straight woman/lesbian is very thin because of how fluid so many "straight" women are.

There are probably way more women in the closet than men (even though social media obsesses over men more) because society is not honest enough about female sexuality.

A lot of people here use insults like "improve your personality and you might get a girlfriend" or " there are happily married men and women living together ' etc etc are missing the entire point of this sub.

It's about how women barely show sexual interest in men the way men do to women. Men are out there inserting what they call "goonerbait" into their meme compilations. Goonerbait is usually adding a sexy woman into the meme and simp for her. There is no female equivalent to that. Women barely even think about men in a sexual way, as stated by women themselves

Literally a woman just existing is considered goonerbait apparently because men will literally go nuts over a woman who is simply attractive.

Do you see that with men? Only by gay men, never by women.

This sub needs more analysis on the way women and men work on their attraction to prove the point that men are simply hornier for women and women are never horny for men.

women always fantasize about being the princess that is protected by a dominant high status men and even with these high status men they dont actually love their bodies they love how much feminine validation they give her. they just want to feel feminine and submissive, they dont actually want men.

Title says it all.

It started off as this whole “Start holding yourself to a higher standard and don’t let bum men mistreat you!!!” internet phenomenon. This is actually good and fine. But it has gone too far in that direction and now it’s just a complete lack of accountability and everything you do is valid and you’re the prize and he has to work for you and IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD!! and actually it’s okay if you have your own issues and traumas that cause you to act in certain ways and burden your boyfriend because a true man will look past those flaws and reassure you and work you through it like a wonderful cinema trope, you don’t actually have to work on improving your likability as a person and also it’s now quirky to be grumpy and stressed and overstimulated all the time (excuse to be an asshole) and live off a caffeinated beverage and a vape until 4PM lmaooo walk him like a dog sis that’s princess treatment!!!

It’s become ridiculous.

You can look anywhere. Most intimate/romantic arts are by men. Only ones directed to men are from homo/bisexual men or just as admiration, also from men. From women it's who, Sappho?

Men are always labeled as pervy and sex hungry while gaslighting and showing women as these gentle, honourable beings with no ounce of this sinful behavior of sexual attraction.

I don't want to justify sexual crimes that's crime no matter what but still normal amounts of sexual attraction is just fucking biological, males having sexual attraction is literally the driving force to thrive one's species, it's extreme version seldom surfacing is bad, but not just plainly disgusting, it's still essential.

Or this bs that men like youth and beauty in women and women are fucking pragmatic ass warren buffet ass who look for stability and status in men, this is like describing a gold digger I can't lie.

Then there's this larp that "women get ridiculed for showing attraction" so do men? You may get called r*pist as a guy, directly or indirectly, even when you're not anything wrong like that. There were these trends like no nut november and all this shit of men trying to control sexual desire to extremes and all I see is women commenting "oh very nice of you to suppress this" like this girl is on a moral high ground and never felt an ounce of attraction ever like she's master fucking yoda all these women are fucking jedis
Just fucking say you don't wanna fuck a men in unison bruh what is this gaslighting

Then this another cope that "men are visual beings" what the fuck does that even mean, who the fuck is jerking off to fucking words on pages in wild

Whole nature is just a clown show too, males be doing all sorts of goofy shit to get a female, who knows how many get randomly slaughtered in this like a fucking joke.
How many videos and sources are there of males of a species going bonkers for a female, or females doing all sorts of things like playing dead to avoid a male? At least thousands. At least life could be better as a male in male-biased dimorphic species, those species with weaker males going around being purely pathetic, feeling like a pathetic little chud hopelessly wandering. Or many male birds being more colorful because it's a clown show too, be good or die like a joke. It's at extreme in nature, female attraction for males is completely non existent in nature.

It's everywhere and easy to notice, just embarrassing to talk about it right now. It's frustrating, why are we left in this ominous cloud, just say it as it is.

If WANIM goes mainstream it wouldn't take even 100 years of propaganda to dim it because the evidence is just too strong to unsee.

Lust is a societal construct created by Men to express their desire , its normalized by men hence women kept up with it cuz its normalized, Men's lust is quite Predatory and One Sided its disgusting and is Forced on Women

Its just another statement telling you that you are sexually unattractive, thats what they dont want you to know. Men should stop falling for the "you become sexually attractive when you're kind and sweet". Women dont hold rare hot looking guys to this standard and everytime this gets said a womans outcome will come out as guilt tripping & manipulative with name calling comments like "incel" or "loser" and other negative words etc cause its the truth.

One Good Thing Happened using this sub is I stopped watching Porn, Men's Lust is quite disgusting when you think about it , its predatory,