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It's perfect. You're perfect. Don't listen to the negatives. It IS authentically you; that comes across with complete clarity. You need only be perfect for one person. I would not recommend changing anything. The right guy for you is obviously someone who is not afraid of a wildfire chick such as you but welcomes at total partner in crime. Don't change a word. Anything else someone needs to know about you they will be sure to ask because it seem clear nothing is going to offend you and you'll be willing and eager to communicate openly and honestly about anything.

But yeah, pictures are mandatory.

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I am struggling to write this OP. On the one hand, this comes off as sincerely you. Nothing is quite as sexy as authenticity.

On the other hand, this is a bit "willing to do anything please tell me what to do." I genuinely like that my sbs are willing to do stuff that I like sometimes, but I do want them to have agency of their own. Things they know (as adults) that they prefer, even if sometimes they do other things.

I wish I knew how to be more specific OP. I want you to keep the level of authenticity that you seem to show here. I think you really would be up for all those things and more. But I think it would help to have some substance that shows you are more than someone to boss around. You do have actual passions, not just "whatever* someone wants from you.

Good luck either way!

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I see where your getting at, it really doesn’t show personality and comes off pretty generic because it seems like she’s just rattling off activities. What activities truly interest you and you invest your time in? What type of dining do you prefer, what activities do you enjoy with others? Etc etc. this just sounds like “I’ll be your plus one regardless of who YOU ARE”. Ideally, both parties want a match. Not a pick me.

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I thought this was for a SD. Yikes Im out

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A profile review, exciting! Reminder to reviewers to focus on constructive and actionable changes OP can make to increase their chances of success.

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I think it's great overall (although I'm not an SD). "Funnier than thou" comes off kind of negative and competitive, and I'd suggest writing more under "what I'm looking for" (keeping in mind that men pay to unlock these answers).

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A) without great pictures a profile is useless. No reason to read

B) wrong site. Seeking is the biggest so you should concentrate your efforts there first.

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